Family & Relationships - 8 September 2006

ok, so yesterday i asked if a guy liked me because i had thought he did, but then he stopped talking to me.... then today(a day before the dance) he starts up again... i caught him starring at me, he would find any possible way to touch me (like put his hand on my sholder, or would tap me as he would walk by) he was laughing at me in class today, then asked if i was going to the dance, and when i answered yes... he smiled and said cool.

The point is, we have been friends for like four years... so it seems a little akward to me, plus, all my friends tell me not to go out with him no matter what. Im afraid he might ask me out at the dance, and right now im having mixed fellings. I dont want to ruin our friendship.

what should i do?

2006-09-08 18:54:14 · 8 answers · asked by Katie 1 in Singles & Dating

Please, do not laugh or say it sucks. If it does then just leave positive feedback anyways, with some advice.

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We've seen every city
Every highway
We know everone we've met
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2006-09-08 18:53:30 · 14 answers · asked by bag1794 1 in Singles & Dating

There are three of us. And we r sooo bored! My parents wont let us be loud or go outside or anything. and theres no good board games to play. What should we do?

2006-09-08 18:52:29 · 9 answers · asked by Confused4ever1 1 in Friends

Are they subconsciously looking for a fat wallet or well endowed man.

2006-09-08 18:52:17 · 13 answers · asked by wanttolpve 4 in Singles & Dating

Known him for 11 years, lived together for 4 years, 6 years later finally got married. His overly suspcious, checks the cell phone constantly, has developed a certain self-destructive habit, and yet in the same breath states that he is sooo in love with me and no other. Its been about 90 days plus and all we do is constantly disagree on just about everything. Do I still want this marriage to last? I'm not sure!

2006-09-08 18:52:06 · 8 answers · asked by notsureanymore 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my ex-boyfriend decided to be friends for now, after trying a relationship for 2 months. He realised that it was too early for him to go into relationship when he is still emotionaly unstable after his separation from his wife whom he is dealing divorce. He still cares about me and still wants to be friends with me closely excluding sex, but to talk. He calls me everyday. I felt so special about him, but now it is making me feel very sad, because as soon as we became friends, without any time gasp, he started talking about his wife in an very emotional way. I hope that I will be friends with him, but at the same time it is hard now. At the same time I do not want to cut off completely just in case either of us has STD or pregnancy... (in a worse scenario). I felt he was my soulmate, but obviously not... and it makes me feeling so sad, and actually feeling physical pain. I am not despratae, but would I someday meet a souldmate? I am so unsure about everything now.

2006-09-08 18:50:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he has many female friends
many of them like him
they spend hours online waiting for him to sign in and that what makes him appear offline most of the time
should i hide my jealousy

they appear online on his forworded emails
i find their online smiley faces only in the mornin and at nite (these r his favorite times to check his mail)

should i hide my jealousy ?

2006-09-08 18:50:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-08 18:49:14 · 22 answers · asked by tinatina303303 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been in a relationship with a man for 3 years. we met in a t a drug treatment recovery center. He is a womanizer. We have been living together for 1 1/2 years. Due to the type of business he is in he has many females in his life. I don't know if they are business associates or his lovers. Now he has cancer and is receiving chemotherapy. I am his support because we live together and I am caring for him. Although he has outside friends, since he chose to live with me, I am being his caregiver,, will I be the one that he marries, become totally committed to once he gets well. Will he let go of these outside relationships and know that I am the woman for him, solely. He told me once that as long as he is not married he can have as many women as he wants. I am 48, he is 54. Based on what I've stated, after his illness, will he love me enough to change his ways.

2006-09-08 18:49:05 · 3 answers · asked by victory 1 in Singles & Dating

what if i like only like a kind of ppl (korean) what should i do if my partent do like me to be with them?

2006-09-08 18:48:47 · 3 answers · asked by happypeach28 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-08 18:47:12 · 34 answers · asked by Jenny 3 in Family

Hello everyone my husband and I will be married for 4 years on the 8th of October I know it's a little ways off but I want to get some ideas on how to celebrate that day anyone have some good ideas??????

2006-09-08 18:47:05 · 14 answers · asked by blondeqtwitanicebooty 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I think Maury favors women more than men, when men cheating on women or not taking the responsibilities for their babies, everyone in the audience & Maury dogging at men. But when the role is reverse, women cheating on men & not knowing who's the father of her baby & the paternity result shows the babies belong to someone else. Maury would console the women like they're the victims, he'd say something like "Aww, that's OK, we'll help u to find ur baby's father". To the men, he'd try to convince the men to raise someone else's babies by bringing up his own personal experience & saying something like "U know what, I've raise my children eventhough they aren't biologically mine & I'd love them just as much as they were my own. Anyone can make a baby but it takes a real man to be the father of that baby" That's a B.S why is he always assume everyone has to listen to his personal story and follow his footstep? Why doesn't Maury dog at the cheating women but only at the cheating men?

2006-09-08 18:46:19 · 7 answers · asked by Infinite 4 in Family

I am currently separated from my husband of 13 years. We've been apart for 2 years. Recently we've been trying to work things out but I'm not 100% sure about this whole thing. We've been struggling with our marriage for 10 years. Anyways, I went out tonight with a gf to watch a friend of mine play drums in his band. I've kinda had a crush on him and tonight I found out he's been asking my gf about me and she told him I was getting back with my ex. She never told me he was interested in me however I always picked up on his vibe. He was always touching me, smiling at me and tonight he acted a lot different. I guess my dilemma is I really don't want to go back wit h my ex when I seem to be interested in everyone but him. I keep running into these great guys but I'm still tyed to the ex even though I don't wanna be so I never get a chance with these guys. What should I do?

2006-09-08 18:45:25 · 24 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-08 18:44:58 · 14 answers · asked by ausaramenra2000 2 in Singles & Dating

If you had to pick one super power to have, what will it be? What will you use your powers for? If you have a funny idea about it, type it.

2006-09-08 18:44:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-08 18:44:20 · 10 answers · asked by jade 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 16. One of my good friends, is acting differently around me. I came back to school. She starts doing things differently. Steals my hat all the time, all of a sudden sits next to me all the time, and hugs me. Riped a hole in one of my shirts, asks for my jewerly, draws pictures for me. but the dilema see does hug some other guys. She was drawing pictures with me before, stole my hat on occasion. Everything now is just more constant. And her favorite things in a male fits my description

My thing is whether this is deep friendship or she likes me

2006-09-08 18:43:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been friends w/ someone for several years , every time I talk to this person, see this person they amaze me, this person no matter when i call always is available when I want to see them We live in different states but only 350 miles away. This has been going on for years. I don't know how to say I acually have very strong feelings for this person without jeaprodizing the friendship if they do not feel the same wayand changing the comfort level when we meet up what do I do?

2006-09-08 18:43:44 · 5 answers · asked by sherry s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-08 18:43:16 · 7 answers · asked by SuzieQ92 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have met a great man. I still have a lot more to get to know. This is my first interracial relationship. What are some of the obsticals that are different then any other relationship? They all require work.

2006-09-08 18:42:50 · 13 answers · asked by kerry9477 4 in Singles & Dating

i really was not expecting this, but suddenly my bestfriend approach me and told me he does like me, i was shock and dont know what to say, what the heck should i do?

2006-09-08 18:42:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I started dating this guy about 3 weeks ago. This was no ordinary guy- I've been in love with him since I was 12 (I'm 20 now). I had to wait 8 years, but finally, finally, he asked me out. To say the least, I was euphoric, couldn't believe that my patience had paid off. Anyways, a week ago, we consummated our relationship, and he hasn't returned my calls since. In my defense, I've only left him 2 voicemails this week. The last time we saw each other, he said "our relationship is weird and we need to talk about it." I told him to call me to talk about it. Nada. When we started dating, he promised me that he wasn't just "using" me. I'm dealing with an incredible amount of stress right now, relating to family and work, and I just don't know how I'll be able to handle another loved one abandoning me. I'm just afraid that I'm going to hurt myself. Especially if he chooses to just never return my calls again. I just don't know how much more I can take.

2006-09-08 18:41:46 · 9 answers · asked by Sophie21 1 in Singles & Dating

this is for girls and guys....what body types are you attracted too? What color and length of hair? Eye? Everything...

2006-09-08 18:41:28 · 9 answers · asked by a.john89 2 in Singles & Dating

Here's a relatively complicated situation:

1. A friend of mine has a father that once had a green card for the US. As they left to go back to their country, they would probably have to start again.

2. The above party was married to someone & they were never officially divorced in the state of California - even thought the couple hasn't lived together for years. As such, they are having a hard time getting the party back into the USA (the other party has married and divorced twice since then).

3. While my friend has been able to track down the party that has married and divorced twice, the party is less than willing to actually support getting an official divorce.

Are there any resources that the family could use to get their father back into the USA?

2006-09-08 18:41:14 · 2 answers · asked by Damon 5 in Marriage & Divorce

a good friend of mine her and i lost some contact over the past year i moved and moved back so we started talking again about two weeks ago. she is going through a seperation right now and called me to help her out and watch the kids for her. I suggested we do a movie night at her house for old times and catch up. she said it sounded like a good idea..I called her three days ago left a message telling her i was off from work till mon if she needed help with anything to call me and see if she wanted the movie night this weekend. i have not heard back from her still.. im not sure if she was just using me and would like some advice to know if i should call her to see if she still wants to get together any advice appreciated

2006-09-08 18:39:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

control over you and you dont realize it and one day it breaks you wake up

2006-09-08 18:39:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im really depressed. can someone say something funny or like tell me n e thing to cheer me up. say watever u want even if it is mean. watever pops up in ur head is bound to bringme a t least a giggle.
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2006-09-08 18:39:02 · 9 answers · asked by so_totally_awesome13 3 in Singles & Dating

i've been with this guy for almost 4yrs.. we broke up. he hurt me sooo bad!! well, despite that, i still managed & allowed him to see me. i was still hopeful though that we can still work it out & save the relationshp. we've tried to talk several times but we never came up with anything at all.. he doesn't want to commit but still wanna see me... until such time a gurl claiming to be his gf sent me a text msg.. i was hurt but learned to let go............ he's wanting me back now but he's still with that gurl! he told me, he's gonna break up with her. it's confusing me... should i give him another chance?? or jst drop it and move on? pls advice

2006-09-08 18:38:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is that everytime something is bothering me dealing with my boyfriend and i want to talk about it he does not want to talk about it and wants to get off the phone with me. He says that I amalways fussing and complaining. I feel as if I am not being heard. The anger just boils up in me and I just want to hurt him. It is always his way. What should I do or say for him to finally get him to listen to how I feel about things. What can I do to make him know that I am sick and tired of not being heard and respected on my feelings. There is no point in being in relationship if you are not happy!!!

2006-09-08 18:35:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships