I've just moved to Melbourne from Scotland via Adelaide. Before I went to Adelaide, I met (slept with, heh) a guy in melbourne and we kept in touch for the few months I was over there.
I decided to go back to Melbourne because I liked it here and figured if I hate Adelaide and I'm only going to be in Oz for a year, I might as well go back.
So I get here and its cool for about 10 minutes, then he starts acting like a dickhe@d,
I dont really want to be with a dickhe@d, BUT, he is pretty much the only friend (or whatever) I have here just now. He was cool before and I dont understand why someone would keep in touch with me, be all exited when I told him I was going to move back here and trave 400 miles to visit me in Adelaide only to completely dismiss me when I get here.
I'm in the city now and really want to give him a call but I still feel confused as to why he is acting this way. My brain is saying "ditch him", but I may already have been ditched. Dunno what to do. Guys??
2006-09-08 18:14:30 · 9 answers · asked by lilredhead 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You could always try talking to him about this. Otherwise how are you ever going to find out what is happening for him.
Othert than that I would say get a hobby and use this hobby to meet like minded people1
This will stop the focus from being fully on him.
Maybe he felt under some sort of pressure from you? Maybe you felt needy because he was the only person you know? either way it wouldn't do any harm to get out there and make other friends. This would sort out your feelings of isolation and you wouldn't have so much time on your hands to second guess this guys motives for acting in this way.
You are brave to be travelling in this way, so you are capable of getting out there and meeting new people.
Try to not put all your eggs in one basket, so to speak!
Good luck!
2006-09-08 21:16:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go out with a guy just because you are lonely, it is not a relationship of equals. He will be able to treat you like crap for the whole time you are together.
I thought Australia was full of some of the friendliest people around... bung something on the barbie and start socialising....afterall you you have to lose is an a$$hole.
Good luck
2006-09-08 19:19:27 · answer #2 · answered by All the answers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother, the guy's an ***, not worth wasting time over him, you'll just be going around in a circle
2006-09-08 18:27:06 · answer #3 · answered by sadfjlhasldf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve better than to be treated like this. It is his loss, forgive me for saying this but the guy is a jerk!
2006-09-08 18:22:21 · answer #4 · answered by The Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that guy doesn't deserve your time you need to move on and meet other people and make better friends
2006-09-08 18:19:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its apower thing.he knows that he's your only friend,or whatever,and is trying to get you to beg for his company.
2006-09-08 19:41:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone and go out find new friends.
2006-09-08 18:20:15 · answer #7 · answered by Kyle M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO LEAVE THIS GUY ALONG, HE NOT GOING
TO DO RIGHT BY YOU. SO CUT YOUR LOSES NOW.
2006-09-08 18:19:41 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't just give it to him when he wants , or when you are lonely,
he is an *** you can do better then that ,,,,
2006-09-08 18:19:02 · answer #9 · answered by E.M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋