2006-09-06 10:12:15 · 29 answers · asked by Beatriz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes!
2006-09-06 10:13:27 · answer #1 · answered by ĵōē¥ → đ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's what pre-marital sex may offer you as a woma:
1. Since he's getting all the Milk for free--he has no reason to buy the cow. So, you may end up "hanging on" and waiting for years until--and IF--"he decideds" to marries you.
2. You may even get married---but since you've already had sex in every way imaginable for a few years--you wont share any new excitement after you get married--and your married sex life ill be dull, boring and "been there--done that".
3. There's a 85% chance he will start taking you for granted after you start having pre-marital sex. Why should be be on good behavior when he already has you where he wants you?
4. You might get pregnant because oops--accidents happen. Condoms break and birth control pills fail sometimes. Then you'll have a baby & you'll be thrown into an instant family before you've had any time to enjoy a marriage before kids. We all know that kids drain 80% of all marriages--just imagine if you walk into a marriage with kids already.
5. He may not be "The One" after all--and you'd have wasted your time and body--then thats yet another man added onto your "list of men" that you'll ahve to explain to your future fiance.
6. You will be giving him ALL THE POWER in the relationship if you start sleeping with him.
7. If he really loves you--I mean REALLY loves YOU--then he'll either wait--or ask to marry you. If he doesnt want to wait or ask to marry you after you tell him you are celibate--then he is only along for a Free Ride anyway.
Peace
2006-09-06 10:27:40 · answer #2 · answered by Plus-Sized &Proud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you mean by bad...
If you mean will the sex be bad if it's pre-marital, then the answer is probably no...it's probably going to be more exciting for both of you.....BUT...
If you mean is it a bad idea to have premarital sex when you really love someone, then I think it might just be...holding out until marraige means you'll grow to love and respect the person you are devoting your whole life to, which gives you a better foundation than sex to get through the rough times every marraige endures...
2006-09-06 10:16:04 · answer #3 · answered by Tom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not marry someone without having sex with them first. You don't want to end up divorced because of sexual incompatibility.
I think people take this "no premarital sex" thing too far. There are many reasons not to sleep with a lot of people, but one or two is OK. Moderation is the key.
2006-09-06 10:15:45 · answer #4 · answered by mollyneville 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No not at all, its only evangelionistic zeolots who think that. Sex is a part of being human, its a natural instincy. If you love a guy and he loves you, and you have sex (safe sex hopefully as you're probably not ready for a kid or STDs) then give yourself a pat on the back for actually living life
2006-09-06 11:03:09 · answer #5 · answered by Michael M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, premarital sex should definately not be an opition. If you really love the person then get married, why not?
2006-09-06 10:17:15 · answer #6 · answered by Greg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would say yes.
Firstly, when you have a relationship like that with a person, you leave part of yourself with them forever; a soul tie.
Also, you have absolutely no idea what will happen between now and then if you intend to marry. He could leave you or the relationship could just not work
AIDS and other nasty diseases are passed on by 'sleeping' with the person you 'love'. Then, he looses interest in you or you in him and he moves on to sleep with another person he 'loves'. :(
If you really love the man/woman, you will wait until you are joined in holy matramony. True love waits. :)
2006-09-06 10:16:01 · answer #7 · answered by duchess_mary_of_burgundy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you'll get all sorts of answers here, some cruel, many judgmental - but you did ask..
Personally, I believe that it's a personal choice...how OLD are you first of all..If you're 15, 16 or so, yes it IS BAD...even if you're 18 or older, are you really mature enough to handle it? Are you in a committed relationship? Are you being safe? There's lots of factors to throw in...
2006-09-06 10:15:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my partner are not married, and have been indulging in pre marital sex for 6 years. We both love each other and have 2 lovely kids..... so as long as you love the person, and its consential on both sides then no... sex is about love, not a wedding ring on your finger
2006-09-06 10:15:51 · answer #9 · answered by Levi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess if it happens between two consenting adults, it would be a good thing if you were in Love. However, if you are just kids, or worse yet, not even a teenager, it would be frowned upon as premature
2006-09-06 10:14:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋