My bf of a year and seven months cheated on me. Because of that our relationship isn't the same anymore. I'm trying to forgive him but it'd still in the back of my mind. I guess I don't truly trust that he isn;t going to do that again. There's this other guy that I met. We meat thru mutual friends, he is my neighboor. When we met on the party, we talked the whole night. We sms now from time to time and I began to wonder what would happen if I gave him a chance. The thing is, he knows my bf and I also don't want him to think he's a rebound guy. It;s all complicated so any advice would be nice.
2006-09-08 17:59:40 · 11 answers · asked by maya 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would keep your options open. Be totally honest with the new guy and be as honest as you want with your boyfriend. When you feel it is time to make a decision, do what makes you happiest. Don't factor history, just go with who you are happiest with.
2006-09-08 18:05:46 · answer #1 · answered by The Princess of Pleasure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOur relationship is a lie. It will never be the same, you dont need to be in something like that, obviously it is not ment to be. So it sounds like you too are still young and have the feeling that you both need to explore and test the waters. As much as its nice to have someone there when you get home, you dont want to miss out, and have regrets of like i wish i gave him a chance, dont think about it just do it. YOu live and you learn.
**** or get off the pot.
2006-09-09 01:07:15 · answer #2 · answered by LiBra86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you can know for sure if he's a rebound guy and only you can assure him that he's not one for you...but you should definitely go for it....dump the bf you have now and go for the new guy...your bf cheated on you and you can't trust him anymore...so why keep trying to save the relationship that's pretty much dead?
2006-09-09 01:21:48 · answer #3 · answered by Connie L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't trust your "boyfriend" then there isn't much of a relationship there. I can't tell you what to do but trust is one of the most important parts of a relationship, without it the relationship isn't worth anything.
2006-09-09 01:02:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were u i would go to ur current boyfriend, and just say that im not comfortable with you doing what u did, and once i broke up with him (i'm a boy....im not gay) i would stay good friends with that other guy for a month or two and eventually go out with him. so i hope my advice helps, hope it works out for you.
2006-09-09 01:03:53 · answer #5 · answered by Apple Pie Eater 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like the rebound guy go for it who cares if he is the "rebound guy" either you go back with your X or you rebound, whats the big deal.
2006-09-09 01:03:15 · answer #6 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have got rid of the first one once he cheated. now go where you are happy. sounds like second guy to me
2006-09-09 01:03:31 · answer #7 · answered by Kyle M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend cheated on you and you're worried about him? Do what you want to do.
2006-09-09 01:07:47 · answer #8 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who has the larger penis and who has the larger bankroll? Maybe you don't have such a quandary.
2006-09-09 01:04:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it.
2006-09-09 01:01:02 · answer #10 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋