Known him for 11 years, lived together for 4 years, 6 years later finally got married. His overly suspcious, checks the cell phone constantly, has developed a certain self-destructive habit, and yet in the same breath states that he is sooo in love with me and no other. Its been about 90 days plus and all we do is constantly disagree on just about everything. Do I still want this marriage to last? I'm not sure!
2006-09-08 18:52:06 · 8 answers · asked by notsureanymore 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would get very real with each other, and decide is being so opinionated more important than truly trying to compromise and except each other for who you are! I would take a real hard look at the situation. What are the reasons for the cheating suspicion? I think what you both need to establish is what are the deal breakers meaning it's over and what are you both willing to do to truly respect each other and that begins with trust. I wish you the best of luck, if he is playing well then that for me would be a deal breaker. Good luck!
2006-09-08 18:58:09 · answer #1 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So how long are you gonna keep wasting your life with the sociopath? He's suspicious, checking the cell, and now has a self-destructive habit. What more does he have to do for you to get up and walk out?? Become a murderer? He's controlling - that's obvious from the leeriness, he's manipulative, he's too immature to think of you when it comes to his habit that he seems to want to keep around more than he wants you! I'm not young and foolish. I'm not stupid. I do know what I'm talking about girlfriend, and you really need to get on with your life or if you want the relationship to work it HAS to become a HEALTHY relationship! When there is NO trust on BOTH parties, there is NO relationship. Counseling, counseling, counseling!! Seperate and together. Remember - trust not just trustworthiness. Good Luck!
2006-09-08 19:07:23 · answer #2 · answered by yokrem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't that some one would be with you for 11 years and not be serious about the marriage in any kind of way.
However, if you plan on being with him be straight up about how you feel and maybe seek counseling together If that do not work the only thing you can do it accept it ot leave
2006-09-08 19:07:00 · answer #3 · answered by Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to have a sit down hear to heart talk with your husband. Tell him what you've told us. Tell him you want the truth. Maybe you should check his cell and the cell bills.
2006-09-08 18:59:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to call cheaters find out for yourself the truth is in the spying
2006-09-08 18:54:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know..it's outrageous!
2006-09-08 18:53:45 · answer #6 · answered by mahajafanies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah and ur broke down now.. .lol
2006-09-08 18:53:28 · answer #7 · answered by portlandutb503 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
[.JUSME]. I TOTLAAY AGREE WITH ON THIS MATTER. ?
2006-09-08 19:54:10 · answer #8 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋