Why is that everytime something is bothering me dealing with my boyfriend and i want to talk about it he does not want to talk about it and wants to get off the phone with me. He says that I amalways fussing and complaining. I feel as if I am not being heard. The anger just boils up in me and I just want to hurt him. It is always his way. What should I do or say for him to finally get him to listen to how I feel about things. What can I do to make him know that I am sick and tired of not being heard and respected on my feelings. There is no point in being in relationship if you are not happy!!!
2006-09-08 18:35:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you are not happy in this relationship then get out and move on. You will never be happy with someone like that and there is no way to change him. It is better to know now than when you're 3 months pregnant with his child.
2006-09-08 18:39:16 · answer #1 · answered by charity2882 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally understand how you feel, I just recently went through this, and talking over the phone is not the way to do it, he has the option of hanging up, DONT GIVE HIM THAT CHOICE. Invite him over talk face to face. I made my situation worse by talking over the phone and it almost led to our breakup, tell him that you really love him and that's why you want him to know how you feel. You can't keep things bottled up inside, it's not good for you or the relationship, b/c you are him will never grow as a person or in your relationship with the tention b/w yall.
2006-09-09 01:44:20 · answer #2 · answered by raise_your_voice89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your last sentence says it all and it's good to hear that you've reached that conclusion. Tell or write your guy that his behavior needs to change or you will make a change in bf. He MAY be hearing your discussion as criticism of him which brings of feelings of inadequacy or guilt. You know what you need to do if he cannot respect and honor your needs.
2006-09-09 02:00:56 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that guy really should listen to you. if u have an opinon on something u should be heard. he sounds like he can be a jerk at times and a waste of your time u deserve someone that wants to hear to what u have to say
2006-09-09 01:40:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does`nt care about youre things, just p usyy or popularity!
2006-09-09 01:39:19 · answer #5 · answered by Jerdy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said it. you know what you need to do. you don't need anymore confirmation of that. handle your business.
2006-09-09 01:40:27 · answer #6 · answered by Lady G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋