What do I do. NOthing is the same. He liked me many times before. We even went out, but now we r just friends. But now he wont even talk to me after he told me he loved me last night. I told him how I felt and I was nice about it. He threw it all back in my face. HELP ME I DONT WANT TO LOOSE MY FRIEND!!!
2006-08-24 10:50:44 · 12 answers · asked by emilystar25 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
In this case, you will have to be the "suck up" person, meaning, you will have to rebuild your friendship with him. He was brave enough to tell you how he felt now he shame to face you and he is hurt because he built up all that courage to be turned down. Don't feel bad or whatever because your heart is just not with him like that. Just call him and try to talk to him and if he doesn't answer, then go over to his house and talk to him or write him a letter and get everything off of your chest and everything should be alright.
2006-08-24 11:09:42 · answer #1 · answered by sr04model 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's "lose" not "loose" (that's something that needs tightening).
Give him some time...rejection isn't fun and he needs to get over it and be able to face you again...he may find that his feelings for you don't allow him to be only a friend, and thus may not be comfortable just hanging out and being casual...
Let him work through it...he's stinging a bit...
2006-08-24 10:55:32 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell him straight up that you don't like him like that. Then maybe go out with another guy so he gets the picture. I don't know if you'll be able to salvage the relationship, though. At least not until he gets it into his head that you're not interested in that way.
2006-08-24 10:54:37 · answer #3 · answered by nfaustman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did nothing wrong, friends are supposed to be truthful like that. he should respect you as a friend to abide by your wishes. if you just want to be friends, he should be happy about that and not be mad because you dont love him in a way that is more than friends. if you were good enough of a friend to be that truthful then he is lucky to have a friend like you and if he stops being your friend just because of your feelings, then it is his loss.
2006-08-24 10:55:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just angry and hurt right now so let him cool down. If he's a true friend he'll understand, if not than move on... you don't need a friend like that.
2006-08-24 10:57:13 · answer #5 · answered by CLM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he never really wanted to be your friend- sounds like he just wants to get in your pants. sorry, but from what you've said, that appears to be the truth.
if he was a good guy, he would respect your decision.
2006-08-24 10:58:07 · answer #6 · answered by miss advice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him he's a great friend and you don't want anything to change that.
2006-08-24 10:53:19 · answer #7 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can still love as friend but nothing more you just have to drow the line with him
2006-08-24 10:57:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say sorry but i don't feel anything special between us and that you think their are many more people for him
2006-08-24 10:54:59 · answer #9 · answered by jallane24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too late.
2006-08-24 10:56:07 · answer #10 · answered by lucyanddesi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋