he has many female friends
many of them like him
they spend hours online waiting for him to sign in and that what makes him appear offline most of the time
should i hide my jealousy
they appear online on his forworded emails
i find their online smiley faces only in the mornin and at nite (these r his favorite times to check his mail)
should i hide my jealousy ?
2006-09-08 18:50:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I let mine show once, by accident, she simply pushed me too far and I had other things piled on other things and she just, tweeked me. Then she said SHE'D forgive me. Then she took me out. Then she talks about the other guys she sees. Then she tells me I'm not her type.
You have to decide if the person is worth it.
You have to decide if you'll be unhappy if it never happens.
That's all I can tell you.
As one girl once told me "don't expect!"
2006-09-08 18:53:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe your so much jealous as you are wanting and deserving attention. Something that says "we are a couple" or at least trying to be. How can I get to know you and you me if there are such interruptions. Be honest and let him know your feelings. Ask to meet with them and you three go out for a drink.Aask for their phone num and make an effort to call and become acquainted w/ them. But make it known you are in the picture. The hrs. online w/ them must stop. If you are living together, this is time which should be yours- as a couple. You too can be involved with his received messages. As I said he has to show respect and appreciation for you. It almost sounds like your not entirely getting what you need to fulfill your love bank.
2006-09-09 02:03:30 · answer #2 · answered by michele g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If U have something to be jealous about speak to him. Holding it inside will only make things worse. Ur only suffering in silence. Would he stay silent if the situation was the other way around? All U need is to be reassured that these R just innocent and harmless friends contacting him and if they're not U can handle ur business. Just remember not to approach in an accusatory manner.
2006-09-09 02:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by Timber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see...Lots of female friends just waiting for him to sign on. Until the point of having to appear offline most of the time; let say when you are around.
Has he given you any reason not to trust him, and what is your gut telling you?
2006-09-09 01:54:31 · answer #4 · answered by WhatEVER27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like to me if he really cares about you he would be spending time with you and not online chatting. I don't think this is jealousy, its asking for his time and respect.
If this continues you will know what to do.
2006-09-09 01:56:26 · answer #5 · answered by Sandra♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy shows you care but too much is overbearing and stressful to your man. Look he loves you or he wouldn't be with you. Your jealousy might make him think you are insecure of yourself, you don't trust him, or perhaps you don't love him enough to let him have female friends.
Sure he might be a GOD to girls but who is he with? YOU who is he NOT with?....right so, accept him for who he is, accept him having female friends and flaunt that he is your man by showing him you don't mind his friends because you know he is yours alone.
2006-09-09 01:54:02 · answer #6 · answered by Zell D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
being jealous is normal in a relationship. overdoing it however could hurt your relationship. it really depends on how deep your relationship is. if he is just socializing and inter-acting on line with friends and not flirting, then i think that's okay.
2006-09-09 01:54:13 · answer #7 · answered by marisu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont feel good about the situation..then tell him..if he likes you..then he should care and chage his habits...you do have the right to be jealous..
2006-09-09 01:54:02 · answer #8 · answered by Ginny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jealousy is an ugly thing.......you can show it a little but dont go overboard...
2006-09-09 01:52:26 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋