I used to be good friends with this girl back when we were freshmen....well I really liked this guy...she knew it and when we went to a party I caught her sitting on his lap kissing his neck..I ended up moving...fast-forward to today we are both seniors now...I moved back and I thought maybe she grew up...well I started talking to the same guy....and I know he is into me....last week he was gonna come to my place I had asked him over myspace...she said that she emailed him to find out what he thought of me...she said that he was really into me..that was 2 weeks ago...he now left to bootcamp....yesterday she asked me to delete her myspace cause her computer was broken....well I know I shouldn't have but I checked the emails that she had told me about..she was sending really detailed mails saying that she wanted to f**k him and her man didnt do the job right...I rather just blow it off...and in the mails he wasnt interested...and when he returns we are going out...should I confront her?
2006-09-08 17:45:33 · 13 answers · asked by a.john89 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know for a fact that he is not into her....he said she was scandalous, and that he is into me...but she would totally just change the subject and say he was hot or sexy...but he even told her to calm down in the emails cuz she has a BF....
2006-09-08 17:51:52 · update #1
the part about him sitting on her lap was way before he even knew I was interested in him...
2006-09-08 17:53:57 · update #2
NO, YOU NEED TO LET HER GO, SHE NOT A FRIEND, AND
IF YOU THINK ABOUT YOU SHOULD NOT BE SO SURPRISE
BY HER ACTIONS. SHE DID ONCE BEFORE. SO I JUST
LEAVE HER ALONG , AND WHEN THE YOUNG MAN COME]BACK IF HE INTERESTED IN YOU THEN GO FOR IT, BUT
BE CAREFUL HE MAY BE IN TO HER AS WELL. SO KEEP
YOUR EYES. OPEN.
2006-09-08 17:52:52 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding? Why are you holding your friend as the only one responsible and your still puppydogging over this guy who is supposedly "really into you". Get real! This guy is a dog - - he lets her sit in his lap and kiss all over him. He tolerates her emails about sex and other explicit material and you think its all her fault? Honey it takes two to tango - - and your not part of this particular dance. I'd ditch the lame guy and the bratty girl and find yourself some real friends and a real man.
2006-09-09 00:52:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her 4 what she is. i had the same prob. an ex friend asked this guy i liked how he felt about me and stuff and after a couple of months, me and that guy hooked up. we r still 2gether 2day after 2 years. in the 1st 2 weeks, she was all up in our business and even wanted me 2 share my bf. slowly (without me saying anything) my bf stopped talking 2 her. she got pissed and wanted 2 brake us up. making stories about my bf liking another girl and telling this girl this. i could have killed those 2 girls... but i let them both be and now they r both miserable. she is not ur friend, she was never or never will b. so she is not worth 1 single breath or second of ur time...
2006-09-09 00:53:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She gave you access to her account, if by accident or on purpose, now you know she is not to be trusted.
If a so called friend did that to me I would just totally ignore her. She isn't worth the effort and grief to confront and a confrontation would just show her that she got to you.
Life is too short to spend with people who don't respect you.
2006-09-09 00:51:38 · answer #4 · answered by pleeks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only friend doesn't seem to be a true friend at all. If she was she would respect boundaries. Be upfront and direct. With friends like her, who needs enemies.
2006-09-09 05:06:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Liars don't stop lying, and traitors don't stop backstabbing. Are you willing to let her lie and stab you in the back again? Because she will.
2006-09-09 01:50:14 · answer #6 · answered by dijpak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow thats sad. I think you should definetly confront her and get this straight.
2006-09-09 00:52:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a jerk and you read her private e mails. Let her go and get new friends.
2006-09-09 00:48:54 · answer #8 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no confrontation. Just not worth it. Check how your boy behave when he's back. if he's into you still, then move on with him. If he's into her, well... they are just pathetic. Move on.
2006-09-09 00:52:00 · answer #9 · answered by hoang anh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow... that is ****** up, people make me sick. Confront her and then never speak to her again. You don't need people like that in your life.
2006-09-09 00:48:55 · answer #10 · answered by itslate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋