you'll be leaving for good but before u leave u hav this urge to tell someone of how u felt for him. u know that eventhough u tell him everything, nothing will change. he is very commited and u already know that long ago when u r feeling started to grom for him. yet u still had that feeling and by talking to him and telling it to him, u think the feeling would be easier to forgot. and besides that is the very reason why u wanted to go, to totally erase him from your system. should u do it? do u think that by talking to him would help to easily forget him forever?
2006-08-24 10:46:19 · 13 answers · asked by pink2litle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whats the point of telling him everything if nothing will change that.why start the hurting process all over again.just say, goodbye,and thanks for sharing a part of my life with me.
2006-08-24 10:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
about 4 years ago I told this guy that I loved him and had been so for about 10 years. He was with his girl of five years, but still I couldn't hold it in anymore. After I told him I felt so much better, sad becuase he didn't leave his girl, but still glad I got it off my chest. Eventually they broke up and him and I got together and realized that we really are better as friends. So just tell this person how you feel, can't hurt. Your leaving anyways..
2006-08-24 18:07:30 · answer #2 · answered by chloe t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not clear about the other person's situation, but the last thing you want to do is to tell that person something that will create problems in the future. You might want to feel better yourself, but that is no excuse for screwing with someone else's brain.
2006-08-24 17:49:41 · answer #3 · answered by united9198 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your feelings are real. You wont and you cant forget him. Leaving because you cant have him is not smart either. Remember out of sight out of mind. If you need and truly need to tell him your feelings, then do so but do it with out making the talk to heavy
2006-08-24 17:55:54 · answer #4 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
agree with Eternal Love...theres just too many ways to stay in contact that the next time you talk to the person,it'll all be strained coz of the stuff you told the person before he left...of course thats if you DO tell the person...i'd say dont tell the person...it really doesnt help much...at least,it didnt help me.ciao
2006-08-24 17:57:23 · answer #5 · answered by hsinava 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he's already in a relationship and happy, why would you want to cause trouble by making a fool of yourself over a guy you'll probably never see again.
Keep your mouth shut, pack your stuff.
2006-08-24 17:48:38 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will probably hear something more that you don't want to hear if you do that. Avoid the additional feeling of rejection and try writing a letter/email but dont' send it.
2006-08-24 17:52:02 · answer #7 · answered by cocoanutt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it have to be good bye .. there are so many ways to stay in contact. Hugs Mel
2006-08-24 17:48:03 · answer #8 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you must do it. If not, you will always regret having said nothing.
Since you are leaving anyway, there really is no risk to your ego.
Best wishes...
2006-08-24 17:51:06 · answer #9 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've simply got to do it. The truth will set you free!!!
2006-08-24 17:47:45 · answer #10 · answered by Rob N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋