I have been friends w/ someone for several years , every time I talk to this person, see this person they amaze me, this person no matter when i call always is available when I want to see them We live in different states but only 350 miles away. This has been going on for years. I don't know how to say I acually have very strong feelings for this person without jeaprodizing the friendship if they do not feel the same wayand changing the comfort level when we meet up what do I do?
2006-09-08 18:43:44 · 5 answers · asked by sherry s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i know some one with the same thing going on... my daughter has a long time friend who told her he had feelings for her.. they have been friends for a long time she told him she dint.. has not changed a thing.. and to be honest i see it happening with these two. so go ahead and tell them. your friendship wont and dint have to end or be awkward over that and who knows maybe they feel the same way they have been and are all ways their for u. good luck
2006-09-08 18:50:11 · answer #1 · answered by Ozark American 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can i make an assumption.... dont be offended if im wrong, but, are you talking about a friend of the same sex? if so, and ur friend is straight, dont go there, thats my advice, if thats not the case and the gay issue isnt involved then i gues its a very personal and individualised thing. it depends totally on you as a person and your friend and the type of relatrionship you both have now. i really think you should weigh up the pros and cons, if the worst outcome is the friendship is over then can you handle that? the best is that you would both be together, and if that happens can you handle being with someone who lives 350 miles away? very tough. if its a same sex thing let me know and il give you advice............. Ive been there!............. if not i reckon, what ever decision you make ul be making the right one, because everything we do and everything that happens is happening for a reason, so dont worry about it all so much.
2006-09-09 01:58:11 · answer #2 · answered by milliekinillie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my twin sister(Summer think that u should be very careful what u do. before u let this special someone know that u have for feelings for them that go beyond friendship, make sure that they kind of show fondness towards you so that u wont bust up the friendship or for that matter get your heart broken!!1
2006-09-09 01:49:45 · answer #3 · answered by The heartbreaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be this person is interested in you too. if you don't ask, you will never know. so ask and be brave. good luck
2006-09-09 01:45:51 · answer #4 · answered by pianist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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is the website of someone who just had their best friend tell them they had feelings for her... email her and ask her how this person told her they had feelings for her
2006-09-09 01:45:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋