2006-09-01 03:44:06 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Foreplay is essential to sex. A guy might try to "get to the prize" but foreplay is a valuable part of the process for the woman. When a woman gets "turned on" her vagina releases lubricant that allows the penis to slide in without rubbing, burning or pain. This is also known as "getting wet". Without foreplay, sex can be painful for a woman.
Sex can be painful even when both people are turned on to the max. This is where unrealistic expatiations can be harmful. Are you prepared to have 'bad sex'? Are you able to communicate to your partner what makes you physically happy and can you say 'no' if something hurts or gets to scary? Sometimes the guy orgasm very quickly which can be a let down for his partner and for himself.
What happens after sex? I don't mean "cuddling" either. Do you know resources you can go if you find out too late you are not emotionally equipped to deal with sex? When having sex and reaching orgasm many chemicals and hormones are released in the brain that can make either or both people feel both very good and then come crashing down. Sometimes there is a void that can leave you feeling empty, alone and unloved. Sometimes you find out too late you made a mistake. You must have a resource for dealing with this problems and a trusted adult to go to should things turn out bad.
2006-09-01 14:44:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
It means you are doing a great job of getting him aroused. When that happens, after he comes, you should give him a few minutes to rest (half hour at most) while continuing foreplay. After 15 mins to half hour, he should be ready to go again and this time it will last much longer and you will be aroused from all of the anticipation and foreplay. On the other hand, if he just wants to come and then quit for the day, you may want to find a more willing partner.
2006-09-01 03:48:27 · answer #2 · answered by nuclear_science 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, it's a good thing! It means he is so turned on by being in bed with you he can't hold back. Mechanically, you can do a few things to help his "staying power" such as intermittent pauses between thrusts or wearing condoms or dulling cream, but for the most part some people just reach orgasm faster (although age does tend to reduce that tendency). As long as he is pleasing you in other ways, not just sexually but in life in general, he sounds like a keeper!
2006-09-01 03:49:06 · answer #3 · answered by acyberotaku 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Means he's could be suffering premature ejaculation. If that's the case then focus on foreplay and make him *** through that, then have sex afterwards, he should last longer then or buy condoms that have a numbing agent in them to reduce the sensation and make a man last longer. Alternatively, could just be that you are relatively tight or if you've just stopped using condoms, he's not used to the feeling of it.
Does that help?
2006-09-01 03:48:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ehm..
Premature ejaculation can be cured with natural methods. One really good one you can follow is http://www.goobypls.com/r/rd.asp?gid=565
When a man is suffering from premature ejaculation, he is often climaxing before his partner and in the case of most men it is difficult if not impossible for them to continue intercourse after ejaculating. That’s because chemicals are released when a man ejaculates and these are the same chemicals that make a person feel sleepy and/or not aroused. It’s not that they have suddenly lost interest; just their brain is telling them that the sex is over. This effect is more prominent after intercourse than after masturbation because intercourse actually causes four times more of these chemicals to be released. If premature ejaculation occurs frequently, it can lead to embarrassment for the man and sexual frustration for both partners.
Have a nice day
2014-09-13 09:55:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he loves you so much and thinks youre very sexy...... or he is masturbating too much and that usually makes you come fast which in turn will also make him come fast in bed..... or he is not getting enough sex so after 3 or 4 days he is likely to come in 3 or 4 minutes..... here's what to do..... get him a penis ring, this makes all men last alottttttt longerrrrrrrr if its worn correctly and is the right size......this works well for those who suffer from premature ejaculation, keep him away from sex pills because they just dont work (unless its Viagra l.o.l) or prolonging creams coz they tend to burn or numb you both with numbing agents and worse. penis ring it is , then next week you can come here to www.yahooanswers.com and ask " my boyfriend takes hours to come how can i keep up" l.o.l !!!
2006-09-01 03:46:02 · answer #6 · answered by insenergy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The Diagnostic Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM IV) defines premature ejaculation as a persistent or recurrent ejaculation with minimal sexual stimulation before, on or shortly after penetration and before a person wishes. Wow, that’s not a sexy definition. Personally, I define it as you come quicker than you or your partner wants. Luckly this is a great solution for premature ejaculation https://tr.im/87cac
2015-01-25 04:58:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This usually means that he doesn't know what he is doing. Guys can prevent premature ejaculation if they want. They can stop for a few seconds and then start again. I think he needs to read up on sex!
2006-09-01 03:46:32 · answer #8 · answered by #3ontheway! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it means that he is really excited to do you and has not yet controlled his emotions. next time you have sex, give him a hand job first, let him rest for about 5 minutes, get him hard again, and then see how long he lasts!
2006-09-01 03:51:21 · answer #9 · answered by george 2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-27 20:08:30 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋