Family & Relationships - 24 August 2006

The cracks have started to appear in me and my boyfriend's relationship for a while now, but i've wanted to save it. Last week when i asked him why he wasn't talkative he said 'there's nothing to talk about'. But he's always saying how much he loves me and stuff, and sometimes i feel smothered by him. I still want my independence. So today, he walked into school and sat beside me but completely ignored me throughout. He didn't even attempt to say sorry for ignoring me or asking me if i was ok. So we didn't talk all day and i was pretty upset. Eventually, my friend made him come over and talk to me, and all he said was sorry, he did it because he was 'really tired!' ? I was still too angry to talk to him again normally. Later onehe phones me because my friend tells him to, and he just says sorry, followedby 'i dont know what to say'. I feel angry and humiliated. Now i think i'll give him one more chance, but i can't forgive him straight away. Do you think i'm being unreasonable? :(

2006-08-24 10:52:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-24 10:51:52 · 9 answers · asked by Rosa 1 in Family

and whats a good comback when people say you are so weird?

2006-08-24 10:51:26 · 11 answers · asked by xoxo 3 in Friends

What do I do. NOthing is the same. He liked me many times before. We even went out, but now we r just friends. But now he wont even talk to me after he told me he loved me last night. I told him how I felt and I was nice about it. He threw it all back in my face. HELP ME I DONT WANT TO LOOSE MY FRIEND!!!

2006-08-24 10:50:44 · 12 answers · asked by emilystar25 2 in Friends

I mean relationship after relationship they either lie or cheat, sometimes both. They say they want someone who knows what she wants but when we tell them they lie and say thats what they are looking for or run in the other direction because they assume its with them.

2006-08-24 10:50:38 · 36 answers · asked by cunfused 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy and he knows because this other guy that likes me told him. I don't know if he believed him or not. I really do like him and I want to ask him out, but I am not sure how to approach him. Also he went out with this girl once and they went out for two months and did nothing. His best friend also knows that I like him and said that he went out with this girl in third or fourth grade. Now he is in 8th grade. His best friend said that back then he had no commetmeant and he wasn't sure if he had any now. One of my best friends said that it was obvious that he likes me, but I am not sure. Also the only thing right now that he is commetted to is football and basketball. So should I ask him to the next social? ( thats like a informal school dance.)

2006-08-24 10:49:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-24 10:49:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i happen 2 know that alot of other girls like him and i dont want 2 spill my secret but i still want 2 get 2 know him better what should i do ?

2006-08-24 10:49:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you guys believe in platonic relationship between two single people who see each other everyday... who have developed a strong deep relationship as friends. what are the chances of attraction, intimacy and falling in love?

2006-08-24 10:48:52 · 16 answers · asked by deeper28 1 in Singles & Dating

I had a relationship with a married security guard which lasted for 8 months altogether. He dumped me about 3 months ago saying that he couldn't trust me as his wife had found some tex messages left by me when his phone went missing inside the house and also he got sacked from his job because of me when I turned up at the building site where he works with my 5 year old daughter after he had threatened to come round my house and "give me a good seeing to". I went to the site and demanded an apology from him as he had frightened and upset me and as a consequence he was suspended from his job then subsequently got the sack. After this episode, we did get back together briefly at the beginning of May this year. He took me and my daughter out for a drink, we went to bed together again and he took me out for a meal. I thought things were okay between us again and we were going to be good friends and lovers, then a week later he decided he didn't want to see me again. I still love him.

2006-08-24 10:48:50 · 27 answers · asked by SAZ1 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We are trying to learn about international adoptions, particularly from the Pacific islands and would like to be involved with the group of people that have either already done it or are planning to.

2006-08-24 10:48:30 · 1 answers · asked by Bill F 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what I mean is : is there one person out there only meant for you or could there be many other potential "soulmates." whats your opinion?

2006-08-24 10:48:28 · 8 answers · asked by hearts_bleed_dark 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-24 10:46:43 · 25 answers · asked by sosickofred 3 in Singles & Dating

you'll be leaving for good but before u leave u hav this urge to tell someone of how u felt for him. u know that eventhough u tell him everything, nothing will change. he is very commited and u already know that long ago when u r feeling started to grom for him. yet u still had that feeling and by talking to him and telling it to him, u think the feeling would be easier to forgot. and besides that is the very reason why u wanted to go, to totally erase him from your system. should u do it? do u think that by talking to him would help to easily forget him forever?

2006-08-24 10:46:19 · 13 answers · asked by pink2litle 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-24 10:46:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

we've done top, but sometimes he wants to be on top, (which is fine with me!) i just want to know what i can do on the bottom to make it more enjoyable for him since hes making it *SOO VERY* enjoyable for me lol, besides being relaxed, like what things can i do with my hands and etc. to make him love it even more than i do!

2006-08-24 10:45:49 · 11 answers · asked by Alisha 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-24 10:45:40 · 10 answers · asked by Ivar 4 in Singles & Dating

like if you like a guy and you dont know if they like you in that way or not. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!

2006-08-24 10:45:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i have a crush but my friends is his older brother!!! and my sis is his close friend!!!! but he is like two years older that me i am only 11 turning 12 in nov

2006-08-24 10:45:14 · 11 answers · asked by allison l 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

WHat if you dated a girl that was 17 and your were 21. Her parents didnt care and were ok with it. IThe relastionship was none sexually.Is that wrong?

2006-08-24 10:44:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am just teaching at this school as a favor for a friend. He knows that I am not very experienced but He was desperate. I said yes of course but it is horrible. The students and the staff do nothing but disrespect me and harass me everday. I am just so tired and drained emotionally, physically, and spiritually. I dont know what to do.

2006-08-24 10:43:43 · 14 answers · asked by amor2285 1 in Friends

Lets say you love someone so much and have been together quite awhile you are both the same sex, at the beginning of the relationship she admitted to dating you and how much she loved u. Then now she's sayin that you were never really dating you were just two friends who screwed around. How is a person supposed to deal with the fact that you still love this person but you know they were playin you it seemed, but you don't want to believe that. Damn love hurts especially when it's the same gender and it's frowned upon. How come you were once apparently dating, and couldn't stand to be without eachother, and now it's like you argue all the time, and it seems like there is all this anger. Yet in my heart I still love her, and prob always will, I know I need to move on but it's so hard especially seeing as we live together. Someone pls help me.

2006-08-24 10:42:47 · 16 answers · asked by sweetblue_cherry 1 in Friends

can someone help me? im in love with someone but we cant be together due to both of our stupidity. we are trying to be friends now is this unwise? possible? and how do i stop loving him?

2006-08-24 10:41:25 · 15 answers · asked by tinkerbell 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Around 30 years Christian Romantic Honest Handsome Guy . Who seeks sharing a happy life???I m Egyptian 27 years

2006-08-24 10:41:08 · 12 answers · asked by pineapple 1 in Singles & Dating

I think they are the most amazing creatures in the history of the universe because they are wonderful, feminine, loving, caring, interesting, cute, sweet, dreamy, intelligent, graceful, brave and witty!

I LOVE 'EM!!

PS I'll see the girl I like tonight!! =)

2006-08-24 10:40:59 · 31 answers · asked by alvarito8 2 in Singles & Dating

this boy in my uni told me he liked after 2 years of being good mates with each other, i said well see how it goes but said i didnt know if it was worth destroying our friendship, but i said well see how it goes, he said he really like me and if we didnt try it we would regret it, he left roses on my car, then about 1 month ofter he sat me down and said we should just be mates he said if he liked me 99% in that way before he likes me 1% in that way now, i was shocked how do you get over someone that quick after 2 yrs of liking them??? i know he has not found someone else, he does not go 5 days without texting me help!!?? i dont know what to believe because he said he dont like me in that way anymore but im soooo confused, i dont know how i see him, the saying is true when you can have it you dont want it and when you cant have it you want it

2006-08-24 10:40:15 · 10 answers · asked by barnetgreek 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a bf outside of school and i dont wether or not to tell my mom. he really sweet and we have of the same interests. im just afraid tha my mom would make fun of me! please help me! please dont even bother telling me that im too young. im 13.

2006-08-24 10:40:09 · 13 answers · asked by soccerqt61093 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl at my school she is so hot what do i do if i talk to her i may make a fool out of myself help me please :)

2006-08-24 10:40:08 · 11 answers · asked by acdcfan_28 2 in Singles & Dating

ok this is a weird question but hey you get two points and maybe 10 if you lucky so please answer!!!!

2006-08-24 10:40:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

many people will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart, to handle yourself, use your head; to handle others, use your heart, anger is only one letter short of danger. if someone betrays you once, it is his fault; if he betrays you twice, it is your fault. great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people. he who loses money, loses much; he who loses a friend, loses much more; he who loses a faith, loses all. but beautiful old people are works of art. learn from the mistakes of others. you can't live long enough to make them all yourself. friends, you and me... you brought another friend...and then there were three...we started our group...our circle of friends... and like that circle...there is no beginning or end...yesterday is history. tomorrow is a mystery, today is a gift, that's why they call it the present. (unknown)

after reading this myself it actually has some meaning to mean to a point, maybe you'll find some meaning in this as i have...

2006-08-24 10:39:51 · 3 answers · asked by aznflippgurl 5 in Friends