or tell them you want to see other people after a 2yr relationship?
2006-09-08 18:10:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You sit him down, and tell him the truth about your feelings. Wouldn't you want him to do the same if he was in your position?
2006-09-08 18:13:24 · answer #1 · answered by genmarch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to find somewhere to live and a quick exit strategy then just be truthful and tell him your feelings have changed. There is no easy way out of it but if you got a plan then you will be in better shape and can just leave after breaking it to him.
2006-09-08 18:14:16 · answer #2 · answered by tpurtygrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out when he is at work and leave your ring behind. Leave a few pictures or you with "other people" behind also. This just might start to lead him down the path of the possibly that there could be a little problem.
2006-09-08 18:23:40 · answer #3 · answered by donronsen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you are bored of him and now you wanna taste more ppl
to extinguish your desire of being with a lot of guys.
why to even say - simply leave a note and leave.
its not worth to have gfs like that or even trying to work out with gals like that. such kind are the ones responsible for making relationships a game and increased shamelessness in human reace.
by the way - these are the ones who later complain - MEN ARE PIGS.
people like you have made making and breaking of relationships a game and more of a bussiness contract than being a commitment.
2006-09-08 18:21:12 · answer #4 · answered by i don know y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty, is always the best policy. He deserves to know. What you do to other will come back to bite you, so be careful with his emotions. The one that gets hurt, may just be you. Think really hard, is that what your heart is telling you to do. Or is someone else pumping you will false hope! "Go Figure"
2006-09-08 18:22:13 · answer #5 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you agree to a marriage and get engaged if you wanted to see other people? Sounds like you had your chance to say so when he asked you for your hand in marriage.
2006-09-08 18:14:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say, "I'm sorry, this just isn't working out. We have this, this and this problem now, and getting married isn't going to make it better. We need to go our separate ways." Talk about it so you both understand your reasons, then do it. Pack up your stuff and go. Anything else is just leading him on, and that's cruel.
2006-09-08 18:22:24 · answer #7 · answered by rainchaser77 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say, "Honey I want to break up and I want to start seeing other people."
2006-09-08 18:16:06 · answer #8 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell him coz this is really serious matter.
maybe he wants the same thing but did not have the guts to tell you.
be cool, hounest, and ratoinal
2006-09-08 18:15:17 · answer #9 · answered by Ms.genuine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just say " Darlin'" I want to be free---and YOU need to be free!! so you can move on and find someone whom will love you.... As I can not.. Am sorry, You and I both need to move on..
2006-09-08 18:20:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋