My 28 year old brother wanted to know the true answer to this. Seriously, it was my brother who wants to know this. No really, my BROTHER wants to know the answer to this. Did I mention that this question is for my brother?
2006-09-06 09:51:08 · 26 answers · asked by cannonball 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love your question, you must be a comedian. I really like to have sex but not just because my bf woke up with a woody. I like fore-play and an actual effort by the other person. It makes it really seem like we both have one goal (to get off). Not just the guy getting off and then afterwards I'm sit there with a crotch dripping wet with his jiz. Hope that helps.
2006-09-06 10:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ME♥ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Many women enjoy sex tremendously as long as their partner knows what they are doing and know what pleases their woman and as for women only pretending to enjoy sex to land a man and have a baby, well that's crazy and if that were true then birth control would never have been invented. I know personally that I enjoy sex and do not ever want a baby and I think if a man wants to stay with me he will because he wants to not because he feels he has to. Tell your brother to use a condom every time he has sex so if he does run into a crazy broad who just wants a kid, then he will be protected.
2006-09-06 16:59:00 · answer #2 · answered by Chicky_S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy it? Heck, I love it if it's good!! Keep in mind though, that for women it's about 75% mental/emotional. So when everything in a relationship is new and exciting and the man and the woman are taking time with each other it can lead to better sex for the woman. Later on, if the guy just wants to get on and get him some, then the woman may not be getting what she needs to make it good. And if she's stressed and tired, then she's less likely to get what she needs to help the sex be great. And her enjoyment of sex can also sometimes be a measure of the state of the relationship. Women usually need to feel safe and secure enough to really let go in order to orgasm.
So if it seems like she's changed, start looking for other things that have changed.
2006-09-06 17:02:08 · answer #3 · answered by EC-S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman can have very strong emotional connection and love for a man from having sex even if she doesn't have an orgasm. That is one thing that is very different between men and women. Also, women cannot always achieve an orgasm from intercourse. Don't be in such a rush to judge us, besides, what is wrong with "landing a man", don't you ever want to "land a girl". It's nice to be in a loving relationship with someone, so this is natural for both sexes. The trick is, to find out if she's enjoying herself or if there is more the man can do to really step up the quality of the sex for her and maybe both of you.
2006-09-06 16:58:26 · answer #4 · answered by pamela f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah right this question is for ur brother..
most women enjoy sex especially if we've been sexually active already...
but dont' get it twisted we don't need to hold any man down by having sex w/him.. we can get anyman because men r the ones chasing us, not the other way around darling... plus why the hell would we want a baby... sex is sex, and if it's good then it's pleaurable, but we don't want babies.. only dummies looking to keep a man when they r in love, or infatuated w/a guy wants a baby...
but don't blame it on the women, cause if these sorry a ss guys wore condoms and stopped relying on women to handle the birth control then u wouldn't have this question to ask....
2006-09-06 16:55:37 · answer #5 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had some great sex, some mediocre sex and some downright disappointing sex. It depends on my partner's knowledge of my body and what it takes to satisfy me, my state of mind during the act, the location, and the tools that my mate is working with and what he is willing to do with those tools. I have enjoyed sex and pretended to enjoy it...not to land a man but to appease the one that I already had and I have never had sex with the sole purpose of becoming pregnant and I'm the mother of 2. Sex for me now would be mostly for the intimacy that it brings into a committed relationship. I would enjoy being on that level with a man.
2006-09-06 17:31:29 · answer #6 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, we enjoy sex. The man and baby are a result of it.
Stop blaming your Brother for this question, really for you!!
2006-09-06 16:56:21 · answer #7 · answered by Kev's Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
older women enjoy sex more than younger ones do. not to land a man and baby.
2006-09-06 16:56:07 · answer #8 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I enjoy sex very much, if she is pretending then trust me i don't think she will be back for more, and tell your "Brother" to get his own yahoo, answer!!! Lol aight
2006-09-07 09:35:27 · answer #9 · answered by sour_apple809 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please tell your brother that yes women enjoy sex almost as much as men. The baby is the result of the sex
2006-09-06 16:59:41 · answer #10 · answered by soapfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋