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well if i were you i would find out the reason why she hasnt told her parents yet. an engagment is ment to be shared with the family a joyus occasion. but it seems that girlfriend does not want to share your happy news.

if she wasnt ready for marriage why get engaged to you. the only way round it is to ask her why she has not told the parents

2006-09-01 03:42:12 · answer #1 · answered by lisa7777 2 · 0 0

Listen to me, because I was the same way when my BF proposed to me.

It doesn't mean that she's not ready. Many people react to things differently, perhaps her relationship with her parents is odd. Maybe she has strict parents and don't know how to tell them (especially since you did not ask either parent for her hand in marriage). This is something joyous yet scary at the same time, I'm sure she's happy (Lord know I was) but she's probably afraid of telling her parents....

I think the best thing for the both of you to do is to tell her parents together (thats what i did and everything turned out fine). Discuss what how both of you are going to tell them and where. This is something that her parents need to know so do it together.


And if you want to know how she really feels, then you should try asking her.

2006-09-01 04:05:17 · answer #2 · answered by Melia 4 · 0 0

no, she's obviously too immature if she's even afraid of facing her parents or maybe its just that she's not sure about getting married. Sorry - didn't mean to make that sound harsh, but it's really the only way of saying it.

Talk to her about it and you may get a better feel for what's going on.

2006-09-01 03:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by island3girl 6 · 0 0

Well, did you propose with a ring, or just asked her. If she was excitied about getting married, she would be telling her parents. If she hasnt said anything, thats not a good sign. Have you set a date?

2006-09-01 03:41:37 · answer #4 · answered by krsha79 1 · 0 0

It doesn't sound good. Try the old fashioned method and ask her father for her hand in marriage. It will make a great impression. BTW, have you bought her a ring? Does she wear it?

2006-09-01 03:47:48 · answer #5 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0 0

no...she's not ready for marriage!
Getting engaged is a wonderful experience....why wouldn't you want to tell your parents!

2006-09-01 03:41:54 · answer #6 · answered by cutefeeties 2 · 0 0

Nope..If she was prepared for marriage and really loved you she would have done so already.Me I told my mom the same day and was telling everybody and showing everybody my ring and was so excited

2006-09-01 03:40:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I kinda doubt that she's really ready, unless there's something wrong with the relationship between her and her parents.

2006-09-01 03:42:01 · answer #8 · answered by djecse 3 · 0 0

Ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm NO WAY!!! So, I take it you didn't ask her Dad?! What the hell is she thinking.. I would sit her down tonight and see where she is in that lil head of hers and see if she really wants to get married!

2006-09-01 03:41:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

No. If she really loved you and wanted to go through with it, she'd be telling everyone and showing off the ring.

2006-09-01 03:39:58 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0 0

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