I'm talking about early in the game...like the first or second date. Do you think that person is sexually uninhibited, nasty, generous, easy, etc.? Be real with me.
Imagine if you took someone out and that person couldn't wait to get into your pants to give you oral but asked nothing of you in return. What's up with that?
2006-09-01 04:20:34 · 28 answers · asked by intentionalmasterpiece 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would bring lots of dimes
2006-09-01 04:22:40 · answer #1 · answered by paki 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Wouldn't it be nice to live in a world without judgment or better yet judgment based on real facts? I think it would be wonderful if women did this but you have to be absolutely clear that you don't do it with everyone (even if you secretly do), that you are doing it because you like him and would like to get to know him but that you are not ready for intercourse any time soon. This makes a guy feel special and gives him some form of sexual gratification in a way that doesn't make you seem easy. He'll be grateful and more receptive to having a relationship with you and it also gives you more time to figure out if he is literally worth a *****. When is the right time to have sex in any relationship? I think we fool ourselves if we think time will make sex any safer or more satisfying, I'm talking about sex not the physical and emotional bonds you make over time for someone you care about making love. Any man interested in giving you pleasure and not just after his own is a keeper. Just make sure he's not trying to get more than you are ready to give, make sure all clothes stay on especially his, you only take off what's necessary, tell him he can only touch, kiss, lick, suck you down there, then sit back, relax and enjoy. If he tries to do anything else without your consent game over period! Zip up and send the boy home.
2006-09-01 10:30:33 · answer #2 · answered by benjamin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's all the fuss about going down "early in the game"? Who's to say what's too early? I've met guys who had to wait for months before they got anywhere with me & then lately I met this one man with whom I hit it off so incredibly & we got physical very early in the relationship. Yes, the person could have issues - or they could just be very uninhibited. I think generous, uninhibited, giving as opposed to nasty, skanky, easy. It should be between the two folks involved. It doesnt' mean that he/she is going to do that with every person they go out with. Besides - it takes two to tango - the recipient is the one letting them go down pretty fast; does that make them easy/nasty/loose? I don't know many men who would say no to oral - no matter what or when - & that's the truth!! lol Just go with the flow - if it feels good, do it!! Life is short so eat dessert first!!!!
2006-09-01 04:36:36 · answer #3 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*eyes wide open* WHERE CAN I FIND THIS CHICK? TELL ME, NOW! WHERE?!?!?!? *S*
Just kidding (ha ha). If this person is into that sort of action THAT EARLY in the "game", then this person either has an oral fixation or has a problem that needs to be addressed. It could be possible that this person has dealt with others that expect oral early, and that thinking has carried over to other people that this person is seeing. Talk to this person & find out what's going on upstairs before you start thinking about "going down".
2006-09-01 04:27:06 · answer #4 · answered by Sagistar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happens all the time. honestly men don't respect women who do that because they feel another man would have just as easy of a time getting head also. For example in a relationship if the man finds out the woman cheated then he already knows the other guy got head.
It's the same if a man ate a woman out on the first date.
2006-09-01 04:24:42 · answer #5 · answered by A man ready to commit. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is unfortunate, but in this day and age everything moves a light speed. This includes relationships, and might account for such high divorce rates. I think that our inhibitions have lowered considerably over the years and if people feel a connection things happen. We as a people want instant gratification now! No waiting is acceptable. It's who we have become. Couples are have physical relationships sooner and it's because of this.
2006-09-01 04:29:29 · answer #6 · answered by rudytute 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is as real as I can be about it. I can't really make a judgment with the little info given about the person. It would really depend on alot of other things about them as to why I thought they were into such a thing so quickly. I could imagine a number of reason as to why a person would do that and I can't really say that they are all necassarily bad, haha.
2006-09-06 18:16:34 · answer #7 · answered by Star_Zero 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be very concerned I mean think about it...if they are quick to do this with you, who else have they done it with? furthermore, you have to think about ST D's. In my opinion that's just NOT COOL. Its all about morality and self respect, you know? Why would you even want to surround yourself with someone who is quick to do something so personal like that? everything happens in time and remember the way you start a relationship is the way it will turn out!
2006-09-01 04:28:13 · answer #8 · answered by Rinah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be really happy. Maybe they really like it. Maybe they think it will make you really like them. Who cares? Lay back and enjoy. Most of the time I get stuck with guys who say they like to do it, do it a few times, and then quit. Take advantage of what you can get...exspecially if they don't want anything in return.
2006-09-01 04:24:26 · answer #9 · answered by goddess17 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Id be a bit skeptical of this person because God knows how many other people have they done it to?I think it would be quite gross that somone would want to make that kind of move in that kind of time.
2006-09-03 09:31:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is there pleasure to do it
so if you don't have a problem with it
don't trip
but you both should get tested together for any STDs
before it could become a problem
if they are willing to do it with you
b sure they did it with the last few people
2006-09-01 04:26:53 · answer #11 · answered by ez-goin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋