i was born and raised in very conservative east-asian conutry. and i have an indian gf who i have been going out for about 4 years.
the problem is that we have totally different concept of sex. to be perfectly honest, she's the fisrt girl i've ever seen in my life who does masturbation in front of bf!!!(mostly after we have sex, which means i never satisfied her -_-) we once did it in public place, and she even gave me a bl*w j*b in a van. (toching each others thingy is like nothing for us...we do it very often) i have never done this kind of stuff with anyone else when i was back in my contry.
i can admit that i'm one horny creature and i'm very much enjoying sex life with her but sometimes i feel really insecure. few seconds ago, (all of sudden) my gf sent me a msg in my language through msn which goes like "big c*ck inside wet p*ssy" actually, that is why i'm writing this.
do u think i have right to be insecure and she's too much or is every girl in open culture like this?
2006-09-01 04:48:59 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont worry, if she is being open like that with you it is because she loves you, and feels safe being so open with you. and dont feel insecure. more then likely you just bring out that side in her, you should take pride in that. and the masterbation issue, its not that you dont satisfy her, becuase if you didnt she wouldnt be with you. maybe the only way she can *** is if she uses her hand. for everyone its different, it not you. ask her if you can help her next time maybe. Good Luck.
2006-09-01 04:52:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are soooooooo over analyzing the situation. Why don't you just relax and enjoy your relationship. I am sure so many guys would love to have a girlfriend with a hearty sexual appetite. You say you enjoy the sex so just keep enjoying it. There is nothing wrong with your relationship. Sex is a beautiful thing and it should be enjoyed. Your girlfriend is not doing anything abnormal. She is a healthy woman just relax, stop worrying about everything and enjoy your time with your girlfriend.
2006-09-01 04:54:44 · answer #2 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the question is are YOU okay with your girlfriend being really horny. If you're cool with it, then let it be. But, if she makes you uncomfortable, taking you outside of you comfort zone, or you feel that she needs to "take it down a notch" just tell her....The thing is though, if she's been like this since you first started dating her, why is it a problem 4 years later?
2006-09-01 04:55:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all girls are like this - but I'll bet there are A LOT of guys that would love to have your problem. I'm not sure if there is a solution here because if you bring it up to her, she may feel bad like maybe you think she is too easy.
Maybe you should look at it as good that she trusts you and feels so close to you that she can be that open and honest with you. She would not make herself so vulnerable to you if she thought you would hurt her.
Good luck
2006-09-01 04:54:10 · answer #4 · answered by island3girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what you are feeling insecure about exactly. If you are turned on by her behaviour,then why not just go with the flow? Enjoy it,it might be nice to let yourself go. Who can you explore sexuality with if not with your partner?
If however you feel genuinely uncomfortable with her behaviour then it probably means you are not very sexually compatible. You could end it, but to be honest, it will probably grind to a halt eventually anyway, since she will become increasingly frustrated by you.
Your call.
2006-09-01 07:36:11 · answer #5 · answered by Chimera's Song 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some girls are some girls arent, some girls are just really horny, there is nothing wrong with that but if you are starting to feel uncomfortable you should talk to her, tell her that you really enjoy what you guys do and that you dont want it to stop, but maybe just slow it down so when you do do it it is more meaningful and you both are wanting it more, the longer you go without sex, the more you want it and the better it is
2006-09-01 04:52:48 · answer #6 · answered by ...here in my garden of magic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most American men would appreciate a woman of the type you describe, although she is a little overboard.
I believe we would call her a nymphomaniac. A woman who would go crazy without sex.
Enjoy it while you can Mr. and don't question your good luck. We have a saying here: There is no sex after marriage. If your contrymen tend to be prudish, no one can help you to change your nature.
2006-09-01 04:54:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Isn't it great that your girl can be as expressive as she is. A lot of girls cant be like that but wish they could. If she is this open and comfortable with you,then you should not be insecure, you should be happy... Can you handle a strong personality like that? A lot of men like that, but some dont.
2006-09-01 04:54:13 · answer #8 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive never heard a guy complain about a woman being to horny. Enjoy it
2006-09-01 04:53:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah
2006-09-01 04:50:09 · answer #10 · answered by Secret Service But I Got My Own SK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋