HOW CAN ONE DEVELOP HIGHER SELF ESTEEM?
2006-09-08 18:02:11 · 27 answers · asked by Ultimate Diva 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
OK girl, the thing you need to do is to be comfortable with yourself, try not to focus more on negative stuff as it puts our self esteem down....A girl with a higher self esteem is the one who is confident and comfortable. Always tell yourself how down to earth a person you are, and you can do anything, achieve anything ,if you put your heart on to it. I am not telling you to be proud or arrogant, you need to just appreciate yourself more, remember we are all different and what you are is nobody else!!! Cheers....
2006-09-08 18:09:51 · answer #1 · answered by Nailhead_pixie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I use to have the same problem and it's very simple. Keep yourself very busy doing positive things. Always do everything you can do to improve yourself. Exercise regularly (healthy body truley does equal an extremely healthy mind ). Don't dwell on negative thoughts-get busy doing positive! NEVER, and I mean NEVER let criticism or insults get to you. Laugh at the naysayers! Keep yourself focused. The naysayers will never perish-they will be with you forever. Look at where the naysayers end up-Nowhere. Pray to God because he will do everything to help you. Trust me you will see a huge difference. I hope I helped you. I had the lowest self esttem in the world when I was young, but you will never find a more confident person alive today.
2006-09-09 01:10:14 · answer #2 · answered by Ned B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off. Smile. All the time. Even when you dont feel like it, smile. It really makes you happier.
Next take a good look in the mirror and figure out what make up and hair style suits your face. Go have a makeover if you can afford it. Wear only clothes that flatter you.
then, you need to replace the friends you have who are critical of you.
Dont linger on your perceived flaws. Everyone has them and they usually aren't worth dwelling on. Try to be positive about yourself
And SMILE!
2006-09-09 01:10:05 · answer #3 · answered by eddie9551 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Workout, Eat right, Treat yourself, Talk positive
SET GOALS like get up 5 am and run in the morning to make yourself feel good thus the thought of looking better and higher confidence. Be very strict on your schedule.
Do everything in accordance
2006-09-09 01:05:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If one is esteemed highly enough by others then (s)he will have no need for "self-esteem". Be a person who does things which make you worthy of esteem from others.
WK
2006-09-09 01:08:29 · answer #5 · answered by olin1963 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know the most, think the most and feel the most that you possibly can. Don't sell yourself short for any reason. Especially to be with a man (or woman as the case may be).
2006-09-09 08:58:58 · answer #6 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use the correct method " Mature Advice Needed Pleases " it means you respect others, society and keep valves.
2006-09-09 01:04:47 · answer #7 · answered by rosh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe that God loves you, you are His child, and He has made you for a special purpose in this world. Attend church and learn how you can use the special talents He gave you to improve the world around you.
2006-09-09 01:06:39 · answer #8 · answered by _me_ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found that humility helps one to develop and increase the esteem in which they are held
2006-09-09 01:05:48 · answer #9 · answered by Daddy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a empowerment class. Try holistic health classes. And self help group therapy.
2006-09-09 01:03:52 · answer #10 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋