Family & Relationships - 1 September 2006

I have been friends with this girl for about two years. We aren't close friends, we have hung out, but it is REALLY rare. We have always met up at the college and talked and hung around until we had to go home.
We share some same views and she really feels comfortable with me. She's talked to me about most of her problems and situations. She has told me before on seperate occasions that I am one of her closest guy friends.
Through out our friendship, I have had feelings closer than friendship towards her. But I have shrugged them off because I don't want to ruin our closeness.
Latetly, I have felt more passionate towards her, and feel like I really want to be with her. But I am a bit afraid of how she might take it. I don't want her to feel awkward around me if she doesn't feel the same for me.....

So what I ask is: How should I tell her? If I should at all......

And please, Do not say "just go for it", because if it were that simple, I wouldn't be asking.....

2006-09-01 04:53:04 · 8 answers · asked by AJAY 2 in Singles & Dating

The world just seems to be spinning out of control.If you can share a smile or a minute for someone,at least we would all be doing something positive.

2006-09-01 04:52:37 · 37 answers · asked by ? 3 in Friends

2006-09-01 04:52:11 · 13 answers · asked by canibus 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-01 04:52:03 · 9 answers · asked by spike_is_my_evil_vampire 4 in Weddings

(serious question)
i saw this on a movie and thought it was funny, then my girlfriend was watching a tv show called like sex w/ susan or sumthing and i let her try it on me, it felt good but i couldnt look her in the eyes the next morning. is this weird?

2006-09-01 04:51:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met a guy in december of 2004 and we seemed to have really clicked...but after 6 months of talking and going out and having fun together, we somehow lost contact with each other. after another 8 months, out of no where he calls me and here we go again...we are still talking and having fun, but i feel that it isnt going anywhere...is he just playing games???

2006-09-01 04:51:19 · 23 answers · asked by Tina 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-01 04:51:13 · 15 answers · asked by trulords 1 in Friends

2006-09-01 04:50:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or are the majority of men bisexual or secretly gay,,and just wont come out and say it?

2006-09-01 04:50:05 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my wife sometimes find it hard to be accepted into the "normal" society in our town. it is small and old fashioned. we have 2 children and people react differently.

2006-09-01 04:49:08 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i was born and raised in very conservative east-asian conutry. and i have an indian gf who i have been going out for about 4 years.

the problem is that we have totally different concept of sex. to be perfectly honest, she's the fisrt girl i've ever seen in my life who does masturbation in front of bf!!!(mostly after we have sex, which means i never satisfied her -_-) we once did it in public place, and she even gave me a bl*w j*b in a van. (toching each others thingy is like nothing for us...we do it very often) i have never done this kind of stuff with anyone else when i was back in my contry.

i can admit that i'm one horny creature and i'm very much enjoying sex life with her but sometimes i feel really insecure. few seconds ago, (all of sudden) my gf sent me a msg in my language through msn which goes like "big c*ck inside wet p*ssy" actually, that is why i'm writing this.

do u think i have right to be insecure and she's too much or is every girl in open culture like this?

2006-09-01 04:48:59 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and sure you know where your going?

2006-09-01 04:48:33 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3 in Friends

I have 2 close friends - one is super demanding with very arguable to her utmost rights who expects everything to be told to her; while another is rather sweet but very selfish. I want to maintain this friendship but very hard. I feel the pressure each time we meet and it seems everything has changed since we've grown older. The first one demands the most, and i've never seen anyone as demanding as her. She always claims that im her best friend. Are friends supposed to be like this? Serious answers please. Thanks.

2006-09-01 04:46:35 · 22 answers · asked by Springboard 2 in Friends

2006-09-01 04:45:48 · 10 answers · asked by shawtyp0000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-01 04:45:15 · 18 answers · asked by Roshan M 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-01 04:44:05 · 27 answers · asked by shawtyp0000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you ever go back and read it now?

2006-09-01 04:43:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and this guy have been seeing each other for about 2 months. I have yet been able to make the first move or be aggressive, I don't know why.. he just has some weird effect on me...

Anyways last night we were unable to have sex (female reason...) so instead I decided to help him out.. if you get my drift.. it was good and he finished. All good..

Well do think this brought us closer? Do you think he might like me just a little bit more?Just the fact that I did something just for him and I have yet to do anything of the sort cause of my intimidation.

2006-09-01 04:43:36 · 14 answers · asked by C-BIZZLE 2 in Singles & Dating

Youve lived your life by it,its always been there.

2006-09-01 04:43:12 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3 in Friends

ok, so I love rough sex and 4-play, like my fav. toy is my whip, and i love to use it and to have it used on me, so yeah, is that hot or do most guys or gurl not enjoy it, girls or guys answer, i like both...

2006-09-01 04:43:03 · 4 answers · asked by LuckyCharm17 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-01 04:42:17 · 8 answers · asked by shawtyp0000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

that when you marry young you had to because you were pregant. Doesn't anyone think positive about young love??

2006-09-01 04:41:47 · 18 answers · asked by Raineybaby 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-01 04:41:34 · 8 answers · asked by jennifer b 2 in Singles & Dating

have a friend like much and would like to help. She's divorced, has a lovely 12 yo daughter that lives with her. Her husband lives w/ another woman and the problem is the girls likes a lot her dad's partner. This makes my friend mad. She says the girl behaves better when at her dads house. Sometimes she has to ground the girl, but when she does something wrong at her dad's house, his partner just says, Hun, this was not right, I'll explain why, and the girl listens and obeys. The girl spent the last Saturday at father's house and his partner took the girl went to a lingerie store to get her first bra. When she came back, her mom, almost had a nervous break down, threw a bad tantrum over her girl first bra: You betrayed me, you're a nasty daughter, cause of that ***** you deprived me of such important moment for a mom, etc She destroyed one of the bras and locked the girl in her room for the whole Sunday. The girl is feeling guilty, is depressed and wants to leave my friend.

2006-09-01 04:41:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I do

2006-09-01 04:41:05 · 17 answers · asked by fffffffffuuuuuuuuuuulololol 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been married for 13 years. Every time my husband and I make love. Something strange happens to me! He is a great lover and makes me feel it more than ounce but the problem is. The more I feel it the less energy I have. I wish I could go on and on!!! This is realy weird as soon as he comes, my energy comes right back and I keep on wantting more. I hope there are other ladies out their that have the same thing I do. Please help!!!! This is really not a joke.....

2006-09-01 04:40:47 · 7 answers · asked by hazelshine 4 in Marriage & Divorce

do women like to be sluts and do thay care what other say

2006-09-01 04:40:46 · 5 answers · asked by sadley696969 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

As opposed to brad pitt look-alikes, how many hot girls would actually date a nerdy guy with a lil extra poundage and some excess body hair?

2006-09-01 04:39:50 · 20 answers · asked by twiztedorangetrucker 1 in Singles & Dating

Marriage is not for everyone.

2006-09-01 04:39:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why do I get the feeling boob envy is like penis envy. "Hello? My face is up here." Are bruntettes jealous of blondes also?

2006-09-01 04:38:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends