Family & Relationships - 6 September 2006

I have a girlfriend that i absolutely adore and love and is just absolutely gorgeous. Just imagine a dominican barbie. But for some odd reason every time we try to get intimate i get nervous and this anxiety builds up in me and i cant get intimate with her. The weird thing is that i can get aroused by other girls really easy, because i dont care about them. In bed i just wreck them, i dont care how they feel, if they are satisfied (by coincidence they do get satisfied), or if they like what i am doing to them. But with my girlfriend its different. I care about everything that i do to her and it just gets me nervous. all i want to do is just demolish her and i cant. this girl already thiinks that i am not attracted to her, and this just adds to it. i tell her that i think shes gorgeous but she doesnt want to hear it because i dont want to have sex with her. but i do want to its just that i start thinking and just get nervous. and i dont know what to do.

2006-09-06 10:13:01 · 15 answers · asked by nyconfession 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-06 10:12:15 · 29 answers · asked by Beatriz 1 in Singles & Dating

okay umm we've talked a lot before but some days we don't hardly talk at all but small little comments like "ugh i can't get my lock open" or "here i got this!" and a little laugh or something. idk i don't think he likes me like that, but i do believe he likes me somewhat as an aquantiace perhaps and considering i asked him out a year ago without talking to him before, thats really good for me.

so if he talks to me almost every day, but seems shy and awkward, how should i get him to feel more at ease? how do i talk to him when its all quiet and we can talk... how do i start?

any advice would be appreciated.

2006-09-06 10:11:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-06 10:11:19 · 11 answers · asked by TRANSLOPEDIA 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-06 10:11:16 · 4 answers · asked by harlem_pologrounds 1 in Friends

more if shes late the small one i have all day and im trying to potty train this kid and shes just so bad the other 2 i have after school.one of them i even make her lunch to bring to school.she gives me $150.00 a week im not able to get a job because i have no car.well any way do you think she should give me an attude ?because i need a day off i have a cold i got it from her child.i have no med insurence and would like one day to take care of my self.and she dont like it

2006-09-06 10:11:07 · 6 answers · asked by bassetluv 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-06 10:10:27 · 20 answers · asked by Sharon T 2 in Friends

2006-09-06 10:09:15 · 6 answers · asked by Don S 1 in Family

ok at that moment my friend went up to his girlfriend and cursed at her and said that it was over and she got so emberassed cause there was alot of people looking at her and laughing what should she should have said'en at the moment? and do you think she sould'ent have boyfriends anymore please anwser both of my questions

2006-09-06 10:09:11 · 11 answers · asked by brenda r 1 in Friends

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2006-09-06 10:08:57 · 29 answers · asked by I'm_gonna_bite_you 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-06 10:08:05 · 3 answers · asked by simrao 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-06 10:08:04 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Recently it seems like my friends have made a connection with other people through cultural similarities or language. I don't really have anyone to connect .

2006-09-06 10:07:44 · 6 answers · asked by *Benny B* 4 in Friends

Since i had it afew weeks ago i cant stop and i cant stop thinking about it :P

why?and how can i get more? lmao just joking with that last one

2006-09-06 10:07:37 · 18 answers · asked by nemesis_hatebreeder 1 in Singles & Dating

It's been over a year and a half since my ex broke up with me because he couldn't handle a long distance relationship (we tried it for 6 months). He has been calling me ever since..at least every two weeks..to say hi and see how I am doing. Whenever we see eachother (like every 3 months or so) we play around but never have sex. Why does he continue to keep in touch with me?

2006-09-06 10:07:02 · 7 answers · asked by Alexandra G 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-06 10:06:57 · 15 answers · asked by stubborn_vj 1 in Friends

many thanks to all those who anwser some great ideas

2006-09-06 10:06:38 · 8 answers · asked by CLAIRE B 2 in Weddings

But then complain that there aren't any good men out there? Maybe it's the 'good' ones who want to get married and don't waste time on those who LOVE being single.Case in point, I have this friend who says she absolutely loves being single, but then she dates like 5-6 guys at a time and then complains none of them are really any good. Generally, they aren't good because they want to be exclusive. I don't get this...is she confused or am I?

2006-09-06 10:05:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 23 years old it takes me about 1hr and 30 minutes to get an orgasim. I dont have orgasims by being penetrated my orgasims are accomplished by oral sex. why is this so and how can I get an orgasim with penetration?

2006-09-06 10:04:53 · 8 answers · asked by marla b 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Passion got the better of us and now i'm with a buttonless shirt i realy love? If both of us hate sewing equally, who gets to do the dirty work?

2006-09-06 10:04:23 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

First of all, i'm a teacher's assistant, and there was this new teacher's assistant that came in today. Well, my teacher seemed kinda mad cause i could tell how she was acting, it wasn't very noticeable though. Like, she threw the papers we had to grade on our table and was like "yall got alot to grade." She usually shows signs of flirting: staring at my boobs, getting close to me, and smiling at me. She didn't talk much to the new assistant either, and she's a nice teacher. When she wanted both of us to do something, she would just look at me and smile. What's up with this?

2006-09-06 10:04:04 · 2 answers · asked by sweetchick 1 in Friends

2006-09-06 10:03:56 · 21 answers · asked by happyheathy 2 in Family

2006-09-06 10:03:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I just created a yahoo group and I am sending out invitations for members to join. Is there a way that members of the group can chat, almost in realtime within the group? Or do members have to leave the group and go into their regular email accounts to respond to messages?

2006-09-06 10:02:14 · 2 answers · asked by jonathan wilson 1 in Singles & Dating

I been with this guy for 4 months almost 5 but i broke up with him during school and i couldnt focus so i got back with him but i still wanna break up with him so what should i do

2006-09-06 10:02:03 · 23 answers · asked by Hailey 2 in Singles & Dating

....why my ex-fiancee, when we broke up , he then wanted to get back together under one condition....that we would NOT make love so often. Geez!...don't know why buy it still bothers me. I thought all guys were "all that" on the sex. My husband has no problems at all with our sexlife and loves it when I am the agressor...why should this bother me so much in my thought?...just wondering...

2006-09-06 10:01:39 · 11 answers · asked by chatterella 3 in Singles & Dating

i am trying to raise 2000.00 dollars to get my future wife over here from russia . oprah .com is a bull **** site

2006-09-06 10:01:37 · 2 answers · asked by obearranch 1 in Family

2 and a half years ago I moved from maryland to ohio, leaving behind the love of my life to finish school. We never lost touch with each other but ventured into new relationships. We finally spent time together this past weekend and I realized what a big mistake it was to move. But I've now got a son and a great job. I want to spend the rest of my life with this man but am torn as to what to do. He can't of course come to ohio because he has his boys that he does not have full custody of and that would just move him to far away. This is my first big "adult" job, and I'm afraid stubility wise to just pick up and leave. But I love him and its killing me to be so far away. We've been visiting as often as we can but its no longer enough. Any advise?

2006-09-06 10:01:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Just curious;)

2006-09-06 10:00:28 · 15 answers · asked by Green_Eyez:) 3 in Singles & Dating

my bf is in the coast guard he said he would call but hasnt yet should i be worried/ upset? he is sationed in the states but hasnt got a home phone set up yet where he is at. he said he would call but hasnt yet. its been almost a month. should i attempt to try and call his cell which he told me he wouldnt be answering cuz he doesnt have long distance?? i know he can be very busy working i 3 days on base and then two off and so on. from what ive heard he hasnt talked to anyone even his family and his best friend of like 18 years. what would you do? and do you have any tips for how to deal with a long distance relationship espc. a military based one?

2006-09-06 09:59:58 · 5 answers · asked by theskyispink v 2 in Singles & Dating