My friend is 18 and dating a 22 year old guy. They have been going out for about 3 months and all they have done is make out so far. She is still a virgin. Her boyfriend has slept with 3 women so far. She always tells me the "details" of their make out sessions. Well, she thinks it´s really weird that he orgasms just from making out. He touches her as* and breasts from the inside, but doesn´t go into her pants and she doesn´t get into his. She thinks a guy who comes too quickly will be a lousy partner. I tell her to take it as a compliment and he probably gets so turned on that he just can´t control himself. I don´t know what to tell her anymore because she´s never had this happen with her previous boyfriends. He usually comes after like 5-10 minutes of intense making out. So, when a guy comes just from making out is it because he is super turned on and the girl is hot or because he lacks sexual experience?She knows he orgasms because he tells her and shows all the signs.
2006-09-06 09:50:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds inexperienced to me, which will mean, he probably is only thinking about himself and is using her just to bring himself off, also he will last longer with more practise.
2006-09-06 10:03:45 · answer #1 · answered by angelcake 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a premo. However, since fantasy is always greater than reality, it may just be that he's over fantasizing. Men tend to get more excited the first time they have sex with a new partner they're romantically attracted to, and young men tend to even get more excited. She really won't know for sure how long he will last during sex, until they have made love several times.
2006-09-06 10:02:49 · answer #2 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, lets see. it could be that he is just super turned on, but i have never came just by being super turned on. I dont know. Maybe he doesnt jack off enough. He could be a preme too, which is what I would put my money on. And always remember the rule of three. They SAY 3, but they have really only been with 1. I'm rambling now so I'm gonna shut up.
2006-09-06 09:58:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that's never happen between me and my boyfriend and let me tell you he is one "excited" guy. We usually get pretty into that too. He takes a long time even during more "advanced" things. The guys probably just really really excited and probably hasn't done anything sexual in a while.
2006-09-06 09:53:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't masturbate frequently, he hasn't gotten laid for a long time and -not or, mind you- he's not very experienced. He will get better after they move on to sex if she's patient with him for the first dozen times.
Not the guy to pick for a memorable first time in any case.
2006-09-06 10:02:19 · answer #5 · answered by AbdulShaza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's one of the weirdest things i have every heard...i think he just lacks sexual experience really. i didn't even think that was possible to be really honest. I'm sure your friend is hot I'm not saying that she isn't. but most guys who have had sex at all can at least controll themselves to the point of at least touching.
2006-09-06 09:57:41 · answer #6 · answered by shukov5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is peeing his pants or prelubing... or she is goddess level hot.. even then it takes alot more than making out to come.. she maybe giving head and not telling you, but even then i have never had a ******** that could make me go... sounds fishy like he is filling her full of crap..
2006-09-06 10:00:37 · answer #7 · answered by terryshawn1975 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he needs to whack it alot before they get busy or he will be a drag.
2006-09-06 09:53:38 · answer #8 · answered by brunette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has done that everytime? Hmm...sounds to me like she isn't going to be satisfied much if at all. lol
She best just move on now!
2006-09-06 09:56:38 · answer #9 · answered by unknowndiscovery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think that is an appropriate question for a 12 year old to be asking....
P.S. I think it would be kind of hard to hide the fact that he has "arrived"...
2006-09-06 09:53:50 · answer #10 · answered by 57chevy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋