My bf and i had been goin out for 1 yeah and this s_l_u_t sed all this stuff like i liked another guy and she ended up getting with him. Now when i c her at skool and dont no wat to say or do to really hurt her. What would u guys n gals say.
2006-09-05 16:38:19 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are vindictive and want to cause her harm and you have a problem with her being a s_l_u_t ? Reality check! You are wacked in the head!
2006-09-05 16:41:32 · answer #1 · answered by pixiechick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello RAcH,
First off, there isn't much that you can do to people that spread bad rumors about you, except try to live a good life without them. The same for your X-boyfriend. If he didn't trust you after being with you for a whole year, what's that tell you about him?
I'm a firm believer in that the best revenge is to have a good life. Go out and meet other people. Concentrate on having fun without these other people. That's the best revenge. Pretty soon, these new people start to learn what sort of person that you really are, and they ignore the rumor mill, which is always bogus anyway.
Also, don't be cruel and try to spread bad rumors about other people. People will notice those things about you. Good luck and happy hunting.
--Rick
2006-09-05 16:49:50 · answer #2 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be extremely grateful that girl stolen him because your so-call boyfriend was never a real boyfriend to you in the first place. It is better to find out about this now, then after starting a family.
Now you learn that your ex-boyfriend is too easy, that he is not worth your time.
Beside, every time I think I am going to be serious with this guy to a point of him becoming my boyfriend, I automatically introduce him to a hot girl, who is a dear friend of mine. If he leaves me for her, then I know he is completely useless and a waste of my time The problem is now the hot girl comes to me and asking me why I am introducing her to all of these guys. All I could do is smile and say, "I value you, and I want them to know that I care about you." That was the only bullshit I could come up with.
2006-09-05 16:44:18 · answer #3 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I would grow up. Then, I would thank her for showing me how worthless the guy is, and tell her not to get mad at the next girl that he moves on to because it is his character to do so. If I was you I would stop having all the aggression and stop talking so vulgar. Then I would tell her that no good lying cheaters are the only type of bf she will get if she has to lye to get them.
2006-09-05 16:45:21 · answer #4 · answered by Country 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for the opportune moment as Jack Sparrow (ahem Captain Jack Sparrow) would say. It's no good coming up with a plan when an opportunity has arisen. The second one comes up though, you'll know it. Trust me. And enable to get your boyfriend back you should probably call him up and talk to him one on one.
2006-09-05 16:42:19 · answer #5 · answered by winds_of_justice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OPEN YOUR EYES -- your so-called boyfriend has a hand in this too. I doubt he went kicking and screaming into her arms. Seems he is/was a willing participant. That isn't stealing. That's someone else providing an opportunity, and your boyfriend took it. Turn the other cheek and move on with your life.
2006-09-05 16:41:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will b sad...but i wont do or say anything.... cos 1 hand will never clap by itslf.... it take 2
So if yr BF doesnt want to "go" over to her do u think she can sucess? So if she is a s l ut, hv u thought of wat is yr BF?
If my guy is so "easy" steal by other gal....wat the point of keeping him? It just a matter of time he will leave...therefore no point crying or "doing" anything for this "kind" of man la..
2006-09-05 16:43:27 · answer #7 · answered by D@ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had this happen and i told him that i would do whatever it took to get him back...and then i found ways to talk to him about it and what not...well it turned out that his new girl was cheating on him and he wouldnt believe anyone else..but when i told him he knew i wasnt making it up...so he dumped her and i was there as a friend and gave him space when he needed it and after a month went by we were back together.....and we have been married for 3 yrs now and have an 18 month old.
2006-09-05 16:42:27 · answer #8 · answered by *His_Playgirl* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She couldn't have gotten the BF if he had not wanted to be gotten.Obviously there were problems between you two.Best thing for you to do is quit wasting time worrying about him and her and concentrate on you.Treat yourself better and when you are ready find someone who will make you happy.
2006-09-05 17:18:48 · answer #9 · answered by Katherine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone can't STEAL a person from another person. People are not possessions that can be stolen. If your bf is with her then he went willingly and you need to quit blaming her and move on.
2006-09-05 16:40:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋