Family & Relationships - 1 September 2006

there is this guy who is friends with my ex.I saw him out one night and we hit it off well talking,I was still bitter about catching my ex cheating on me,he understood and listened, he drove me home that night and I invited him to stay,he did,I asked him to sleep in the bed with me and he did till I slept.He was a complete gentleman and did not make any moves.I saw him once since then and he came to me and said"your killing me".My ex was there also so we had to keep quiet.It has been 6 months since that night,I have not seen or spoke to him since.I still think about him.My ex found out about that night and is so pi$$ed, even though he should not matter.Now his friend is freaked.I heard he likes me but my ex freaks him out.What do I do?

2006-09-01 03:46:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have often wondered if there was something that I can improve about myself or if there was something I was doing or not doing to meet my husbands needs.When I ask him what I can do he says that it is too late now for me to do anything.We have been married for 7 years and I've heard him say that he wants to be with a certain woman (name withheld)because she can give him the stability he needs.What stability is that?I am not overweight.I've been told even by my husband and other men that I am beautiful.I am a damn good cook and housekeeper.I work fulltime and take care of 2 kids.I am pursuing a diploma and eventually a degree in college.I try to get involved in his hobbies if he lets me.I do not nag my husband and adventurous sexually.So why then does he still cheat?

2006-09-01 03:45:30 · 44 answers · asked by JUSEve 2 in Marriage & Divorce

And what combo was it?

2006-09-01 03:45:25 · 14 answers · asked by Married Male 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this crush and his friends are talking about me, the next day my friends stared to laugh at me and my crush started to play rough with me....What should I do?

2006-09-01 03:45:24 · 9 answers · asked by Shopaholic Pwincess 3 in Friends

2006-09-01 03:45:19 · 6 answers · asked by ritu00p 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Partner, but can it be disrespectful ie. turning your head, looking more than a glance or staring and the frequency of looks. I have seen where one partner looks at almost every person that walks past them (to me that is checking them out) is that ok, a look is a look, or is there a point when it becomes disrespectful to the other partner. at what point does it become disrespectful, if at all?

2006-09-01 03:45:05 · 23 answers · asked by foxyraley 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm doing a study and could use some outside opinions on this topic. In my opinion I believe that some people just can't be statisfied with what they have and need to move from person to person.

2006-09-01 03:44:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-01 03:44:06 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So me and my husband move to texas about two years ago im originaly from california i left all my family to come and be with him even if all his family was ganna be here. last year we spend christmas and new years with my family i feel like this is fair because we see his family all the time . and he told me that this year if i wanted to see my family for the holidays i should go by myself. this makes me feel so bad that it doesnt matter to him if we are together or not. his mom is always trying to make him feel guilty for going with expressions like if you go i'll be dead when you come back or im goin to mexico for christmas and you have to go with me couse im old and i cant go by myself. so last night he wanted some anal sex and i said if you want it you have to promise that you will go with me to california for the holidays with no hessitation he said "NO" so i need to know am i wrong for wanting hi to spend the holidays with me is it ok to spend them apart please help me !!

2006-09-01 03:42:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

kinda like this: you're early 20's w/a g.f. but sex is boring, she's mid 30's, married & has it bad for you..what do you do??

2006-09-01 03:42:47 · 16 answers · asked by Kelly T 1 in Singles & Dating

my 14 month daughter hasn't slept a full night for 11 months and i feel like crap. any good suggestions?

2006-09-01 03:42:35 · 23 answers · asked by xxx 3 in Family

i"ve had alot of black woman who try to argue or fight me over my own husband an they dont know either one of us what kind of s**** is that

2006-09-01 03:42:03 · 44 answers · asked by thumper 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-01 03:41:55 · 16 answers · asked by simi 1 in Singles & Dating

If I go to a fine dining restaurant, can i wear a cocktail dress?

2006-09-01 03:41:25 · 4 answers · asked by beeny 1 in Singles & Dating

I crave the "New Relationship" feeling. When my relatioships become long term, I loose interest and ALWAYS seem to find someone to replace that feeling with. Will i always be that way? Or have i just not found the "right" person yet?

2006-09-01 03:41:18 · 6 answers · asked by ladyjno7 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-01 03:41:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Have you ever received a phone call from a wife/girlfriend and was cheating with their husband/boyfriend. and told them you were not. and if you did, why?

2006-09-01 03:40:51 · 15 answers · asked by BB 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we are bith in college, and we are in the same math class together. the teacher puts us in groups for the whole semister, and we have to do group projects. She gave us a number 1-5 and she and I were both 5's. We have like 7 people in our group. I know it's weird for a college class but the grades are based on group activities. Well we talk after class about the group projects and stuff. I found out that she had a b/f cause she was talking and was like "I have been dating this loser for 4 1/2 years" She made a face like its been a long time, so I might as well still date him or something like that. I don't know women well lol. We still talk like friends and we all shared e-mails, but I feel like its possiable she may like me, but is not clueing me in cause she has a b/f. I really haven't done anything with her since I have known her for 2 weeks. Any suggestions? I'm lost.

2006-09-01 03:40:45 · 4 answers · asked by james w 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-01 03:40:34 · 3 answers · asked by Christina 2 in Singles & Dating

When we got married she was very slim. Since my fourth son was born she has made no effort to lose any weight. Now as if the children didn't cost me enough she eats all the time. I have to pay for all her food because she sits at home eating all day when the children go to school. I have to pay extra for gas when I drive her to get take out. She can't make her mind up until she gets to the drive thru and sees the menu. I have to drive because she is too fat to fit behind the steering wheel. And she costs me a fortune on sofas, chairs, beds and toilet seats because she always breaks them. Can I divorce her for letting herself go?

2006-09-01 03:39:49 · 42 answers · asked by pakistani_spack 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My dad is getting married this december and he is so excited... But it seems thou that me and my sister is having trouble to spend more time with our soon to be stepmom because she is always with our dad all the time and we barely see them only like midnight or near midnight. My real mom is having doubts about my soon to be step mom because she thinks after they have a new baby my dad wint pay any attention to me and my sisters. The worst part is my dad is telling me bad things about my mom and my mom is doing the same.... Its just that they want me and my sis to take a side but i dont know who to trust... what should i do?

2006-09-01 03:39:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

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All across the alien nation.
Everything isn't meant to be okay.
Television dreams of tomorrow.
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All across the alien nation.
Everything isn't meant to be okay.
Television dreams of tomorrow.
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2006-09-01 03:39:07 · 7 answers · asked by Lil Jon 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How is yr life ?

2006-09-01 03:38:37 · 36 answers · asked by ally 1 in Friends

I will be turning 18 on Monday, and even though I've dated 2 guys this summer, neither one developed into anything. One, broke up with me because he wanted to be free with college around the corner. The other, I broke up with because of lack of common interests. (Which turned out to be a good decision on my part, because he's a fricken liar). I want to be in a relationship because otherwise I just go looking for physical attention, almost anywhere I can get it. I don't know why I need a guy to feel secure, especially after I spent 4 years of my life single. The guys that I like either don't like me that way, or aren't ready for a serious relationship. Why are all the decent guys who are worth dating, never interested? I'm not ugly, I'm not fat and I still don't understand it. I guess some guys get intimidated by the fact that I'm smart. But if they knew anything about me at all, they'd know that pretty much lasts only as far as the books go. I wanna know why ME isn't good enuf!

2006-09-01 03:38:24 · 17 answers · asked by shortchic070307 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-01 03:38:23 · 20 answers · asked by dearson b 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-01 03:37:04 · 13 answers · asked by rhiannon2797 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-01 03:36:55 · 16 answers · asked by shahidmian2004 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

She asked me if I was going to the college football game while we were in class. I screwed it up of course and said no.

Next time should I ask her if she is going to the game ? What can I do to get some kind of date with the girl?

We are in college.

2006-09-01 03:36:35 · 26 answers · asked by JoeIQ 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-01 03:36:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-01 03:35:25 · 7 answers · asked by Smart Mark 2 in Friends