i've been with this guy for almost 4yrs.. we broke up. he hurt me sooo bad!! well, despite that, i still managed & allowed him to see me. i was still hopeful though that we can still work it out & save the relationshp. we've tried to talk several times but we never came up with anything at all.. he doesn't want to commit but still wanna see me... until such time a gurl claiming to be his gf sent me a text msg.. i was hurt but learned to let go............ he's wanting me back now but he's still with that gurl! he told me, he's gonna break up with her. it's confusing me... should i give him another chance?? or jst drop it and move on? pls advice
2006-09-08 18:38:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont know really, but i do konw one thing. dont give him any chance at all unless youre sure hes not going out with anyone else!
2006-09-08 18:42:12 · answer #1 · answered by shaped 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive never had a bf b4, but this sounds as if u get back with him, theres a chance he might do the same thing again. Hurt u. And im only bein a realist. It seems pretty hard gettin over sum1 who was in a 4 year relationship wit u. Cuz if he doesnt wanna commit, and Still hasnt broken up wit that girl, than wat does that say. 'You shoulda dumped her long time ago, if u want me.' I hope u work everything out, and jus try and forget about him. He doesnt seem worth it ne more.
♥Good lucks♥
2006-09-08 18:57:43 · answer #2 · answered by jaz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Is this really how you want to live your life? I mean, seriously- do you enjoy this drama and hurt and pain and "working it out" and breaking up and confusion? If that's how you want to live your life, and that's the man you want to marry and he's the one you want to be fathering your children, then you're welcome to him
If I were you, I'd end it with him and then get some counselling to find out why you put up with that crap for 4 years. It's NOT NORMAL. And it's not love, either. It's kind of sick.
2006-09-08 18:43:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dont give in! if he got with another girl and wants to come back [and the fact that he hurt you] he better stick with that girl because [im not saying you will but still its your choice] your not going back!
2006-09-08 18:46:53 · answer #4 · answered by Penguin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, get away from him asap. He wants his cake and eat it too.
He has no respect for anyone, only cares about his feelings.
You should call the girl and have her meet you for lunch. He would die...Show him he cant play with ppls feelings.
Hes a DOG
2006-09-08 18:46:52 · answer #5 · answered by Sandra♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm that's an easy one. if he had this girlfriend behind your back and still has her then he is a scumbag. you deserve better.. ditch him fast nothing but heartache there...
By the way.. you should post your age. I think you are very young and naive or you would know the answer already.
2006-09-08 18:41:33 · answer #6 · answered by regina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on...He is going to keep playing these mind games with you for as long as you allow him to.
2006-09-08 18:43:50 · answer #7 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. You are not a yo-yo and life is too short for the games that he's playing.
2006-09-08 18:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by aunyadee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well the problem is your letting him see you even tho you broke up.. also it looks like sex maybe a role in it. i say give him another chance i think that the girl that text messaging u is him.. he just want to see wat your reaction is.. trust me we guys do this sometimes. if its just sex tho then its better just to let him go if not then take him back
2006-09-08 18:49:23 · answer #9 · answered by soo_sick_of_lovesongs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do some women like guys that crap all over them over and over again he wants someone to toy with all over again move on close the chapter on that book
2006-09-08 18:42:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋