2006-09-01 04:45:48 · 10 answers · asked by shawtyp0000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hummm - Talk to him.
Tell him how u feel. If he ignores your views and wont listen to you and will give no good reason to stay - think about moving on as he would at least listen to u if he valued u.
2006-09-01 04:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by Ade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you love your husband you will go where he has to go for work. (that is if this is the reason you live in this state) I moved around the world with my first husband for over 30 years. I hated it and it was SO difficult with kids, but I did it because it was his job and because I loved him. When you are living in a state that you hate, you have to find something that you love to do to occupy your time. It gets your mind off of where you are living. Do volunteer work somewhere to help others who need your help. Hospital, clinics, nursing homes or human society. This will indeed help you by helping others.
2006-09-01 05:47:48 · answer #2 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you referring to "state" as to your living conditions, or as one of the 50? If it's living conditions, try doing something about it. Redecorate, paint, wall paper, refurnish, clean up, etc. If finances are an issue, get a job, full or part time.
If you need a change to one of the other 49, good luck. The grass only looks greener on the other side.
2006-09-01 04:57:40 · answer #3 · answered by Papa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Post a resume on line and see if you can get a good job in the state in which you want to live. Then present that to him. It will help sweeten the notion of moving for him.
2006-09-01 04:49:41 · answer #4 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it the state you live in geometricly, or the state of your marriage. If you just need a change of scenery, tell him you are moving, and he is welcome to come with you. It worked for me. And if it is your marriage, a bad husband is going to be a bad husband in any state on the map.
2006-09-01 04:52:15 · answer #5 · answered by spidermonkeyfingers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and let him know your feelings. be open and honest with him and see how he feels-he may feel the same. have a good argument as to why you feel yall should move before going into this conversation with him
2006-09-01 04:49:31 · answer #6 · answered by scott's wifey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him be honest research before before and during talk make him feel like he is helping and part of the decision as well
2006-09-01 04:53:24 · answer #7 · answered by fantasia91273 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where do you live now?
Where do you wish to live?
Knowing this might help us help you better.
2006-09-01 04:48:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on vacation somewhere really nice maybe he will want to move there?
2006-09-01 04:56:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIND HIM A NEW JOB IN ANOTHER STATE....................
2006-09-01 04:54:42 · answer #10 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋