Family & Relationships - 5 September 2006

Find it diificult to date outside of your faith...

I sometimes feel like a walking contradiction because I still go out and party, but am also very spiritual...it is difficult to find a girl who is a little bit of both...I either endup with a girl who is to much of a prude or a girl who is a little to much into the world...it is so frustrating...does anyone else feel my pain? Where should I go to meet someone who is a little more like me. (and internet dating sites just don't work)

2006-09-05 16:52:42 · 8 answers · asked by O Jam 3 in Singles & Dating

I think unshaven women are so much more attractive -- it conveys confidence and independence. or is it just laziness. I'm a 32 y/o male, and can't seem to find any hirsute women.

2006-09-05 16:51:37 · 16 answers · asked by droth327 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok I have been cheated on before and now with my new boyfriend I'm letting the fear of it happening again both me, We sometimes ague because I make a big deal about even his friends staying with him, So how do i get over this fear

2006-09-05 16:51:31 · 6 answers · asked by Dr.Jones 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I got caught by the police drinking in the university pub and I am underage? Do you think they'll call my parents or my record will be screwed?

2006-09-05 16:51:11 · 13 answers · asked by freetimerman 1 in Friends

i'm sick of arguing over petty bullshit.is it underlying issues?i just wanna be happy;moreover,how does one be happy to be single? i haven't been there in 13years...please gimme some sympathy and honest answers..

2006-09-05 16:49:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been hangin with this girl I know more then usual. This weekend we were at the pool tanning and all I could think about was how damn sexy she looked in her bathing suit and how much more sexy she would look with out it on. I have always been a little curious about the same sex but never have I thought about it constantly on a daily basis. I really like this girl she's hot and funny and has a gorgeous smile but how would I pull somethin like this off without fu**ing up the friendship we already have or scaring her away. Any advice? Tell me your "first lesbian encounter".

2006-09-05 16:49:37 · 7 answers · asked by christi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is for my sister, not me. FYI. She's in middle school.

2006-09-05 16:49:15 · 1 answers · asked by away.laughing.on.a.fast.camel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-05 16:49:12 · 5 answers · asked by koolbreeze 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so I got back with my ex-fiance and he treated me like **** so I broke it off for the second time. And now he wants to try and make things work for the third time...keep in mine that we are planning to take things slow this time. And keep in mine that we both messed up not just him.

2006-09-05 16:48:30 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

All of my high school years i have fake the real me, but now i want people to see that side of me . But am sooo afride that they will not like me for me . What should i do?

2006-09-05 16:48:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

the 1 i go with just got out of jail and his friend seen me and wants 2 talk 2 me and the things he tells me seems so real he told me that he would wait and i respect that and i dnt know who to choose my boyfriend got out of jail and he knows that his friend ants 2 talk 2 me and he tells me to stay away from his friend his friend has so much more respect but i love my boyfriend more than ever and would never want 2 hurt him...so what should i do or who should i choose

2006-09-05 16:47:42 · 8 answers · asked by lil ace 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, everytime I start to talk to someone, I become so self aware of myself and self conscious. I start to mumble and flip things out of context cuz Im caring about what other people are thinking of me. Lately Ive been feeling low and ugly. What should I do, help? I can't even communicate to anyone like I would do at home, outgoing and speaks my mind.

2006-09-05 16:47:08 · 5 answers · asked by PinkPummpyB 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-05 16:46:55 · 10 answers · asked by Fen 2 in Singles & Dating

just cuz you've had intimate conversation - is that real? should u meet? isn't it the same as meeting a stranger in person and getting to know them?

2006-09-05 16:46:51 · 9 answers · asked by smartsexycurvy 1 in Singles & Dating

this is the thing.. i got separeted 7 months ago due to my ex told it was over and no chance of geting back together.... now 1 month ago same think happen to my co-worker and we stared to spend lots of time together due to i understand was his going thru... we starded going out like friends but last saturday we had sex and also yesterday... theres a big atraction on both sides... he talks about his ex and so due i... so i stop having sex with him before we get to atached?

2006-09-05 16:46:35 · 19 answers · asked by cupcake 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm about to have my baby and I find my job has been getting in my way lately. I feel I can do so much more at home for my household. I've been told a million times it's important to have a secret stash "just in case". Quite naturallly I won't be able to build on it if I do stay home and will rely solely on hubby's income. Any advice?

2006-09-05 16:45:34 · 26 answers · asked by Skypride 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-05 16:45:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would you sleep around more? I know I would, I hate condoms.

2006-09-05 16:45:28 · 11 answers · asked by Michelle 4 in Singles & Dating

i am 23 years old and i am a mother 0f 3. before i had children i was 5'6 120 lbs now i am 180 lbs. i was mad at all the weight i had gained during and after the pregnancy. before i got pregnant i had always been active. since ive had my children everyone has had something to say about my weight. my husband had been the only one who told me i was beautiful no matter what until now! my youngest is 4 mos. old and my husband and i got into a heated argument and he told me that he thought i looked disgusting. of course it hurt my feelings.he said that was the reason why he looked at pornos. the same night he wanted to be intimate. (we didn't) he says a person doesnt need motivation to lose weight. he thinks he's helping me by criticizing. now i have no self esteem and he doesn't understand why. he thinks me saying i dont have any esteem is a cop-out for me to not try to lose weight. someone please help me understand is there something wrong with me?

2006-09-05 16:44:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-05 16:44:15 · 5 answers · asked by vyly 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-05 16:43:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you remember what happened nearly five years ago, an event where 2792 people were killed. Of course you do but what do we do to honor those who died on that day, the heros who perished while trying to save people that they didn't even know people they had never met before. Why are we again divided as a country after we were so unified in the weeks and months after the attacks, have we forgot what it was that unified us. No we have not, we just don't care about anymore, last year my school did nothing to remember those who died on September 11th, 2001. But this year I say we remember, I say we unite, and I believe in this country, I know that we can show the world we haven't forgotten and I will be standing on the roadside with the American flag held high for as long as it takes for others to join me, because I love this country and I would wait forever for everybody else to love it as much as I do. And I just wanted to ask the rest of you Americans out there; WHO'S WITH ME!!!!!!!!

2006-09-05 16:43:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend was recently out of the country and got me a braclet...i was wearing it and it broke, it's been almost a week since this has happened and i haven't mentioned anything to him. i know i should tell him, but when and how?

2006-09-05 16:43:22 · 14 answers · asked by ajg ♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

After breaking up with my boyfriend last year, I met a GREAT man. We've been "friends" since December. We go out, travel together, talk on the phone 24/7, spend the night with each other and have even become intimate. I've fallen in love with this boy. He's led me to believe that he really cares for me, but because of his past relationship isn't ready to let another woman come into his life. He's been asking me to wait, but I finally see that my waiting is in vain and that we're going nowhere. I want to be the one and only because he's my one and only, but I know he sees other women.We decided that since it wasn't going to work, we would go our separate ways because I can't stand to be his friend, feeling the way I do for him.We agreed to lose contact and to not speak in public until the feelings die,on Monday, but today, I saw him in passing and he spoke and wanted to touch me like everything was cool.He even called and text?Does he really care or is he using me for the time being

2006-09-05 16:42:38 · 8 answers · asked by DaBossLady 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

The deal is i am going to be away for a couple days and wanna leave this girl at work a letter to say we need to go out when i get back. I also wanna leave something that will really get her. Nothing like i like you and wanna go out but something that will make her think and be like wow that was so sweet or nice or something like that. Just something that will want her to have me come back and wanna do something. And another thing i dont need some ******* guy giving me **** about me being a ***** or how i just need go and **** her or ****. That **** is not cool. Cause you guys are the *****'s and only use women for sex and **** like that.

2006-09-05 16:42:11 · 8 answers · asked by flirt 1 in Singles & Dating

"The absence of modesty makes life for a woman, however rich in the accomplishments, a waste and vacuum. Modesty lifts her to the heights of sublime holiness. The modesty of woman wields authority in the home and outside, in community as well as in the world."

___ jk saw such a quote from his Idol Sri Sathya Sai Baba. Any takers to give some blasts or opinions ...

2006-09-05 16:40:39 · 8 answers · asked by jayakrishnamenon 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My bf and i had been goin out for 1 yeah and this s_l_u_t sed all this stuff like i liked another guy and she ended up getting with him. Now when i c her at skool and dont no wat to say or do to really hurt her. What would u guys n gals say.

2006-09-05 16:38:19 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-05 16:38:14 · 8 answers · asked by annastasia1955ca 6 in Singles & Dating

His Side: He thinks that openly talking to guys on the net,on sexual subjects, even off answers, Is wrong and inapproite for her. And when she lies about who she is talking to, that the trust is broken.
Her side: She see's no harm talking to anyone, even guys, on the net. Even if it involves sexual subjects. And the lies are just to make sure there is not a argument.

Who is right?

2006-09-05 16:36:57 · 19 answers · asked by Common Sense 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really really like this girl and i think she likes me as well. I only get to see her in PE and sometimes walking home but not the same direction i go. When it be good to give her a note or have a friend talk to her?
God bless
may the lord be with u at all times ok

2006-09-05 16:36:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating