ok at that moment my friend went up to his girlfriend and cursed at her and said that it was over and she got so emberassed cause there was alot of people looking at her and laughing what should she should have said'en at the moment? and do you think she sould'ent have boyfriends anymore please anwser both of my questions
2006-09-06 10:09:11 · 11 answers · asked by brenda r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She should have said, "it's not my fault you're wanting to be in a gay relationship with another guy"
2006-09-06 10:12:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well to start off with, it aint funny, those people laughin at er are jus nutcases. she was just at a wrong place at the wrong time.
Well first thing, why did her boyfriend curse at her? any problems that had been going on, any misunderstanding? i think first, she needs to have a chat with her boyfriend and find out exactly what the problem was and possibly to solve it.
Its a possibility that she still has feelings for him and so does the guy and all this may have been caused by a mere misunderstanding between em. Anyhow, assuming thats not the case then, things happen, it could have been anyone in her position its just unfortunate that she was the one.
To be frank, its done and dusted. she should not suffer just because he cursed her and not go out, thats just wrong. She can definetly enjoy her life and look for a partner if need be, and this time, make sure its a good one.
Peace.
2006-09-06 17:23:08 · answer #2 · answered by .imz_ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion in a situation like that one the less you reply back, the better off you are...no more than something like Thank you, I find your behavior disgusting. I am glad I found out who you really are.
She should not let a jerk like that have any impact on her future relationships. She can hold her head high and keep her character and dignity. There are many self centered jerks in the world and she probably will meet others.
Let this be a lesson for her to be stingy with her love and make it her business to require all men in her life to earn her respect.
Here is a quote for both of you. "Whenever things are not going your way, use it as an opportunity to show how much class you have".
2006-09-06 17:30:07 · answer #3 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course she should still have boyfriends. Why not?... because she might get her feelings hurt and/or get embarrassed again?
What she should have done, was said, "OK", and just laughed about, as if it were no big thing. Later, in private, she could cry if she wanted. In making it seem like no big deal, the joke would have been on him.
2006-09-06 17:15:35 · answer #4 · answered by eric l 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what she should have said ? not much info in ur question
this is normal in a relationship, try to iron out anomalies and missunderstandings.
find a new person if u feel that the current one is not in sync with you.
But keep trying. Known devil is better than a stranger
2006-09-06 17:32:17 · answer #5 · answered by DEUCN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In retrospect, it might have been funny if she had also laughed, to let everyone know that she wasn't bothered by what he said.
It was tacky and mean to break up with someone in public, though. So the girl is lucky to be rid of this guy.
2006-09-06 17:13:31 · answer #6 · answered by Nefertiti 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think that she should have asked him why he was mad and there is no need for her to stop gettin boyfriends just becuase she got emberassed everybody gets emberassed once or twice in there life!
2006-09-06 17:12:22 · answer #7 · answered by Shelley 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She will be okay,and she will have more boyfriends in the future.This happen all time in young relationships.Do not worry about it.For sure she was in shock at the moment.
2006-09-06 17:27:04 · answer #8 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its in the past, it no longer matters what she should've could've said. and Yes she can still have boyfriends, just be a little more choosey..
2006-09-06 17:11:31 · answer #9 · answered by yournotalone 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
number one stop laughing at her and two why not anyone could have a boyfriend of a girlfriend
2006-09-06 17:12:08 · answer #10 · answered by Patrick 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋