The cracks have started to appear in me and my boyfriend's relationship for a while now, but i've wanted to save it. Last week when i asked him why he wasn't talkative he said 'there's nothing to talk about'. But he's always saying how much he loves me and stuff, and sometimes i feel smothered by him. I still want my independence. So today, he walked into school and sat beside me but completely ignored me throughout. He didn't even attempt to say sorry for ignoring me or asking me if i was ok. So we didn't talk all day and i was pretty upset. Eventually, my friend made him come over and talk to me, and all he said was sorry, he did it because he was 'really tired!' ? I was still too angry to talk to him again normally. Later onehe phones me because my friend tells him to, and he just says sorry, followedby 'i dont know what to say'. I feel angry and humiliated. Now i think i'll give him one more chance, but i can't forgive him straight away. Do you think i'm being unreasonable? :(
2006-08-24 10:52:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he has something else going on. There is a reason he has been quiet. I think it's time for the two of you to move on.
2006-08-24 10:55:35 · answer #1 · answered by cocoanutt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually I think you are the one being childish. Are you really sure, you know what you want? You say that he sometimes smother you and your want your Independence, but at the same time, you get upset because he don't speak to you. Maybe he was tired and didn't feel like talking. he is entitled to feel that way. There are a lot of days when I don't feel liked being bothered or talking to anyone.(my husband included). But he respects that because he knows that it doesn't change the way I feel about him. If you really want this relationship, I think you need to start respecting his feelings. But If you really want Independence, Keep doing what you're doing, and you're definitely get it.
2006-08-24 18:08:54 · answer #2 · answered by Itsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way he acts sounds like he is tired all right. I think he is tired of the relationship. You sound like you are ready for a deep relationship than he is. He sounds a little childish. You may want to move on to someone who is a little more mature.
2006-08-24 17:57:59 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like your boyfriend is not sure if he wants to be with you or not. You don't deserve to be treated like this and are better than his immature behavior. I would suggest not giving him one more chance and giving him, and yourself space apart to help you figure out if you really want to be with someone who angers and humiliates you.
2006-08-24 17:58:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it just that you got mature and he did not, so you have neither slap him in the face or leave him. that is reality.
2006-08-24 17:55:24 · answer #5 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another one
2006-08-24 17:57:49 · answer #6 · answered by Veronica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋