more if shes late the small one i have all day and im trying to potty train this kid and shes just so bad the other 2 i have after school.one of them i even make her lunch to bring to school.she gives me $150.00 a week im not able to get a job because i have no car.well any way do you think she should give me an attude ?because i need a day off i have a cold i got it from her child.i have no med insurence and would like one day to take care of my self.and she dont like it
2006-09-06 10:11:07 · 6 answers · asked by bassetluv 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
im 43 and feel i need a life
2006-09-06 10:17:02 · update #1
WIRE MONKEY THANKS FOR THE PUT DOWN
2006-09-06 10:26:32 · update #2
wow she's got a sweet deal you NOT so sweet...dont put up with crap...daughter or not she's taking advantage....take your day off heck take lots.................................
2006-09-06 10:18:10 · answer #1 · answered by Lynne B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give your daughter a few weeks (no more than a month) to find another sitter and go out and find you a job where you are stimulated around other adults and not some bad asss kids and an ungrateful daughter. If you dont put your foot down you will ALWAYS be stuck in this position and you will deserve it because you do not HAVE to be in this position. Not to mention your daughter is ripping you off with that sick pay.
2006-09-06 17:21:40 · answer #2 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes just taking advantage of you. Your right, you do need a life outside of her children. Sit down and discuss with her getting someone else to watch them for a day or two a couple of times a month. Giving you attitude, no way, after all they are her children not yours. You've raised yours already now its time for her to take the responsibility for her own children.
2006-09-06 17:23:33 · answer #3 · answered by Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got to be kidding. Give her a two week notice and then let her find someone else to watch her kids. You are a weak lady where is your back bone. I can tell by how you write you lack a formal education. Is that why you let people walk all over you.
Take care of yourself or your no good to anyone else. If you dropped dead tomorrow do you think she would have a hard time replacing you?
2006-09-06 17:22:58 · answer #4 · answered by the_wire_monkey 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't let your children take advantage of you. You are not under contract to her and in fact I would challenge her to find any day care situation that is better and cheaper. Everyone needs days off once in awhile including you. If she can't deal with that then maybe she should find a new day care situation.
2006-09-06 17:15:00 · answer #5 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she doesnt give you the day off tell her she needs to find another daycare/babysitter...Your being a good gram by helping her out, but you to need a life and you raised your kids and look now your raising more....You need a day, take the day she can find someone else to watch the midgets.....
2006-09-06 17:19:52 · answer #6 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋