Marriage is not for everyone.
2006-09-01 04:39:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I agree with u ... Marriage is not for everyone.. but it is the dream of everygirl.. Marriage means responsabilities.. and sometimes when a man doesn't want be married.. maybe doesn't want responsability and if you don't want responsability you are an immature.. I know that it is just a choice how to live own life.. but you have to accept also the critical part.. Sorry..
2006-09-01 04:43:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that means the man is immature at all. (That's just a girl thinking that if the guy won't commit to her, there's gotta be something wrong with him, since she's so perfect, wonderful, etc. So he must just be immature. Which is totally wrong.)
What is immature, however, is when a guy strings a girl along. The guy knows the girl wants more committment, but he doesn't. He likes the sex, though, and hanging out with her, so he acts like MAYBE it'll happen when he knows damn well it won't. There is never a happy ending in this situation, and this is where the immaturity comes in. A real man will tell the girl straight up that he doesn't want a serious relationship, he likes her, and she can take it the way it is or leave it. Even if it might hurt her. That's maturity.
2006-09-01 04:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by M K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Assuming that the woman and the man are both 25+, then the women are starting to think about settling down. They want marriage, a family, the house, and all that goes with it. It's a lot of responsibility and maturity to get there.
They think that men who doesn't want that, must not be ready for it, i.e. immature. If he was a mature, responsible adult, he would be ready to give up the partying, running around, dating multiple women, etc.. He would be willing to take on the responsibility and leave his childhood behind.
If the man isn't willing to even be in a monogamous relationship, with or without marriage, we wonder why. As in "What is with this guy that he needs more than one woman?" Commitment doesn't always mean marriage, but women do want to be the only one in a man's life at a time.
How would you feel if you found out your date already had a boyfriend or two (or three...) You probably wouldn't like it; it would make most people insecure and distrustful.
2006-09-01 04:50:11 · answer #3 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a lady and I don't feel that way and yes marriage isn't for everyone just look at the escalating divorce rate.
I rather be single free and happy instead of being miserable and married having to depend on someone else for my happiness.
At least if you marry make sure you are mature enough to deal with the responsibilities of what a marriage is and not look at it as fun and games because it is one of the most serious commitments next to buying a home.
2006-09-01 04:53:44 · answer #4 · answered by words from the heart 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Marriage isn't for everyone I too believe that as well. But you can still be committed to someone and not be married! I have a friend that is just fine with the way his life is, women come and go, he is very picky so there are not allot of women but he never stays with them for long. I figure it is your life and if you choose to be single then so be it! Just don't lead on anyone in the meantime!
2006-09-01 04:45:10 · answer #5 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that. But one has to ask why you believe marriage isn't for everyone? Girls date and get into serious relationships with men to take it to the next level....we are taught from an early age, that next level is marriage. How can you honestly expect a girl to put in so much time and effort only to find out that marriage was never your intention. Are you still going to have this notion when you are 80 and all alone still "dating"? Just food for thought honey!
2006-09-01 04:43:37 · answer #6 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its necessarily immaturity I think most women want a serious relationship even if its kinda fast they want the guy to themselves incase anything developes and to really get to know them. I don't think there is anything wrong with not wanting marriage as long as it is out there and both parties are aware of the circumstances
2006-09-01 04:44:08 · answer #7 · answered by jenn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not that he's immature, it's more like if the man doesn't want to commit he's not ready for a serious relationship and most people..men included..at some point want their relationships to be serious.
2006-09-01 04:45:06 · answer #8 · answered by ѕомєопєѕ▪ ваву ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sure mariage is not for every one, it is for those who want to commit only. a relationship of everykind requires some type of commitment. if a man tells a woman he loves her and wants to be with her, that means he is committed to her and eventually she would want them to marry. if he doesn't want to commit, then what does he want out of this relationship??? any relationship means commitment, since it is not a one night stand. if he doesn't want commitment then he shouldn't be having a relationship at all
2006-09-01 04:46:30 · answer #9 · answered by messy_missy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOUR RIGHT MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE, BUT FINDING OUT AFTER YOU ARE ALREADY MARRIED IS IMMATURE.
2006-09-01 04:51:41 · answer #10 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋