Is change a bad thing in relationships?

Question

Say you're still at a young college stage and you're in a serious relationship. You're going to grow and change quite a bit. Does this automatically mean that your relationship is doomed?

Answer 1

NO

Answer 2

It is so refreshing to hear someone at your age actually looking to the future realizing that growth is going to change you. I commend your foresight.
To respond to your question, it doesn't mean your relationship is "doomed", but it does test it fairly well. That is a good thing.
You are coming up on life as your never imagined. You will learn and experience so much over the next 3-5 yrs that the person you are now will be a vague memory. Sure, you will still like tall, dark and handsome, or short, light and normal, but what you want and expect from the relationship will most certainly change.
You will learn of the real world, and it's problems, joys and fears, and it will change you,often for the better.
This will also happen to your partner.
If the two of you can grow at the same pace and a parallel direction, then you should have a healthy experience. It will continue to have all the up's and down's it has now, but even those will change.
Limiting yourself to one "experience" (relationship) at this age is limiting your growth and exposure, but it doesn't mean you will miss out, but it does mean something different for everyone and that's where the problems can arise. It may very well limit your partner more than you, or you more than them and that's when you end up going your separate ways. That too, is not a bad thing, for in each experience comes a knowledge that grows into the next experience, and I am not just referring to relationships such as this, but in everything you do.
Enjoy this time in your life, in college with your partner. You obviously have enough smarts to realize a change, and when you see it, if it can't come together with your current partner, don't despair, it's going to turn out just fine.
If it can come together with your current partner, that's awesome, but remember never play second fiddle to anyone for anything for any price.
You, my dear are going to do just fine...

Answer 3

surely proceed with the relationship when you're particular, on your own health, that you'll live to inform the tale song with your meds. A relationship can bee risky in circumstances like yours in case you do not get out and search for help. If the affection is actual and also you adult men are meant to be, he will trust you and want that could actually help you truly then go away you. contained in the authentic, it appears like issues want to get more desirable proper immediately or there may no longer be a going back.

Answer 4

Not necessarily but it would be wise to wait till you are 26-28 and have more experience in life.

Answer 5

i will agree with the first answer, my relationship has evolved through the whole college experience. It is mind blowing how much we grew together, and it truly is beautiful.

Answer 6

Not if you both can adapt to the changes. I have not been exclusive in college, but my friends have had to adapt to changes in life with their significant others.

Answer 7

It may and it may not. You should enjoy your relationship and not get paranoid on the "what ifs". Let everything happen as it happens. If its meant to be it will be.

Answer 8

People change and people should. Just how you accept your change and your partner's change. Not easy, but happening everyday.

Answer 9

if the change is for the worst then yes but if u change for the better than no.
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Answer 10

yes of course

Answer 11

Yeah, pretty much