Family & Relationships - 24 August 2006

My girlfriend" (against better judgement) - entered a relationship with a married man. Now, he claims that his marriage has been over for the last five years (out of an 18 year marriage). He has a child - doing so late in life. (the child is 3). Which in my oppinion (he will never leave his family- despite how much he claims his mariage is over. I dont see that.)
The girlfriend, finds it easier to date married men - (this I believe is used as a mechanism) because she was in an abusive marriage, and I believe it's her way of never getting close to a man that could hurt her again. But....what happens she, ends up with more confusions about "relatoninship issues" because this last man she feel in love with and now is dealing with.....the fact, he may not decided to leave his long lasted marriage I think this guy could do further damage;
Here is my question: How do I, as a friend, convince her to move on because, I see this could cause more damage to her already delusional idea of love

2006-08-24 10:38:53 · 37 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

If your not going to try to answer someone seriously then why even respond?

2006-08-24 10:38:44 · 31 answers · asked by Sasha 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-24 10:38:43 · 10 answers · asked by lady_thug1132 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

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2006-08-24 10:37:59 · 10 answers · asked by allie m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

there is this kid in m class an he likes me but ihate him i dont lik him in any way please help me
and my best friend told me he likes me and im not sopose 2 kno

2006-08-24 10:37:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to get married in oct. of this year and i need to know where to get the marriage licence. please help.

2006-08-24 10:37:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Some men don't ejaculate during intercourse or any kind of sexual activity, except maybe for procreation purpose. This is either because of some physical problems (like painful ejaculatory spasms) or he is practicing Tantric sex. I know most men are against this practice, and I would like to know women's point of view. Thanks.

2006-08-24 10:36:41 · 25 answers · asked by xenos mc 2 in Marriage & Divorce

should i go out with a 17 year old? when im only 15?

2006-08-24 10:36:34 · 11 answers · asked by koko_williams_16 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-24 10:36:28 · 15 answers · asked by michael n 1 in Friends

to find a decent gal online ? i've been threw several dating sites & most of them suck !!! i'm not a perv... i'm 47 and never married, 1 time almost several yrs. ago i'm seeking companionship, conversation, & more stupid answers don't bother me...... so if your in North Carolina or not,, please reply because being single is old !! leave email addy thanks Ben

2006-08-24 10:36:26 · 6 answers · asked by BIG BEN 5 in Singles & Dating

I met this girl at camp. She's really cute and we hit it off pretty well. We hung out together a lot and got to know each other pretty well, but before I could tell her how much I like her, camp was over. Now, I miss her a lot. She lives in NY and I'm in MI, so I probably won't see her anytime soon. Still, I cant get over her. I have her e-mail, IM and address. What should I do, and if it comes to it, how do I get over her?

2006-08-24 10:35:44 · 29 answers · asked by One_Man_Show 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-24 10:35:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I need a slap, I'm getting in a hysterical state!

2006-08-24 10:34:55 · 1 answers · asked by CC...x 5 in Friends

I have been talking to this married woman and is friendly. I also know the husband very well.?
I have been talking to this married woman and is friendly. I also know the husband very well. I stayed in their house for a few days. I was talking to her while husband was at work, and I touched her and kissed her from behind which she did not resist. I asked for a hug which she said its for her husband only. Then I took shower and I came out with my underwear and she was glancing at my private part. Then next day she told me not to touch as I was complaining that she has body fat and she should loose weight. Then I left from their place and came back after a week and she gave me the biggest smile and I told her that I missed her and told her to call me. She also did loose a few pounds. She said she would call me and was very very happy as soon as I told her to call me. She still haven't called me and I was wondering if she likes me or not? Or is she just flirting with me.

2006-08-24 10:34:03 · 33 answers · asked by Shah_Ru 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My Older Sister (19) and I (15) are always arguing like crazy and me being the younger brother am at a disadvantage i really don't know what to do. Me and my little cousin always get into little arguements but they aren't really serious and we're just playing and she just butts in and she acts like my mom and trying to assort her authority. It basically drives me insane. And we just get into stupid verbal fights all the time. I really want to get along with her and when things start to get better they just fall apart. I mean in order to help bring us together even more i declined my friends birthday invitation just to go with the rest of my family tommorrow to help her set stuff up at her house before college starts for her. I really am in a rut right now, i just need answers and fast.

2006-08-24 10:33:34 · 33 answers · asked by itsaherb 2 in Family

2006-08-24 10:33:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This guy really likes me, and he is like my best friend. I like him too though and he doesnt know it. The catch is, our families are SUPER close. Also my mom doesnt approve of me dating him beacuse she thinks it would mess up her and his moms friendship. Idk what to do! I think i will talk to him about this but then he will know i like him, and i dont want it to be awkward between us... I need some advice! please and thank you!

2006-08-24 10:33:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She started seeing an ex-BF, didn't lie about it, told me about it. I decided if she needed that it was cool. Now she wants a temporary separation. She says she loves me and she wants to be with me, that she just needs this time to step out and have some fun before she gets old. We've been together a long time. She wants me to do it to, I don't want to. Do you think she's just tired of me and trying to find a way to end it?

2006-08-24 10:33:25 · 33 answers · asked by A B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i say thank you for everything i say sorry if someone does somehting that might be like uncofortable or out of their way and i try to be fair about everything
Also lots of people said im very nice and have complemented me about me being nice but im wondering where to draw the line
if its someones job to help youand they do it over and over again like withing 5 mins of every time do you say thank you over and over and if not WHEN do you say thank you??
its kinda my nature to be REALLY nice but i dont want to go overboard!!
thanks!!!!!!

2006-08-24 10:33:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

There are 2 common complaints by women when it comes to toilets and men. First i will explain these complaints, then dissect the problems, and finally, offer up a solution. Let me know what you think.

EXPLAINATION
1. Women complain about guys peeing on the toilet seat. They claim it is the GUYS fault and that he needs to lift the seat before peeing.

2. Women complain that guys don't put the seat down after peeing and they accidently sit in the open bowl. They, once again, claim that it is the GUYS fault and that he needs to remember to put the seat down after peeing.

DISSECTION
1. Guys enter the bathroom, glance down and see an open hole, and pee. They don't look to see if a seat is present.

2. Women enter the bathroom, glance down and see an open hole, and sit. They don't look to see if a seat is present.

Notice how women fail to take responisbilty for their dilemma in the second scenario? How many times do you think guys have accidentaly sat IN the bowl. Not very many on MY end, actually, I can't remember it happening to me EVER. I look before I leap.

SOLUTION
We should all take a vow to, when we are finished, close the LID of the toilet, not just the seat. It would elliminate both problems and it also looks nicer for the seat to be closed in the first place.

What do you guys think? Anyone else have a progressive solution?

2006-08-24 10:32:50 · 8 answers · asked by vanman8u 5 in Singles & Dating

I have friends, not alot, but enough for me to keep up with, but I have met people and guys that have like 30 friends that they don't see all at once or everyday, but periodically they do...... Is this normal, and I should have as many, or does it not really matter? What is the bennifit of having sooooooooo many freinds?

2006-08-24 10:32:12 · 15 answers · asked by shy&gental 4 in Friends

I like this boy at my new school and he is the same age as me and i realy like him.How do I get him to notice me?Like what things should I spend extra time on?

2006-08-24 10:31:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Cause I do whenever I see a girl and they don't even have to be hot.

2006-08-24 10:31:26 · 12 answers · asked by Kalidas 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok I know it's vulger but it's been buggin me for the last 2 days. My bro was showing me and his friend this image distortion he had made on his flash animation program of Daniel Radcliffe and I told my bro that I didn't like it because I absolutely adore Daniel and I made that quite clear to them and his friend said "You'd bone him in a second wouldn't u?!". Is that something a girl would be able to say without people thinking that she had a "thing"? Because otherwise I'm taking that as offensive.

2006-08-24 10:31:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am a concerned parent and I believe that my child has been communicating with some strange people on the internet. The only way I can stop anything from happening is reading thier email, but I cannot risk them knowing that I have changed their password or else their trust in us as parents will be lost. I want to him my child as I know they might be in danger- help pls!

2006-08-24 10:30:23 · 9 answers · asked by wnika 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been having some problems,but now we are living together with our children and want to put the past behind us.

2006-08-24 10:29:34 · 6 answers · asked by almenjoy1977 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ive known this dude ever since seventh grade..
he did find out i used to like him then
he moved to newyork. i live in california...
now i just see him as a friend..
he calls me frequently and says he wants to see me
he wants to meet up and take me somewhere.... i dont know how to tell him that were just friends...

2006-08-24 10:29:17 · 8 answers · asked by Melody. 3 in Singles & Dating

i really whant people who knows this question

2006-08-24 10:29:10 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-08-24 10:28:59 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-24 10:28:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating