there is this guy who is friends with my ex.I saw him out one night and we hit it off well talking,I was still bitter about catching my ex cheating on me,he understood and listened, he drove me home that night and I invited him to stay,he did,I asked him to sleep in the bed with me and he did till I slept.He was a complete gentleman and did not make any moves.I saw him once since then and he came to me and said"your killing me".My ex was there also so we had to keep quiet.It has been 6 months since that night,I have not seen or spoke to him since.I still think about him.My ex found out about that night and is so pi$$ed, even though he should not matter.Now his friend is freaked.I heard he likes me but my ex freaks him out.What do I do?
2006-09-01 03:46:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget about your ex, it sounds like he didnt give much thought to your feelings while you were an item. Contact this guy you like and see if he wants to meet up. If he does, dont make a secret of the fact you are seeing each other. After the way your ex treated you its really none of his business and if he makes trouble for both of you, kindly point out if he hadnt cheated, you all wouldnt be in this situation.
2006-09-01 03:56:09 · answer #1 · answered by cookiemunstr21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you should not have taken the route of trying to be with your ex friend, this is just drama waiting to happen. I don't know if you was trying to get revenge or what? But particuraly this is what you call a whore. You got to realize your ex has a right to be pissed, his friend spent the night with you and slept in the same bed with you and you are his ex, just because he broke up with you for some reason, I am sure he still have some feelings for you. There are no point of trying to keep quiet cause what you do in the dark will come to the light. Of course his friend is freaked, he is scared of what your ex is going to do to him or say to him. This was a total mistake on both you and his friend. What you need to do is move on and find you someone else and not one of his friend just to get back at him, Realize you and him are not together anymore but just because your not doesn't mean you should run to one of his friend for love. That's a no no. Drama, Drama, Drama.
2006-09-01 04:22:45 · answer #2 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell your ex to mind his buisness. If you hit it off with this guy and he was a gentlemen then why not go out with him again? Tell him to stand up to your ex and be a man. He can let him know he treated you bad and now hes gonna take his place as a real man should. Its his loss. hes and ex for reason. Tell him to find some other girl to go cheat on. Go for it with this other guy!!!! you might be pleasantly surprised. he could be the one you been missing all this time. might be THE ONE" you never know. give him a chance and i think you both should just stay away from your ex.
2006-09-01 03:53:28 · answer #3 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is worth it for the both of you then who cares about the ex. He will either get over it or stop being friends with the guy. Its a decision that the two of you would have to make. Seems like a nice enough guy, I would say go for it!
2006-09-01 03:56:35 · answer #4 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short..
do what makes you happy..if you and this guy hit it off....
then go for it...
both of you need to do it for yourselves...
don't live your life trying to make others happy..
if you do..you may lose out on some great opportunities.
The ex will survive.
2006-09-01 04:03:14 · answer #5 · answered by joschaos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like too much drama. Run from both of them
2006-09-01 03:55:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your distance, i say guys alsways talk and your ex just might put things in his head that shouldnt be there. becareful its not a game on your ex's part also.
2006-09-01 03:52:06 · answer #7 · answered by tsd574 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget the ex and go out with that guy that you like.
2006-09-01 03:49:27 · answer #8 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your ex should mind his business...go out with the guy you like ...
2006-09-01 03:57:53 · answer #9 · answered by iris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your ex and his friend want to mess u up. they hv planned to rubbish ur image. dats wat guys do a lot
2006-09-01 04:01:26 · answer #10 · answered by she devil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋