But then complain that there aren't any good men out there? Maybe it's the 'good' ones who want to get married and don't waste time on those who LOVE being single.Case in point, I have this friend who says she absolutely loves being single, but then she dates like 5-6 guys at a time and then complains none of them are really any good. Generally, they aren't good because they want to be exclusive. I don't get this...is she confused or am I?
2006-09-06 10:05:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really don't care how many people she dates...more power to her...but I kinda don't have anything to add when she complains cause I just don't understand.
2006-09-06 10:12:59 · update #1
point taken, well for now i love bein single because i have nobody to answer to. i do what i want when i want and how i want. it is not all fun and games obviously, gets lonely some times. but i suppose it is the same for people who are in love they have down times to their relationship, but most say they love bein in love..hell girl iv confused my self..coffee?
2006-09-06 10:18:48 · answer #1 · answered by loopy lass 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with your friend. I like being single meaning I like my freedom. There arent that many men out there who can deal with freedom loving females. By dating however many people she wants at one time she can see who she might have a chance with within a shorter period of time. Some females date just one person for a long time only to realize that they are not the right one and then have to start all over again. It just saves time.
2006-09-06 10:10:52 · answer #2 · answered by misstrell504 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It 's not the point of loving being single but its just they have been alone or just having friendships so long until its what they are use to and content with. You dont have the drama and the fights to worry about. And if we are firends you see other people and so do i so theres nothing serious. Also you dont have to put up with cheating or any type of thing like that.
2006-09-06 10:09:03 · answer #3 · answered by cupcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. She is confused. It is nice being single in the respect that you get to go wherever you want to whenever you want to, but most people over the age of 20 want to find a person to be with forever.
2006-09-06 10:09:29 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah if thats what you want then that's what you want. do what you want. things you will miss though I hope are love from another person where they cuddle with you and hold you and tell you everything will be ok. You know that stuff they do that's romantic. but yeah, it's your life. you also miss an opportunity to have kids with a spouse that you would otherwise marry. Be careful with the prostitutes though, they might have disease.
2016-03-27 00:36:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for some girls, they really don't know what they want...
but, and forgive me for saying this, you have to bring something to the table. relationships are 2-way. If after 5-6, 8, 10 guys you (i use that word in general) haven't found the right one, either there's something wrong with you or there's something wrong w/ ur choice of places to look
2006-09-06 10:10:15 · answer #6 · answered by vthokie4ever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people who say that they're happy being single...are just sayin that from what i've gathered...I'm sure your friend dates some real homeruns...And if a good dude did come along he'd prolly figure out how shallow your friend is and take off runin. Don't be a Sucka ...
2006-09-06 10:12:28 · answer #7 · answered by roy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, your right. I say all the time that i love being single. but at the same time when it comes down to relationships i want one but then when i finally do I freak out. i guess deep down in side she's tired of being alone but at the same time she wants to be alone so she doesnt get hurt. thats my porb. i dont want to fall inlove and five years down the lane we break up and Im the one hurt at the end. it happen's.
2006-09-06 10:14:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is. there is almost nothing better than being single. she needs to keep her head in the game and remember what she is doing! Who cares where the good men are, find the ones that kick ***!
2006-09-06 10:09:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm married and I can say I love being single.
2006-09-06 10:08:23 · answer #10 · answered by Fleur de Lis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋