Family & Relationships - 23 August 2006

There is a girl I know who is only a casual "friend"??
She never comes over or wants to go hang out with me.
But she will call every few days, about 11:30 pm just to
brag about where she's been, who she's dating, etc.
Or, she IM's me very late ( bored? ) just to say she is
putting her kid to bed and she's tired, and say's goodnight.
What should I do, this is getting pretty old by now.....
PS. She never invites me to go out with just me & her,
she knows I don't like her weirdo friends....But yet,
she keeps this communication.......????

2006-08-23 18:47:49 · 11 answers · asked by CraZyCaT 5 in Friends

This is for a traditional church wedding.

2006-08-23 18:47:29 · 2 answers · asked by cmd1031 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he erased the history for the monday and tuesday day where it looks like no one has even been online those days. He logged in under my sons name while i was at work because mine has a password. I asked him thursday night "hey babe did you erase the mon. and tues. history, there was a page i forgot to save on my favorites?"he says"History?, No why would I do that ?" I said"oh, ok no big deal, i must have on accident." nothing else was said about it. I'm pretty sure he had to have erased it because it shows today(thurs), wed. ,and then last week, no mon. or tues. I know for sure i was on the computer those days my son too? what can i do to tell? I know a little about computers but not enough to go digging. Anyone have any suggestions? This may sound crazy to some but i'm just wondering why he would lie about something like this? we've been together for 10 years by the way.

2006-08-23 18:45:39 · 17 answers · asked by nates_mom2113 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-23 18:45:23 · 13 answers · asked by spectacular1290 1 in Singles & Dating

question, how would u want ur man to do it? where, how...?

2006-08-23 18:45:14 · 14 answers · asked by hotmodelanti 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My gf and I broke up 3 weeks ago exactly. We've both been trying to be best friends again, and it's been hard on me because I still love her. All of a sudden, she broke down after spending the day with me and told me she felt bad about our break up. She never seem to be sad about us breaking up. I manage to talk to her a day later and all of a sudden she broke down again. She said she felt bad about the break up. I didn't want to ask any questions about how she felt about me because I just didn't. I had promise her before I tried to be her best friend and not try to ask her about our relationship because it would annoy her. We were together for 1 year and 9 months, and before that we were good friends for about 4 years. What should I do? Does she still care? Does she still love me?

2006-08-23 18:45:01 · 10 answers · asked by Win 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been married for a few years now and our marriage is pretty good. At an event, which was held in another state, a few weeks ago I was having a great time being without my husband and going out with my friends. I was actually happy our schedules didn't allow us to be together because it let me catch up and just let loose. Af the event I drank a little too much and ended up kissing one of the men who also attended the event. It didn't go any further, but both of us were intoxicated - although we did sober up somewhat before it happend. The thing is I cannot stop thinking about this man, who I just met that night. We talked a few times on the phone since and his friends (and him) admit he has no luck with women. But since I returned home I think about him alot and know I would have kissed him even if I was sober - I was attracted to him a great deal. I'm just not sure what to do. He knows I'm married and we live far apart. I'm just curious what he thinks about me. Any suggestions?

2006-08-23 18:45:00 · 17 answers · asked by Elle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A stat says 29% woman are key bread earners in the family in 21 centry vs. 11% in 1960s. Is this cause more power struggles in modern marriage? (you know the guy's big ego thing)

2006-08-23 18:44:52 · 19 answers · asked by 1001Questions 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-23 18:43:44 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I need a good idea for a romantic event for my girlfriend and I. To show her that I love her as much as the day I meet her. I also need to make sure it will leave a lasting memory in her heart, or/and an item that she could take with her to college so that she will always think of me. I would appreciate any ideas. Thank you.

2006-08-23 18:43:20 · 11 answers · asked by xXxSmartGuyxXx 3 in Singles & Dating

Is it difficult to start to do that if you have been independent for a long time and make a lot money? Please share your experience.

2006-08-23 18:41:36 · 37 answers · asked by 1001Questions 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and she says she loves with him very much.And then she criticizes others people and says that it will never work .Do u think she is a hypocrite ?And gets intro other ppl bussness..

2006-08-23 18:41:20 · 7 answers · asked by Hea Dude ! 6 in Singles & Dating

Is it wrong or impossible to have faithful honest caring virgin girl who will love you a lot & 4ever? In my previous question I told u about a filipina. I left her because she made too much drama with me & maybe she wasnt the right girl for me. I became angry with her because of her damn dress what shows her body to anyother guys. Dont mind but I am not a bad guy I dont need or like it that my gf will show body to anyother guy I hate it because her eveything is special for me & its mine only I have rights on them. Is it wrong girls? Is it wrong to be good like this? I dont need many girls to have in my life but need one but she must be faithful honest beautiful & virgin who will really love me a lot. However before I thought what I have heard(bad) about filipina girls is wrong but now I know its true. So girls please answer me is it wrong to dream about a good girl now a days is it impossible to have & is it wrong to guide them for good & is it wrong to care them a lot? Answer please.

2006-08-23 18:40:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-23 18:40:29 · 22 answers · asked by princess 2 in Singles & Dating

attention!!WOMEN only!!!!!!!!!!

2006-08-23 18:39:06 · 7 answers · asked by gren 1 in Singles & Dating

he didn't show. He works with his Dad, his normal time on that day is 3:00, at 5:00 his mother called to say he was taking care of business with Dad, be home soon,at 9:00 I called his Mom, no answer, and she doesn't drive, I got worried. At 11:30 he comes home they all went out to eat and shopping.How would you feel. I am furious.

2006-08-23 18:38:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I gave him a second chance since he owned up and I still love him. The problem is the other girl did not that know I exist. Then how do I know that my bf really end the relationship with her unless she knew of my existance rite..

I got the girl's mobile no. through his phonebook secretly. I don't want to confront her but woman to woman talk cos I see no point quarrelling over a man. (For all I know maybe both of us might be the victims) At the same time, I don't know what my bf had been telling her.

But if this girl were to tell my bf that I called her, then more quarrels will arise. (Like sneaking his phonebook, not trusting him, etc..) This will only worsen our relationship and the girl will have more advantage over me. I don't want to jeopordise my relationship.

Should I call her or not?

2006-08-23 18:37:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am married for the past 4 years i have a 1 1/2 year old and am pregnant again due any day now. For the past 2 years my husband has changed from the warm and loving guy to someone who doesn't seem to care about anything and who procrastinates and puts me last all of a sudden. Especially since i had my son.

He has relocated to another state for a job and i want to move out there to be with him especially since the new baby is coming but he has made no efforts to find a place for us to live as a family he himself stays in an efficeny room. He wants me to stay here in the state that i am currently in and raise the kids.

I honestly feel like i should leave him and raise my boys myself. because if he wont be home but twice a month then whats the point. He hangs out playing basket ball with co workers or bowling and it seems like he is having a ball being on his own without us. He says he loves us all the time but actions speak louder than words. Help I would like some advice. Thank

2006-08-23 18:37:16 · 14 answers · asked by Driz69 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we have been dating a little over 5 yrs. he has been married 2 times and neither divorce was his fault. his last ex still is putting through alot. she' s a gold digger. he says he loves me but i want a commitment from him. we're not getting any younger and i don't want spend the rest for my life alone.when we talk about this he cuts it short and says he's content and not shopping for anyone else.

2006-08-23 18:37:03 · 10 answers · asked by sandy8dalejr 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Does celebration means only eating and drinking?

2006-08-23 18:37:00 · 3 answers · asked by IsThatSo 2 in Friends

When ur like 10 or younger or older why do you have to sleep early?

2006-08-23 18:35:43 · 4 answers · asked by ♥Michelle♥ 1 in Family

going to give my bf one but want to do it correctly. i dont wanna ask him and i dont really watch pron (that much:))

2006-08-23 18:35:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are there guys out there that still just want an honest to goodness relationship or is seriously just all about sex? Want some honest answers!

2006-08-23 18:35:22 · 15 answers · asked by its me! 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 18:35:06 · 6 answers · asked by dubdwells 2 in Singles & Dating

k...I met a guy online. I've talked to him once or twice....and I'm interested in him.Our schedules conflict so we never get any time to chat....He wants me to call him. Should I? He gave me his # right away and he e-mails me daily. he seems nice and honest and i would like to know more about him....I just don't think i should call him right away.....

2006-08-23 18:34:49 · 7 answers · asked by nicolea0329 2 in Friends

Personaly I think clubs are for single people or for couples to go together but not apart what's your oppinion?

2006-08-23 18:34:26 · 22 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Just found out about the web site www.myevent.com, as someone I know has their life's history laid out there, along with that of their fiance's. They are getting married in the near future and no detail is intimate for them to share. The site goes into great detail featuring their engagement, proposal, endless photos, biographies, and a vast amount of details that really seem like WAY TOO much information. Also, people have been told they have to check back periodically on the site to keep up on updates for the couple and wedding upcomign wedding details, parties, receptions, etc. Is this some new way of doing things for the younger set? I haven't got time to check back every week and the whole thing seems very self-centered. I don't need to know every word of the proposal, how she reacted, how God Is guiding them onward, why they are choosing to get married in an off beat locale, where they are registered, and other endless details.

2006-08-23 18:33:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

What's the differrence of the first, the second or the third...time of bad feeling in our life...for me it's still hurt and makes me weak...
despite the fact, I am not the teenager anymore!!

2006-08-23 18:32:02 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 18:31:32 · 20 answers · asked by pkchutani 1 in Friends

ladies please answer question part one ................. When a couple share a bank account the woman knows the man is very into surprising her when he goes and requests small amounts of money out of the clear blue sky from thier account to prepare to do something special....(mind you their anniversary is next month, or her birthday is coming up) do women usually get antsey about the account like whats it for, why do you need it, we need to pay bills, ya da ya da ya da. I just want to know is this a woman thing. should it be done another way to avoid the anarchy. Because when its all said and done it ususally ends with the guy saying forget it, and when he tells her she's like oh well you can do it yada ya da ya da.

guys answer question part two.......................... is it even worth it to bother going through all the retorick?

2006-08-23 18:31:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce