I got this friend, we were friends ever since 9th grade. as soon as 10th grade came,in da begining, we were still friends (just not as close). Durring the middle and end we argued alot. Most of it had to do with the way she was acting.
her sister started attending that school and she got a new boyfriend. Now i didn't have a problem with any of dat till she started acting like they were her only priority, like i was never in the pic.
After dat we were friends on and off.
Finally she got me mad. we were chattin 1 day and she said that her boyfriend had made her cry acussing her of being a gold digger n only wanting him for his money. I consoled her n made her feel better.
like about 2 days after dat i saw them 2 together. I was angery and confused.
when i tried to ask her, she was actually defending HER boyfriend.dats wen i decided i wasn't gonna talk 2 her n-e more. I tried giving her another chance; she took it as a joke
now she wants 2 b friends. wat should i do??
2006-09-01 04:25:31 · 5 answers · asked by jade101 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Giver her the silent treatment..
Don't talk to her for as long as you can...
If she is just a trouble to you... What's the point.. There are so many other people there you have to meet and find new friends. Be open minded. You will not die without her.
2006-09-01 04:31:01 · answer #1 · answered by yulnores 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be her friend but don't get wrapped up in all her problems. Don't try and be her saviour. If she has boyfriend problems and wants your advice then give it. But turn it around on her that she is an adult now and should be able to decide her self. If she doesn't take your advice, then don't take it personally. If she does something stupid after you told her not to do it and then comes whining to you - show her the tough love. She's got to learn to work things out her self instead of always expecting you to try and make everything ok. Find other things to do with your time besides worrying about her problems. Could be your own boyfriend, a band, a play, a sport, a job.
Good luck.
2006-09-01 04:50:00 · answer #2 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously never had a boyfriend that you cared about. This happens all the time in any relationship. People spat then they make up.
If you were a friend of hers you would stand with her in her decisions and try to understand.
Sorry, but you sound a little jealous of this relationship. My husband and I fight all the time and I leave and move with my sister. Then I want to go back with my husband and my sister Tell's me how stupid I am and things. This just drives a wedge between my sister and I. Fighting is part of any relationship, making up is the good part.
You need to respect your friends decision, and be a friend. When you have a relationship, you will understand her side.
2006-09-01 04:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to learn how to deal with certain people. She can still be your friend but feed her with a long spoon. Women get caught up in the moment when we meet a new man but in the ends friends will always be there IF they are true friends. Believe me, honey you are definitely a good person and God sees that. As long as you know you played your part and stuck by her side thats all that matters. In the end she will realize but then thats when you will be more on point. You have to learn how to allow certain people in your circle and although she has been your friend for a while you have to look out for you! and whats best for you and your feelings are way more important then hers especially when in the end you are the one upset and she is somewhere chillin with her man. Im not saying not to be her friend just keep your guards up and learn from this!
2006-09-01 04:36:55 · answer #4 · answered by Rinah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl let that girl do what she wants to do. Friends come and go.
2006-09-01 04:33:02 · answer #5 · answered by milkchoclate1989 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋