Ok I have been cheated on before and now with my new boyfriend I'm letting the fear of it happening again both me, We sometimes ague because I make a big deal about even his friends staying with him, So how do i get over this fear
2006-09-05 16:51:31 · 6 answers · asked by Dr.Jones 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no one can really tell you how to get the trust back..... it takes time and patience...... you do need to talk to the b/f about this issue....... talking helps..... maybe he can take some of your fears about it away....... let him help you.... if he is worth the effort you need to make the first step......... God bless
2006-09-05 16:55:04 · answer #1 · answered by Annie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-06 21:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by internetoptimiser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you are doing is creating a self fullfilling prophecy....you will bug him about this until he says the hell with it...if I'm gonna be accused I may as well do it.
You have 2 choices, 1)put your past in the past & deal with him for who & how he is.
2) run him off & be alone....which may not be all bad because it seems like you have some issues to work through before you can be in a really healthy relationship...Not trying to be mean just telling you this from experience that I gained MANY moons ago.
good luck with this!
2006-09-05 16:57:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You cannot take out on him what others have done to you. You need to trust him until he gives you a reason not to.
2006-09-05 16:54:43 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
share him with somebody, or buy him a hooker for the night and watch them. if you have a sister, that is even better. oh, oh, i know introduce him to your mom if she's single. intorduce him to all your friends. or just cheat on him first.
2006-09-05 16:55:22 · answer #5 · answered by sue man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is not a problem of being jealous, it really is a problem of self confidence. trust yourself a little more
2006-09-05 16:54:59 · answer #6 · answered by otto_web 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋