Family & Relationships - 1 September 2006

2006-09-01 04:27:53 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My life is just wrong, well my boyfriend right now got in a car accident I been dealing with all his depression and his doctors appointments for a year, he loves me but I am depressed I really don’t love him as much as I did before, he has changed a lot especially his mood he got to the point of screaming at me now. My ex-boyfriend has been calling me for the last 3 days and am really happy because he really is worried about me and I think I just love him a lot, and he has proved it what kind of guy waits for a girl for like a year. Am so confused I don’t know what to do.. If I leave my boyfriend right now it’s going to look bad but I am not happy with him anymore!! And my ex is just doing everything possible to get with me but i am confused. There’s a lot of pressure in the relationship I am in right now and I really need a change…. So what do you think I should do from you’re point of view??? Please answer am so desperate????
thankzzzz

2006-09-01 04:27:31 · 11 answers · asked by *********** 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband of three years left me one day after a silly argument over which restaurant to eat at. This apparently was the culmination of many pent up feelings he had been harboring. I found out a week later he had been having an affair with a woman he worked with.

I have since then filed for divorce and moved on (this happened almost a year ago). However, I find doubt and mistrust always creeping into my new relationship. And I don't like being the person who always questions his every move, every call, etc.

My question is...can you ever really move on completely? Can you ever learn to trust again? Or will I always harbor these doubts and insecurities?

I am afraid that I will drive away this new guy in my life by acting "crazy" so to speak.

2006-09-01 04:27:00 · 20 answers · asked by Trixie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

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2006-09-01 04:26:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In March of 2006 I decided that I had gathered up so much knowledge I could not gather any more information to share with the world that we know today. I accomplished this at the age of only 14. I am also one of the beuatiful people. One of my goals rite know is to discover how life started and to share with the world my knowledge on this subject. Does any one have any questions for the smartest person on planet Earth?

2006-09-01 04:26:04 · 20 answers · asked by hi 1 in Singles & Dating

I got this friend, we were friends ever since 9th grade. as soon as 10th grade came,in da begining, we were still friends (just not as close). Durring the middle and end we argued alot. Most of it had to do with the way she was acting.
her sister started attending that school and she got a new boyfriend. Now i didn't have a problem with any of dat till she started acting like they were her only priority, like i was never in the pic.
After dat we were friends on and off.
Finally she got me mad. we were chattin 1 day and she said that her boyfriend had made her cry acussing her of being a gold digger n only wanting him for his money. I consoled her n made her feel better.
like about 2 days after dat i saw them 2 together. I was angery and confused.
when i tried to ask her, she was actually defending HER boyfriend.dats wen i decided i wasn't gonna talk 2 her n-e more. I tried giving her another chance; she took it as a joke
now she wants 2 b friends. wat should i do??

2006-09-01 04:25:31 · 5 answers · asked by jade101 2 in Friends

I've just had an amazing year and a half relationship only to be dumped and find out through his family and friends that he was going to propose to me which freaked him out and ultimately resulted in the break up. I didn't even mention marriage- he has created the pressure in his own head. I have seen so many similar examples with my friends, and in many cases the guy will come back after some time and beg for another chance. Why do you do this guys???

2006-09-01 04:25:27 · 8 answers · asked by alexandrafalconer 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am in the lifestyle and some of the women I have met seem to do it for their man. I am just trying to get others opinions on it.

2006-09-01 04:24:46 · 11 answers · asked by apudendum 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife of 1 year is really upsetting me. She's not the same anymore. I've talked to her time and time again. She's addicted to the computer and pays me no attention. It was never like this when we met but as soon as I started making enough money to where she could be a housewife, all she does it sit on the computer. And whenever she does call me (which isnt often) all she can talk about is how her friends are mad at her or how she needs some money, or anything to relate to money. And when I try and change the subject and talk to her about anything that has to do with "me" she never pays attention. Im 22, attractive, fun and successful. Am I wasting my youth just being a slave to someone who doesnt give me what I need? Should I start looking for a new relationship? What would you do? Please help!!!

2006-09-01 04:23:45 · 33 answers · asked by Holden C 1 in Singles & Dating

sarcastic ****** with a smirk on my face, how can i change?

2006-09-01 04:22:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a Christian. My girlfriend wants an Indonesian traditional wedding, which is elaborate. But I don't agree with converting religion. I love her and suggested Civil Ceremony instead. What do you think?

2006-09-01 04:22:04 · 11 answers · asked by Patrick H 2 in Weddings

I'm talking about early in the game...like the first or second date. Do you think that person is sexually uninhibited, nasty, generous, easy, etc.? Be real with me.
Imagine if you took someone out and that person couldn't wait to get into your pants to give you oral but asked nothing of you in return. What's up with that?

2006-09-01 04:20:34 · 28 answers · asked by intentionalmasterpiece 5 in Singles & Dating

and what did it do for you?
are you addicted today?
how long did it take you to overcome the addiction?

2006-09-01 04:20:28 · 5 answers · asked by beachgirl90 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have tried taking them away,
to nicorette patches to trying to hypnotise them.(not so well i might add!) but they just say its so hard for them. i know and they know that they need will power but its just theyve been under so much stress lately i just dont know what to do.
i should add that they have tried to stop smoking but its quite hard watching them go through pain like that. i dont blame them because i love them i just want to kill the bloody ciggerettes. please suggest ideas on how to stop them smoking. dont ***** them off because i know many people like them who cant stop the drug.

2006-09-01 04:20:19 · 15 answers · asked by Make the world a better place 4 in Family

I am relocating to Oahu from the UK in order to marry my fiance, who has lived there most of his life. My 2 teenage children are also moving with us. As money will be a little tight for a year or two we are considering buying a property in Waianae. Do you think my english children will be ok living in this area?

2006-09-01 04:19:57 · 5 answers · asked by ele 1 in Family

Ok me and my bf always have no idea what to talk about on the phone? Does anyone have ne good ideas?

2006-09-01 04:19:48 · 7 answers · asked by Nessy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-01 04:19:46 · 6 answers · asked by Aarti 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex dumped me while I was deployed in iraq (im still there) because of the lack of attention I showed while we were together. I realize what I did wrong, and wont repeat it. How do I get her to believe that?

2006-09-01 04:19:35 · 27 answers · asked by Ryan Z 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband used to be all over me and in a sexual way and I would complain that I just want him to hug me or hold me or just give me a kiss, not make out with me everytime he touches me. So now he totally doesn't even touch me (except during sex). I ask him why and he says "that's what you told me to do." The thing is I am 9 months pregnant and it actually hurts my feelings. What should I do? by the way, he constantly tells me I'm hot, even during my pregnancy but yet he doesn't show it.

2006-09-01 04:18:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-01 04:18:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was told by some idiot man that all men fantasize about their girlfriend/wife/lover's sister(s). Please be honest, is this true?

2006-09-01 04:18:06 · 16 answers · asked by Dizzie 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a classmate which is... how can I say this, 28% gay and 72% cutie. I think he's gay cause he likes to get along with girls than my male classmates. I really like him cause he has a cute smile, very polite, very funny... yah know, like a gentleman. Take note please: he likes to get along with girls like exchanging secrets and stuff not the other side. Please give me advice if I should avoid him or not. Thanks-a-lot

2006-09-01 04:17:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am stumped! We have had a really tough year. I got really sick and was in and out of the hospital for 6 of the 12 months we have been married. I had to quit my job because of this so we are now on a tight budget. I really want to do something special for him but dont have alot of funds. Any Ideas?

2006-09-01 04:17:27 · 5 answers · asked by hebe935 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-01 04:15:42 · 41 answers · asked by Aarti 1 in Family

and are most guys who go single or with someone?

2006-09-01 04:14:50 · 16 answers · asked by *Amanda* 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-01 04:13:48 · 18 answers · asked by ntu 4 in Singles & Dating

10 points for detailed answer
pm me for more discussion if you want

2006-09-01 04:13:35 · 5 answers · asked by sextherapist99 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-01 04:13:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

this concerns a woman i met on the internet

2006-09-01 04:13:31 · 6 answers · asked by stan p 1 in Singles & Dating

so this is like a long story, but to put it in short terms, i was with this guy for 2 years, engaged, and happy. he went overseas due to the military, and hes been there for 6 months. We were together the whole time hes been there, then he tells me he dont want to be with me nemore. This was about 3 weeks ago, now since that has happened, hes been talken to me, weve been emailing back and forth, and he called me a few times, and ive called him a few times, were pretty much talkin about wats up with eachother. Now were tellin eachother we love eachother, but when i ask him am i just wasting my time with us, or is there a future he doesnt answer me. Im thinking i should just get away from him, but its hard. I dont know what to do.

2006-09-01 04:13:11 · 16 answers · asked by love_chicky63 1 in Other - Family & Relationships