2006-08-24 10:49:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want to dress better, dress better for yourself. If you feel more confident in your appearance, you will be more attractive.
If you are considering some sort of cosmetic surgery, forget it. It isn't worth having anyone cut on you, just to attract some men who are only interested in how you look.
2006-08-24 10:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You should change the way you look for you and only you. If a guy only likes you for the way you look then thats the kinda of guy you DON'T want around. Guys can be very shallow especially at a young age. Be comfortable with yourself on how you are inside and out. The right guy will come along sooner or later.
2006-08-24 10:58:11 · answer #2 · answered by Noah's Mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if you're thinking of changing yourself for others that's not right. You have to change for yourself. I'm not noticed that much but guys like me. I don't look like a slut I dress the way I'm comfortable jeans and a t-shirt. I've had boyfriends too who've loved me for the way I am not the way I dress. If it's for only you to make a positive change then changing yourself would be right.
2006-08-24 10:57:17 · answer #3 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change the way you look but for your self so you feel more attractive to your self. He may not always be around so when he leaves you will be stuck with that look. Its like moving to another state with a guy when its over your left with the distress and pain. Do it for you then if its over after a while you can live with the change
I feel the same way I am fat and out of shape and I am trying to lose weight and in doing this guys may or may not like but I will feel more confident and happy with my looks and I will feel so much beeter in clothes and look better
It depends on what you want to change email me if you want to talk about it
2006-08-24 11:01:11 · answer #4 · answered by LaToya J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change the way you look for you .. not for a guy or anyone else. It will not work out because in the end .. they need to like you for who you are and not make believe.
Hugs Mel
2006-08-24 10:51:34 · answer #5 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with working with what you got, but don't have any surgery. A change in make up or clothing and hair cut is a good idea for anyone. But, I would suggest....don't compermise who you are or what your style is.
And if a guy likes you just because of your outsides, they need to be liking your insides too; your heart, soul & spirit
2006-08-24 10:57:44 · answer #6 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they don't like you for who you are now, why should you care? Changing the way you look is only a quick fix and it usually attracts what you're not looking for. Maybe you need to start fishing in different waters.
2006-08-24 10:54:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age, I don't blame you for thinking that way, as all of us are insecure about our looks. Did you come from an abusive home where your family members and school peers have told you you're ugly?
Have you ever read "The Ugly Duckling"? If you haven't, you should. Because it is about YOU.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Ugly_Duckling
The point is, you are beautiful. You have to tell yourself that every day, and you have to mean that every day. Any guy that doesn't see your beauty, inside and out, isn't worthy of you. Nobody is worthy of you if they don't see your beauty.
2006-08-24 10:56:10 · answer #8 · answered by enlightenedwell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a guy doesn't like the way you look and wants you to change you then they are not worth it!
Stay who you are and if you are happy with who you are and how you look -- it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks or says.
2006-08-24 10:56:49 · answer #9 · answered by Farmgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not right about changing your looks for a guy.
2006-08-24 11:14:06 · answer #10 · answered by Jessicer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋