Family & Relationships - 6 September 2006

of two divorced young people with no kids to have a successful marriage? a friend of mine is really confused because she loves the guy,,, but because both of them think they have "one more chance and that's it" .. she doesn't know what to do or what to expect. he asked her to give him some 'points' to discuss like, what does she want of him etc, but she is clueless. since she would never ask for help in person, i'm asking you to offer some suggestions. i would really appreciate it. what are the things they should not be afraid to discuss?the thing is that they are afraid of losing each other if they make some particular demands/ should they be more flexible or more stubborn now that they've had the experience?thanx a lot

2006-09-06 09:59:52 · 4 answers · asked by LadyPandora 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Today, I stood up for my wife at a sushi bar and (sad to say) I was not expecting the guy to hit me back for some reason. I never fought anyone before, but enough was enough with the obese jokes about my wife. Well, I suppose I should have taken karate lessons when I was younger.It's funny now I think about me flying over the tables...

The bad part about it was one of the guy's friends contacted my wife after we had left, and apologized. The friend said the guy was drunk, lonely, jealous and :( homosexual. She said he started talking about my wife because he had figured (for some reason unknown to me) I was gay.

Needless to say, that didn't brighten up the situation. The gays said they would pay for the damage. My wife thinks I should apologize as well... What do you think?

2006-09-06 09:59:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

school district, wich ive been trying to get for almost 3 yrs!

2006-09-06 09:59:05 · 9 answers · asked by 2_good_2_be_true;) 4 in Friends

2006-09-06 09:58:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am looking for the reasons couples stay together for an extended relationship. Please put in your answers the time you have been in your current relationship, what caused you to select this person and if anything was basicly changed in your relationship to cause it to continue. Or were you a complete match from the begining?

Any information will be helpful.

Thanks for your time.

2006-09-06 09:58:14 · 6 answers · asked by SigmundS of Yew 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey there, I'm starting my senior year in high school and I've already noticed this girl that I sort of like. She's new to my high school and I think she only has one new friend so far. If I can get to know her a little better, maybe I would be interested in asking her out because she seems nice. She sits beside me and infront of me in 2 of my classes and I've only said a few words to her. How could I get off to a good friendly start with her and see how things go from there? I'm just not sure how I could do that because she always seems to be around another girl who has become her new friend and is showing her around the school. I'm a fairly good looking guy so I don't think there are any turn off's for me to worry about, but I don't want to be a stalker or anything :P just some simple tips would be appreciated, Thanks

2006-09-06 09:57:49 · 6 answers · asked by BoSox847 1 in Singles & Dating

my bestfriend hit his girlfriend earlyer for no reason, i just found out and im so p*ss off.
she just left me crying and with a black eye.
i gave her a cuddle and told her to go home and rest and i see how she is in moring.
i have spoken to him and all he said was (he was bored so he hit her) i think he was abit drunk too.
i told him i dont want to see him for a while because i know i will end up knocking him out.
i hate men that hit woman and he knows this.
i once told him and my other friends if they ever hit a woman (especialy for no reason) i would find him and hang him out to dry (if u know what i mean). which he had no problem with.
half of me wants to go and kill him but apart of me is telling me not to do it.
i dont know what to do and if i dont hurt him, i will hurt myself by punching a wall or something because i hate seeing a woman hurt or upset!!!!!!!
it just gets to me so much.

2006-09-06 09:57:21 · 44 answers · asked by alan h 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

So me and my friend are seeing eachother behind everyones back - no one knows, but things arent really "official " so I can't really do anything about it. My sister and his best friend have such a huge problem with us(being together) that they can barley stand to be around both of us at the same time. (They have an idea about us, but in no way do they know the extent of it). They are saying that they're sick of this keeping everything a secret crap and they want us to either get together or break things off - I'm all for "officially" getting together with this guy - but I don't know how to tell him about everything they said. I really think I'm in love with this guy, actully - I know I am, so what should I do?

2006-09-06 09:56:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

we must have something better to do

2006-09-06 09:56:42 · 12 answers · asked by ladybird 3 in Family

she's 30 to old for cute pets surely!

2006-09-06 09:56:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this gurlk l i like i wnna ask her out but she goes to my skool but i dnt kno her tht well but im in middle skool i wnt her to notice me because our skool is serperated into 2 programs but i still wnt to get wit her so wut shud i do my friends tld her over tha phone but they nvr showed her who i am but i dnt wnt to bugg my friend or else theyll no tht i reallll reall y like her it will make me look desprate so wut shud i do shud i ask her or wait 4 my friends

2006-09-06 09:56:03 · 7 answers · asked by ricknlium m 1 in Singles & Dating

i do it to her al the time and i want her to see that im not just the same old f***k

2006-09-06 09:55:52 · 18 answers · asked by tk b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-06 09:55:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is just for fun okay. Don't get more out of this than there is.

2006-09-06 09:55:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just to start things off: Sleep alone I sleep in boxers. Sleep with a woman I sleep naked.

2006-09-06 09:55:06 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-06 09:55:04 · 27 answers · asked by dave h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It's been my fantasy for a long time to maybe experiment with another woman. (I'm 27)

I don't want to try anything with a friend or a co-worker because that could get awkward. So I've been thinking about maybe girls who are friends of friends or that sort of thing.

Any suggestions?

2006-09-06 09:54:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If two girls wrestle each other in their bras and panties...IS ANYONE REALLY THE LOSER?

(Has that ever happened to you?)

=)

2006-09-06 09:53:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend says he loves me, but he keeps being inconsiderate. I hint at and also nicely tell him what kind of (easy) things would make me happy, but he is always a day late and a dollar short (mostly I have to be mad already to get the previously desired behavior - and by that time I don't want it anymore.) Basically, he is inconsiderate in small ways that add up to a big feeling of disappointment for me. For example - he didn't have anything planned for my birthday...and he could have done two very specific things that would have made me happy - but he didn't. Again "Sorry." Sometimes he says "I was gonna do that....." when I confront an issue. Why sorry, sorry, sorry, but no change in behavior? What does it mean?
I got to say that he does come home after work every day. He supports us (I'm at home with baby) financially. He's not a "bad" guy (except for his temper when we really get into it.). And sometimes it seems like he is trying to "get better" (he agrees that he neglects me)

2006-09-06 09:53:43 · 7 answers · asked by Just Visiting 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We were together in 99 and have kept in touch ever since. Now our lives are both at a place where we are single and still very much friends. His birthday is coming up and he's accepted to have dinner with me in his hometown. I think I may be granted another opportunity by the universe to be with this wonderful man. I just am not sure how to go about pursuing this. Should I???

2006-09-06 09:53:24 · 6 answers · asked by ISIS 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend of 4 years just broke up with me via text message and won't answer my calls. What do I do?

2006-09-06 09:53:24 · 21 answers · asked by aj lewis 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey yall guess what me and my mom fight all the time and scence I got a new boyfriend she thinks that he is hers too. Everyone has tired and tried to get her to stop talking to him when he calls me, but guess what she wont. So again I say....HELP ME..... If I back talk her I can't see him anymore and I really love him...a lot...... what do I do. She even went to my school and told my princiable that shes worried about me and bull **** like that. Shes just mad cuz he dont wanna talk to her. And I mean I could figure this out myself if there wasnt one lil problem.....I CANT IGNORE HER..... She drives me up a wall when she talks. So please please please help meeeeeeeee.

2006-09-06 09:53:13 · 7 answers · asked by 420 Rockstar 1 in Family

It's my first time kissing any one with tonge. i got the lip thing doen pat but what do i do with the tonge when its in her mouth? does it just sit there like a usless peice of flesh? :P

2006-09-06 09:52:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm tired of coming in the house through the front door. The garage is in the back and I hate walking around the house.

2006-09-06 09:52:11 · 22 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am inlove with my best friend but he is gonna marry someone else. should I tell him how I feel or keep it to myself. I really want him bad, I want to be his wife, but I dont want to ruin our friendship either

2006-09-06 09:51:55 · 38 answers · asked by jamgirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My 28 year old brother wanted to know the true answer to this. Seriously, it was my brother who wants to know this. No really, my BROTHER wants to know the answer to this. Did I mention that this question is for my brother?

2006-09-06 09:51:08 · 26 answers · asked by cannonball 1 in Singles & Dating

Please help! My friend has a Guinea Pig that is VERY sick. She took it to the Vet. He said that if it doesn't heal in 3 days, it could die. Please pray for the little Guinea pig! It would mean so much

2006-09-06 09:50:35 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My friend is 18 and dating a 22 year old guy. They have been going out for about 3 months and all they have done is make out so far. She is still a virgin. Her boyfriend has slept with 3 women so far. She always tells me the "details" of their make out sessions. Well, she thinks it´s really weird that he orgasms just from making out. He touches her as* and breasts from the inside, but doesn´t go into her pants and she doesn´t get into his. She thinks a guy who comes too quickly will be a lousy partner. I tell her to take it as a compliment and he probably gets so turned on that he just can´t control himself. I don´t know what to tell her anymore because she´s never had this happen with her previous boyfriends. He usually comes after like 5-10 minutes of intense making out. So, when a guy comes just from making out is it because he is super turned on and the girl is hot or because he lacks sexual experience?She knows he orgasms because he tells her and shows all the signs.

2006-09-06 09:50:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I saw this question right now(Are there any guys in this world who like girls for the RIGHT reasons??) and thought this girl is dumb. It's why do girls go for the dumb guys? What do they expect if the guys they date they find at a bar. The good guys are the ones studying at home to become someone then just waste time at a bar. So next time a girl wants to find a good guy look for the guy in the library reading a book not the frat boy chugging a beer.

2006-09-06 09:49:34 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I go into work to talk to my boss, and this other guy who is usually friendly to me is talking to two women on the side of him. When I walk up to my boss, the other guy purposely walks to a different direction and turns his back to me, refusing to make eye contact with me. Can you think of any reason why he would do this? I consider him a friend, but him refusing to look at him makes me feel like he is mad at me. I haven't done anything to this guy, so I wonder why he would do this. Opinions?

2006-09-06 09:49:33 · 5 answers · asked by spency 1 in Other - Family & Relationships