I've been married for 13 years. Every time my husband and I make love. Something strange happens to me! He is a great lover and makes me feel it more than ounce but the problem is. The more I feel it the less energy I have. I wish I could go on and on!!! This is realy weird as soon as he comes, my energy comes right back and I keep on wantting more. I hope there are other ladies out their that have the same thing I do. Please help!!!! This is really not a joke.....
2006-09-01 04:40:47 · 7 answers · asked by hazelshine 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Listen honey, this is very normal. You are at the age of your stongest sexual drive! There is nothing wrong with you at all. The problem is that the age women peak sexually is different from when men peak sexually. I too am in my sexual peak and my fiance, while he pleases me, does not have the same sex drive as I have right now. So, I have to wait untill he is asleep and then leave our bed and do myself a few more times. It is not difficult and if I don't do this I have difficulty going to sleep as I am just so aroused!! I don't want to explain my "problem" to my fiance as I worry he will think he is not pleasing me enough!! I worry he will wake up and find me gone from our bed and ask me what I am doing or where I was. I don't lie to my fiance nor does he lie to me. So, it is a quandry to say the least.
You are just fine, a normal woman in her most strongest sexual urges. You also are at the hiegth of ability to reach fullfillment with organsims. Never before has it been so easy to reach fullfillment huh? Yep, thought so. You know honey, just enjoy this period as it will all too soon be gone! After this you will begin to slowly lose the urgency, your sex drive will decrease to a level more like your husbands, and you will begin to lose moisture and begin to need extra lubrication. All this will be normal too. Why do you think some younger men so enjoy sex with women of our age? LOL This is why!! There fathers have told them the age around when we women hit our sexual peaks and strongest sex drives. We have a lot of experiance, we hit orgasim easier and moree quickly than ever before and these young men have the stamina of keeping up with us!! My mother knows all about this and has told me of it, I have read this myself in medical journals regarding womens sexualality and different phases of it. My mother married her young lover!! Persoanally I think it a mistake on her part as she is thirty years older than him, but heck they have been married now for ten years, so maybe I was wrong to worry he will leave he for somebody his own age.
So, bottom line is you are totally normal my dear! Enjoy this period as it won't last. How long it does last is as varied as there are women, but the average is about three to five years. I am engaged so I am concerned my fiance won't understand and think he is not pleasing me completely. However, you have been married thirteen years so perhaps you can explain this to your husband. Maybe he will want to play with you more and you two can experiment. Letting him know this is not going to last forever may just motivate him to enjoy this while he can too!!
I wish you much enjoyment with your husband durring this period when we women are most blessed with increased sex drive and ability to reach fullfillment so much easier than ever before! Ejoy it while it lasts!
2006-09-01 09:59:09 · answer #1 · answered by Serenity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not weird, it happens to a lot of us.
Let him do all the work for a while, then switch and you do the work while he is resting.
At any rate, you got a good thing going on and most women would give their eye teeth to have your problem! .....Enjoy!
2006-09-01 05:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by shortfrog 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know what you saying i love the feeling when my hubby orgasms it turns me ON but when he gets off he gets off me which sucks cause then it's over. I think it always feels best just before he gose he gets bigger he gets more into it then IT'S OVER.
2006-09-01 04:45:30 · answer #3 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know that ...been there...never seems to be enough right? I don't think thats wierd, just get as much as you can
2006-09-01 04:44:24 · answer #4 · answered by sasha 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope; once my energy is gone, it's gone. I lose interest pretty quickly.
2006-09-01 05:01:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
call your lover !
2006-09-01 04:49:17 · answer #6 · answered by dying for it 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i recommend a therepist...casue i have NO clue
2006-09-01 04:44:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋