I am 23 years old it takes me about 1hr and 30 minutes to get an orgasim. I dont have orgasims by being penetrated my orgasims are accomplished by oral sex. why is this so and how can I get an orgasim with penetration?
2006-09-06 10:04:53 · 8 answers · asked by marla b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Marla orals create too much sensation, making u weak and all therefore your body does not get a chance to relax in order to naturally climax. ur climax is almost a "forced" one and so natural orgasims are being stifled. With penetration it may very well be based on the position of your clit. Meaning some positions are just right for you to explode. Contact me please for more advice on such positions. I have taught hundreds of Jamaican couples how to ensure that they all come and feel happy. Penetration can also be combined with orals and ythe use of the fingers. Furthermore for women the sex is always in your head more than it is between ur legs. Ur naturalk tendency should be to start having sex in your mind first, then anxiety will prepare you for more excitement. Please contact me there are some stuff I cant say here
2006-09-07 09:51:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you associate penetration with a bad memory...most guys think that it's all about size and hard thrusting....technique is finding what rhythyms and positions work for a girl...this probably has alot to do with foreplay or the lack of it....you should be good and wet before penetration ...from the guy kissing and carressing you...sucking on your breasts..even fingering your coochie....basically playing with your clitoris...getting it so stimulated and swollen ...so that within 20 minutes , you get off...oral sex is like direct clit stimulation with the tounge....I wish I could help you out....I usually make girls have a orgasm during foreplay...which can last for a good 15 to 20 minutes....my sex sessions usually last from 30 minutes to a hour..if a 69 occurs, 2 or 3 hours....good multiples for both parties....me and my partners usually curl up and watch TV or the girl falls asleep on my chest.
Maybe you need to be on top..so you control the penetration or doggystyle but find a guy who knows what he is doing...maybe two to three years old....someone with more experience
2006-09-06 17:17:24 · answer #2 · answered by D.E.O.N. Sphinxxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a couple reasons why you dont orgasm like you would like to. One could be that the actions performed arent done in the way that you enjoy as much as you would if you were to experiment a little bit. Another reason is a more a statistical one. There are many women out there who cant achieve an orgasm through any type of intercourse. And there are some, like in your case, only acheive orgasm through clitoral stimulus. My advice: experiment, dont get frusterated, and at least you can have an orgasm at all.
2006-09-06 17:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your doctor or gynocologist. Or ask for a referral to a sex therapist. Be brave; this may sound like something embarrassing to be asking about, but your doctors have heard everything already.
2006-09-06 17:09:33 · answer #4 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am thinking with oral sex I can make you orgasm a lot sooner
2006-09-06 17:10:40 · answer #5 · answered by Bob D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing that might help is for you to masturbate yourself to orgasm enough so that you know exactly what you like. This will help you communicate that to your partner.
Another thing that might help is to learn to spell 'orgasm'.
2006-09-06 17:16:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its the guys performance, he should take his time anf find out whats good to you and what can make you get off better
2006-09-06 17:09:01 · answer #7 · answered by imHereAskMe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i heard that black ladies dont *** fast .. this is from a guy a friend of mine he is balck too , told me this
2006-09-06 17:10:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋