All of my high school years i have fake the real me, but now i want people to see that side of me . But am sooo afride that they will not like me for me . What should i do?
2006-09-05 16:48:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just do your best to be yourself. If they don't like you for being yourself, then compatibility-wise, it's going to be harder to stay close friends if you know you've been dishonest. Those who like you for the real you arer the ones worth being friends with You won't be as good as friends otherwise if you're always faking. I'd suggest finding a social group interested in the same things you are and perhaps you can start there.
Good luck
2006-09-05 16:55:12 · answer #1 · answered by Zen Master D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can take comfort in the fact that almost everyone, especially young people, puts on some kind of front. And also you are at the age when many people typically start to learn to be more of themselves. It is a natural transition into adulthood. But no, not everyone will like you for who you are. Gaining the security to be yourself is one of the great struggles of life.
2006-09-05 16:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by s_e_e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you never should have hid yourself from anybody, is that how you want your life to be? i'm sorry you've chosen to do that, but now NOONE will EVER see the REAL you!
2006-09-05 16:58:44 · answer #3 · answered by david_e22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't start to be someone else accent your positive qualities and get out of your bubble a little bit so people know who you are
2006-09-05 16:51:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋