....why my ex-fiancee, when we broke up , he then wanted to get back together under one condition....that we would NOT make love so often. Geez!...don't know why buy it still bothers me. I thought all guys were "all that" on the sex. My husband has no problems at all with our sexlife and loves it when I am the agressor...why should this bother me so much in my thought?...just wondering...
2006-09-06 10:01:39 · 11 answers · asked by chatterella 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course you're going to still wonder, but you are married to some else now who loves you just as you are and didnt put any conditions on you!! Anyone who says they love you but you need to change a few things doesnt really love you as they would accept you as you are.
2006-09-06 10:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by tracy r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One person in a relationship almost always wants to have more sex than the other. The one that doesn't get it enough wants it more, and the one that gets it too much wants it less. And the longer the relationship goes on, the greater the desires of both.
2006-09-06 10:10:06 · answer #2 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You look like a big girl...maybe he was turned off by you but still wanted the security (financial and otherwise) of a relationship.....what do you think of that explanation?
2006-09-06 10:06:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, becuase there are other things to worry about. But, if he stop have sex with you, then worry. The reason he told you that is because you tiring him to much and he can't keep up.
2006-09-06 10:10:58 · answer #4 · answered by Sweepy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
was your ex-b/f older? 38-up? for some reason older guys don't want sex that often.don't let it bother you. obviously it was him not you.since you have a great sex life now.
2006-09-06 10:07:30 · answer #5 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GEEZE,, maybe he just couldn't hang
bet you don't miss that limp noodle. that to me is
a compliment" fahget abod et "
2006-09-06 10:08:25 · answer #6 · answered by rokrgrl77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have been uncomfortable with his sexuality or yours. Stoop thinking about him and appreciate the person you have now.
2006-09-06 10:05:18 · answer #7 · answered by Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you feel inadequate. get over it, you are probably over-sexed, not all guys can hang, I like a break every now and then.
2006-09-06 10:05:39 · answer #8 · answered by Angry Insightful Black 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. It's your husband that likes it, so forget it.
2006-09-06 10:04:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are not all the same.. they do still have differences and maybe he just prefer not to have sex with you too often.. i dunno his reason but i guessed you should have asked him why..
2006-09-06 10:05:20 · answer #10 · answered by keiCh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋