this is the thing.. i got separeted 7 months ago due to my ex told it was over and no chance of geting back together.... now 1 month ago same think happen to my co-worker and we stared to spend lots of time together due to i understand was his going thru... we starded going out like friends but last saturday we had sex and also yesterday... theres a big atraction on both sides... he talks about his ex and so due i... so i stop having sex with him before we get to atached?
2006-09-05 16:46:35 · 19 answers · asked by cupcake 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
eek, this is a toughy, well if both of you are just leaving a relationship that was long and there was love then both are you are afraid of being alone and it feels good to share some comfort with someone, it is highly unlikely you were meant for one another, rebound is a word existing for a reason, I am not saying this to be mean, because hey we all sometimes need to have some comfort and it sounds like you both needed one another, but I would take some more time to re-evaluate the situation and if after an absence there is still this amazing connection then perhaps the universe has given you a gift, good luck and many hugs
2006-09-05 16:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are both still married. Your cheating on your spouses and that will cause a lot of problems for you both whether you get divorced or patch things up with your spouse. There is always that snall chance that you and your spouses will patch things up. So until the divorce papers are final.My suggestion is stop having sex until both of your divorces are 100% done and you can show each other the divorce papers. And if your talking about your spouses your still hung up on your spouses.
2006-09-05 16:58:01 · answer #2 · answered by bucksolutions1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both of you are in the same situation, you can both relate since you two are doing the same thing with one another.
Why ruin a good thing that the two of you are building where you can come to one another and console as well as share intimacy.
2006-09-05 16:51:25 · answer #3 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can decide this. You need to consider where you want the relationship to go and what you are willing to give up for it (possibly your job depending on your company policy regarding co-workers dating). If it is worth it to you, good luck.
2006-09-05 16:50:03 · answer #4 · answered by 75160 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about it too much. Once you start thinking, the sex won't be any good. Just let him keep tappin that until you both decide you're tired of each other.
2006-09-05 18:04:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to stop thinking of it, it will make your life hard. If you really wanT just go and ask him again... as long you are Happy. Right?
2006-09-05 16:55:25 · answer #6 · answered by Fen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO STOP HAVING SEX WITH HM UNTIL BOTH
OF YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT YOU WANT. BOTH OF YOU
ARE GOING THROUGH A BREAKUP, SO JUST SLOW DOWN
AND TAKE IT SLOW. AND SEE HOW IT GOES DOWN THE
ROAD.
2006-09-05 16:49:46 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this another language translated into English?
2006-09-05 16:48:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop now before it gets messier
2006-09-05 16:47:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stop babe, get rid of that bad and guilty feeling
2006-09-05 16:52:49 · answer #10 · answered by elcabula2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋