2006-09-01 03:37:04 · 13 answers · asked by rhiannon2797 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you must keep yourself busy, to keep your mind off of it.
i also recommend not spending too much time alone.. you will only end up wallowing in self pity.. keep among friends..
do some things to cheer yourself up.. go shopping, get your nails and hair done... girly stuff like that if you're into it..
my advice, keep busy and amongst people you care about and have fun with..
that and time will mend it.. i know its rough.. sorry darlin, hang in there.. a broken heart is one of the worst things to go through.. best wishes to you hun
2006-09-01 03:40:22 · answer #1 · answered by nicoles1504 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a time off alone and grieve. Let it all out. Cry go mad do whatever and keep on doing it in one sitting. Every human emotion can be completely dealt with within 6 hours. If you do it intensely and meaningfully enough three hours should be enough. Dont hold back don't try to make yourself feel better or avoid it. Go for it for 3 or 4 hours.
Then work with the following and you will be fine. :-)
Exercise - releases endorphins which will make you feel better.
Don't be alone
Avoid alcohol (unless seriously partying in a nightclub)
avoid any hallucigenic drug like acid
Mix with new people and go out a lot.
Get with a group of single viby people that are on the prowl, hang with them for a bit.
avoid places where you will see couples together.
avoid social responsibilities where there are couples
avoid places you used to go
avoid music you used to listen to
go on a wild holiday if you can. ( I suggest ios island in Greece, wild)
take up Yoga ot Tai chi
Avoid a high intake of processed sugars - leads to depression
Go to a herbal shop and ask for a mood lifter/ stabiliser
avoid doing anything you will berate yourself for
And remember you are beautiful, the world is your oyster and there are a thousand people out there who would give anything to love you.
2006-09-01 11:00:49 · answer #2 · answered by PsiKnight9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep yourself as busy as you possibly can. Occupying your mind with anything other than the cause of your broken heart, it will help you heal faster and keep from wallowing in sadness. Now is the perfect time to focus on yourself! Make yourself #1! Do things you couldn't really do while in a relationship. Do things that are all about you. Pamper yourself with a facial or manicure. Take a class in something you love (be it music, writing, fashion, anything!). Rearrange your bedroom, create a project to focus on... You get the idea... :)
2006-09-01 10:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on dear... everything comes and goes.. What did it happen? Yr bf let you down without any reason? or what else..? It is painfull but go on.. you have to react and tell yourself.. that.. You are a strong, wonderful, intelligent and full person so nothing and no-one can destroy you..
Ok it happened but you go on.. due to you are stronger than any other else..
Go out, meet friends, eat an ice-cream, play sport, cry and then smile..
2006-09-01 10:44:27 · answer #4 · answered by tufty2310 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time babes. Thats all you can do is give it time. I am sorry about a broken heart i would hate that to happen to and i couldn't bare it.
2006-09-01 10:40:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Burn his picture and other stuff that reminds you of him. Join a social club. Learn new skills. Go out with girlfriends. Pick up a bestseller, movie,etc. The key is- get busy. You will get out of the black cloud.
2006-09-01 10:44:05 · answer #6 · answered by Johannu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about it, if you were the better half in the relationship then hes the one who needs to be asing this question. if you know you gave it your all then thats all anyone can asks of you. he probably wasnt worth it. Next time give your quality time to a quality person.
2006-09-01 10:43:48 · answer #7 · answered by michelle m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only think is time!!
seriously it happenened to me few months back,all i wanted was some proper answers all my friends said it takes time!!i was like thats not helping but i have soon relised that is all that helps time...spending time with friends and family and doin things u enjoy good luckxx
2006-09-01 10:44:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
an old man once told me open my palm and if the bird
that i like fly away and did not return then let it go.
set u heart free and get another bird.
2006-09-01 11:03:55 · answer #9 · answered by kimht 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep yourself busy so your not thinking about it as much. Spend alot of time with friends and family.
2006-09-01 10:44:15 · answer #10 · answered by oxygenO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋