I met this girl at camp. She's really cute and we hit it off pretty well. We hung out together a lot and got to know each other pretty well, but before I could tell her how much I like her, camp was over. Now, I miss her a lot. She lives in NY and I'm in MI, so I probably won't see her anytime soon. Still, I cant get over her. I have her e-mail, IM and address. What should I do, and if it comes to it, how do I get over her?
2006-08-24 10:35:44 · 29 answers · asked by One_Man_Show 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I went through something similar who i met somewhere, but we I live in PA and she lives Texas. You have a chance at being great friends, and probably even more, but for right now just try to start with something, and getting over her will break your heart for a while, but youll move on.
2006-08-24 11:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by See ya later aligator 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First things first, let her know how you feel and ask if she feels the same way. If she does then try to come up with some type of arrangement so the two of you can start a real relationship. One of you will have to relocate if it gets that serious. If she doesn't feel the same way or neither one of you are willing to relocate then date as many beautiful women as you can and you will eventually strike gold again. Always keep in touch with her because you never know what the future holds and you might get another chance to make it happen.
2006-08-24 17:49:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take one step at a time! For now, email and Im your new friend. Get to know her even better. Even though long distant relationships are hard, being able to communicate with someone in a special way, can be a life savior on so many levels. Just enjoy the company of your new friend for now, and don't think about it coming to a end. Save that, for "if" it should ever happen!
2006-08-24 17:42:24 · answer #3 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time. Your young and that is something your going to have to learn about. There is no quick fix for someone with a broken or longing heart. She lives in an enitrely different state than you. So treasure the summer romance that you've had, but don't delay the rest of you life over it. Make sense? Or did I not get my point entirely through?
2006-08-24 17:38:43 · answer #4 · answered by Emporer_Smiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its easier said then done .. but most camp romance don't work
its what it says .. a camp romance ...fun while it lasted ..
you can hope you see her next summer and it will be great if you do..
but for now you need to keep busy with friends .. chores, work ,school,
if every summer you see her at camp and its good every summer , then you know when the two of you are old enough to drive and can make you own decisions,,spend time together ,, then it will work out in a few years and you will know she is the one .. but for now .. live a little explore and have fun..
2006-08-24 17:45:46 · answer #5 · answered by special angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she freely gave you her E mail and address, it appears that she wanted to hear from you! Why arent you writing to her, Just say high a few times first and see where it goes, and then if things look good, tell her that you like her and want to see her again.
2006-08-24 17:40:04 · answer #6 · answered by Big hands Big feet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to pursue the girl, then just maintain ur contact with her by email, and im. Who knows, maybe someday you might get a chance to visit her too.
But if you just don't want to get into her, then i suggest doing hobbies or being with friends so that you will be too busy to think of her and might eventually forget her if you want to.
2006-08-24 17:39:47 · answer #7 · answered by Lunais 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there really is no future in it, stop e-mailing her so much. Because you keep thinking of her, you'll never get over it. You need to distract yourself in some way.
Put it down to experience.
2006-08-24 17:39:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your young time will take care of getting over her, but keep in contact with her, write to her and remain friends. I found that it can be very helpful in relationships if you have some one from the opposite sex to talk to about issues you are having with them :-}.
2006-08-24 17:39:49 · answer #9 · answered by tarows_sorrow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in touch.
Camp? You are young and having years of emotional growth ahead.
Keep her as a pen pal.
Who knows, maybe you will come back together eventually?
2006-08-24 17:38:39 · answer #10 · answered by wildflower 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋