I mean relationship after relationship they either lie or cheat, sometimes both. They say they want someone who knows what she wants but when we tell them they lie and say thats what they are looking for or run in the other direction because they assume its with them.
2006-08-24 10:50:38 · 36 answers · asked by cunfused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, there are great guys out there ... I am married to one of them ... however, it took three tries to find him ...
2006-08-24 10:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Don't beat around the bush with guys? The more complex you make things the more and likely they are to lie, cheat, or run for the hills. What I am saying is don't try to dissect every thing a guy tells you. For example, if you ask a guy what he thinks about an outfit you are going to were, in most cases he's being as truthful as he can be without hurting your feelings. Because, most guys do not want to hurt a woman's feelings.
2006-08-24 10:59:38 · answer #2 · answered by Mad Max 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl, I know exactly what you are going through. I can tell you that it has been extremely hard for me to find a decent guy since my divorce. I seem to keep finding ones just like my ex. I know that there are decent guys out there. I was told not long ago that once you stiop looking for love or the decent so called perfect man then that is when you will find him. I am still waiting on that theory to work out for me. Sometimes its a little easier said than done. The relationship world is alot like playing cards its a game of chance.
2006-08-24 11:00:31 · answer #3 · answered by teaser24162003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. . there are decent guys and I am living proof. I am with the love of my life and would never cheat on her. I am 35 years old and can honestly tell you I HAVE NEVER CHEATED on a woman! NOT ONCE! More importantly. . I have never cheated on myself. Anybody can cheat and get away with it. However. . if you are true to yourself and have self respect and pride. . you can never look yourself in the mirror and be happy with yourself if you cheated. I am a very good looking guy. . . good job. . great personality, good body, and very large wang. I could have cheated a million times in my life but didn't. I figured why let some hoochie mamma whore get off on my skills whe she'd just bang anybody. I am AWESOME IN THE SACK and any woman who has experienced me knows it and has had to earn that privilege. I also have no kids out of wedlock and have never had a disease. You see all these ghetto black men proclaiming proudly to be players. . . WHATEVER! Players bang nothing but hoochie mamma whores. They NEVER get anyone with class or dignity. Quality not quantity you scumbucket 50 cent listening drug dealing losers! This charlie likes only tuna with good taste and tuna that tastes good! So yes. . there are a few good men out there. . . however. . . we never settle and wait for a deserving woman to come along! It took a long time for me to find one but I did. . . sure I did my share of banging earlier but I never cheated. . . was very careful. . . . and only banged classy ladies. . . .. . nice guys don't like skank!
2006-08-24 10:59:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First guys who don't b.s. a little are not interesting (just kidding) Where are you looking? At bars? Try finding one at church or something, or maybe doing some volunteer work, you'll find someone worthwile there, however, if you are over 26 good luck, most of the good men are married by 25...
PJ age 23...Married
2006-08-24 10:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, there are decent guys, but the question is, those decent guy is not the type you are interested in.
example
A-guy 5'10, handsome and a player
B-guy 5'6, less handsome but still good looking not a player
c-girl-5'5 cute
C always pick A and not B. not answer to why, it is how things are. If you are like that too, then decent guys are out there, you just don't pick them
2006-08-24 10:53:27 · answer #6 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer - The majority of guys are ridicously insecure.
The majority of girls are a bit crazy. Can't we all just get along? And yes there are some decent guys out there.
2006-08-24 10:55:56 · answer #7 · answered by Jules 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a few of us good men out here. It goes both ways tho. You take care of him then he will take care of you. Keep him guessing, because when most guys get bored they tend to look somewhere or at someone else ya dig?
2006-08-24 10:56:14 · answer #8 · answered by Solja Boi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decent guys are few and far between and they exist in that you have to demand respect and good treatment from them. If you don't they will walk over you, because men are primitive in nature.
2006-08-24 10:53:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why.............do you always find yourself in those situations? You are attracting a certain type of man, sounds like an intimacy problem.
What was your relationship with your dad like? Did he cheat on your mother? Were there trust problems in your house growing up?
2006-08-24 10:54:42 · answer #10 · answered by brian k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes, they do exist. I found one by accident. It surprised me how quickly it happened and how wonderful he really is. Maybe you are trying too hard and come across as desperate. I don't know. I do know that they are out there and are looking for a good woman.
2006-08-24 10:54:09 · answer #11 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋