he erased the history for the monday and tuesday day where it looks like no one has even been online those days. He logged in under my sons name while i was at work because mine has a password. I asked him thursday night "hey babe did you erase the mon. and tues. history, there was a page i forgot to save on my favorites?"he says"History?, No why would I do that ?" I said"oh, ok no big deal, i must have on accident." nothing else was said about it. I'm pretty sure he had to have erased it because it shows today(thurs), wed. ,and then last week, no mon. or tues. I know for sure i was on the computer those days my son too? what can i do to tell? I know a little about computers but not enough to go digging. Anyone have any suggestions? This may sound crazy to some but i'm just wondering why he would lie about something like this? we've been together for 10 years by the way.
2006-08-23 18:45:39 · 17 answers · asked by nates_mom2113 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't understand trust issues like these in a marriage. Ask him what he was doing, if you really want to know. If you can't trust him to answer you truthfully then maybe more needs to be done then spying on him. Get some couples counseling or something. Good luck to you both.
2006-08-31 18:50:46 · answer #1 · answered by STEPHEEDEE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ten years is a long time, but he has his own privacy. He may be probably looking up into some '''u-know-what''' sites...and probably chatting with people who are totally not real, whatever, its just his private, very private side. You could insist to him, by showing him that you know the fact that he has erased...
But curiosity can lead to unnecessary suspicions. You could click on ur ''start'' button on the left hand corner of your computer screen, right click and u'd get a menu with ''explore''. Go to explore, and you'd get a new window. In that click on ''windows'' ((usually it should be in that)) and under that you get files called ''cookies'', ''temp'' or ''temperory internet folders''....I think thats where you'd find sites that anyone's logged on to. You should be 'offline'' to open any of those pages, or else they wont open and would simply show you a blank page....
Curiosity gets the worst out of everyone I guess. I feel sorry for initiating you to check on him (if the above works, that is). But I am sure it would stick in your mind forever thinking what he's up to....you may find out and just forget about it.
2006-08-23 19:00:14 · answer #2 · answered by arya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of clue do you need. He's either on My Space or chatting with someone on messenger. Your relationship must suck when your boyfriend is SO bored he fools around the computer and not you. Do something before it's too late. He probably has girls he talks to on a regular basis. Start doing some girlfriend CSI stuff on him to find on the real story.
2006-08-31 18:26:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to lock it down and tell him your son is in trouble or something but let him use yours and stay close by. Sure you need to give him some privacy but if it's not bad then why hide it? Obviously there's guilt for some reason, not the need for privacy. Sounds like porn sites, honestly. Talk to him without accusing him of anything, or get your son to spy on him :) Be careful, Be safe
2006-08-23 18:56:24 · answer #4 · answered by Nikie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you want to know? If so, what you need is a key stroke logger. It will show you every website that the computer goes to, and id and passwords, Also if instant messenger is used, will give id and password and what is said in chat. Do a search of free keystroke logger, or the one below is free I believe for 30 days but it is fully functional
2006-08-23 18:54:42 · answer #5 · answered by Amy S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was just looking at some porn and doesnt want to tell you, if you think that it was something more serious than that, then you two need to talk, if not, dont get upset with him looking at porn, and maybe say u want to look at some with him...see what happens, then if he still wants to hide stuff from you tell him that you are going to get some spyware and find out where he was, so he better tell you and save the fight.....
2006-08-23 18:57:39 · answer #6 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry...I don't know what to tell you. Is this the first time he's erased the history? If it happens again, I would sit down with him and really find out what's going on.
2006-08-31 18:37:12 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may be chatting with other women, men (hey you never know, i watch oprah), or looking at porn. ask him to stop lying and keep it real with you. there are ways to find out things about the internet. if the government can find your perosnla business then you can find a way to catch your husband in a lie.
2006-08-23 19:10:57 · answer #8 · answered by averilyn06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the computer store ask them there is a way remove your sons way to get on the computer easy and have him set it up with a pass word and tell him not to tell any one
2006-08-23 18:52:16 · answer #9 · answered by dalecollins64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he erased the history then theres no way you can see what he erased.. you could put a video cam in there
2006-08-23 18:49:33 · answer #10 · answered by Meddle2K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋